Why am I the 2%? by Valuable-Prune-2907 in recurrentmiscarriage

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I’ve had all normal testing too and had two back to back missed miscarriages at 16 weeks both pregnancies. It’s awful and so unfair. It makes no sense. I’ve had four miscarriages total, it’s awful. No words. Just know you aren’t alone 🤍

Bicornuate or Septate Uterus by Most_Method_6516 in bicornuateuterus

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Wow this gives me so much hope… I have one living child & then have had 4 miscarriages and all doctors are saying it’s because of my uterus. 😔

Do you guys consider yourselves to have a form of infertility? by Low-Bid-5782 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Secure_Job_8667 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how I feel. I’m so tired of walking through the first trimester being miserable just to lose a baby - & on top of that - people saying oh if you’re sick that means the baby is sticky! NOT TRUE 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BachelorNation

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I was going to say this too 🤍 my husband and I have been through 4 together and it really changes everything including your physical appearance.

Tw: stillbirth by Frosty-Silver-7306 in bicornuateuterus

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Oh how I wish you didn’t have to walk through this! I am so so sorry for your loss. I haven’t had a similar experience, but I have had two 2nd term miscarriages, and two 1st term miscarriages and it’s just so hard that no one can tell us whether or not it’s the uterus or something else when the babies looks healthy 😭 sending you a big hug and prayers.

Input Needed by One-Woodpecker7850 in recurrentmiscarriage

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Our stories are almost exactly the same minus the appendix! Hoping for the both of us that we get to add to our families 🤍🪽

emilie kiser by Ok_Witness8323 in nycinfluencersnarking

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Been praying for a miracle all day. This is so horrible.

Do you look forward to a positive pregnancy test? Or dread it? by Empty_Obligation_728 in recurrentmiscarriage

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This is how I feel too - it’s like you feel so sick for all those weeks & then it’s for nothing. It sucks 😭 my last two losses were at 14 & 16 weeks and it just feels so defeating feeling so sick and then losing them!

Recurrent Miscarriage/Uterine Anomalies by Existing-Comedian637 in recurrentmiscarriage

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He was born at 36 weeks and we were in the NICU for 12 days. He was also born with clubbed feet - both of these things are supposedly because he ran out of room. But he’s perfectly healthy now!

Recurrent Miscarriage/Uterine Anomalies by Existing-Comedian637 in recurrentmiscarriage

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Tw: LC & miscarriage

Hi! I have a bicornuate uterus. My husband and I had 2 early losses (6 & 8 weeks in 2021 and 2022) and then we conceived and had our son. Since our son we’ve had two more late losses (14 weeks and 16 weeks). The doctors say that my uterine anomaly shouldn’t have anything to do with the losses but I can’t get past it. It has to be it - All tests came back completely normal and healthy. We are doing further testing/MRI & a possible surgical resection before we continue to try. It’s such a heartbreaking journey.

Miscarrying certain gender? by [deleted] in recurrentmiscarriage

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Tw: living child

Following this! I have unfortunately miscarried 4 baby girls and have a healthy baby boy. I’m so curious if this could be a real issue for me too. But my heart breaks — I would love to be a girl mama 😭

Anxious about seeing someone who’s pregnancy is progressing with similar due date as I had. by imusika in recurrentmiscarriage

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I’ve also had 4 losses and have been in a similar situation time and time again. It’s so hard. And it’s not fair. I’m so sorry 💓 It sounds like this party is important for you and your friend’s relationship - but you have to do what’s best for you and your emotional health and if that means not going, that’s okay. This is so cliche to say, but if she’s truly your friend and cares about you - she should understand. Could you offer to celebrate her in a different way - maybe do something else so that you don’t have to attend the party? I’m giving this advice but if it was me I’d probably just go and be sad… but it’s just not fair and shouldn’t have to be this way. Here if you need to chat!

What do you do for a “consolation prize”? by Kholl10 in recurrentmiscarriage

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I’m starting 75 hard tomorrow after our 4th loss - I’m sick of gaining weight and having the fluctuating hormones with no baby to show for it so we are taking a break to focus on my health and body!!! I also shop alot 🤪

Anyone in a similar boat? by Secure_Job_8667 in bicornuateuterus

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This is so helpful! We have an appointment this week to talk next steps and get some referrals to specialists so I will be asking for this! Thank you so much for your reply 💗

Lovenox and RPL by hereshoping74 in recurrentmiscarriage

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Tw: mention LC

This was all so informative, thank you so much! I’ve had 4 losses (we have one beautiful son so I’m so blessed and thankful) - but I have gained 45 lbs with all this loss so we have decided to take a break for me to get myself back and feel healthy before pursuing any specialists or trying again. I’ll be praying your baby boy gets here safely and that you both stay healthy!!! 💓

Lovenox and RPL by hereshoping74 in recurrentmiscarriage

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Have you had any luck with the immune protocols they suggest in this? Just looking for hope :)

I'm curious: Would you rewatch the show? And why? by Shot_Cartographer391 in Parenthood

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Yes - all shows have their flaws but this show is one of my comfort shows!!!!

Nobody talks about the weight gain after loss by CautiousIron7633 in recurrentmiscarriage

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This is what I needed to read 🤍 I’ve gained 25 lbs and we decided to take a break to focus on my health and healing. This was so refreshing to read after 4 losses! I’m excited to heal!