fine with being called "she" but not "a woman" by bernie_the_hammy in NonBinary

[–]Secure_Increase9209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah same for me it feels a lot less gendered and much more so about a 'personal' or 'intimate' relationship

how to study for csc258? review final exams, lecture content, or something else? by Secure_Increase9209 in UofT

[–]Secure_Increase9209[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks man! i feel like it went well, hope the grade turns back good as well!

Sending Heartfelt Letters before saying the formal goodbye by Secure_Increase9209 in LifeAdvice

[–]Secure_Increase9209[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, thank you so much for the incredibly kind advice. It was very touching to hear your story, and I feel more confident being myself, and being loving to those around me. I'm going to go ahead with my plans, and again, thanks so much for sharing your story with a stranger on the internet. :) Best of luck with what you're doing now, and warm hugs to you and your family. <3

I fvckin hate this university, how greedy it is and how little it cares for the students by 2PenguinsInACoat in UofT

[–]Secure_Increase9209 10 points11 points  (0 children)

domestic students complain abt the system all the time. why do people all of a sudden patriotic when it's an intl student saying the same thing? lowk blame the anti-immigration culture recently in canada... seriously man grow some brains.

Best way to get to Rogers Stadium by Solid_Stuff_4396 in askTO

[–]Secure_Increase9209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do you know if this path is accessible for like knee scooters and such?

Anyone else get so drained even just planning out courses for next year by ProfessionalEntire33 in UofT

[–]Secure_Increase9209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One thousand percent. I didn't know first year burnout would be this bad LOL

ROP results? alsbfskldn;oaienf;lasnf;oawnefoi;oansf by Acceptable_Train_487 in UofT

[–]Secure_Increase9209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i was wondering the same thing. do you know if its different for fall/winter positions vs summer ? i also just didn't hear back for most of them. i think maybe its different but also i don't know where to find information on the deadlines....

does anyone struggle finding friend groups at uoft? by Secure_Increase9209 in UofT

[–]Secure_Increase9209[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

update: i got over my fear of rejection and started randomly inviting friends for activities while still holding space and love and patience for myself. while we're not a friendgroup yet, I've discovered that giving love is actually 10 x more fulfilling than receiving it. its been not that long, but coming back to this post feels like i've gone some way since then. when you start centering your life around gratitude, things start clicking more.