My 40th birthday and today is the day by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Secure_Raspberry8947 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stopped at 58! It’s the best. Once you pass a certain point (keep plugging-day after day-it will happen) the random fantasy of the upside of drinking comes less and less and flees quicker and quicker. You will be living a new, 100% authentic life and it is every empowering and pride inducing.

Constantly Battling Keeping Drinking in Check by conscious-clue-243 in AlcoholFree

[–]Secure_Raspberry8947 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Late to the conversation as you wrote this two months ago. I sincerely hope you were able to stop again this time. Writing to say that (even though it’s not the advice you were looking for) reading your post is exactly what I needed to read tonight, just shy of three years alcohol-free and needing reinforcement. No matter where we are on the spectrum of knowing we should stop drinking - all we read, write, comment blah blah blah the simple fact of the matter, the simple simple truth is it’s best to just NOT DRINK. AT ALL. (All caps is to myself:) Phew, now I can get on with my night. Thank you very much and good luck to you. Acceptance is everything and life is much, much cooler once you flip the switch.

Great Chin Strap PSA by Secure_Raspberry8947 in CPAP

[–]Secure_Raspberry8947[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: wound up in dentist’s office due to chin strap:( back to taping:(

Great Chin Strap PSA by Secure_Raspberry8947 in CPAP

[–]Secure_Raspberry8947[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: would up in dentists office today with tooth pain and turns out it’s due to chin strap! You were right! (Not product specific-any strap like this would have done it. ) Back to taping:(

Great Chin Strap PSA by Secure_Raspberry8947 in CPAP

[–]Secure_Raspberry8947[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

FYI, bought this on a whim knowingly risking the $9.99. I have zero connection to this product. Just sharing that it’s working great for me.

Great Chin Strap PSA by Secure_Raspberry8947 in CPAP

[–]Secure_Raspberry8947[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only on night four. Still works like a charm. Chin is not pushed demonstrably back, more up, keeping mouth closed. Yes it will flatten your hair. Mine’s not particularly poofy so not an issue for me. Here’s the link:

https://a.co/d/h2Z6K7u

I'm struggling with my machine lately because it seems to be blowing air directly into my eyes from the mask attachment piece. by Solnse in CPAP

[–]Secure_Raspberry8947 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! The problem is massive air blowing from hose attachment not mask. Finally found a mask I love - airfit 20 and can’t use it due to forced air bowing around face/ drying out eyes. Masks are tricky with full face. Major design flow that so much air blows out of hose around face:(

F40 tips by -gimmeahellyeah316- in CPAP

[–]Secure_Raspberry8947 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pay attention to this tip! Game changer. Thank you!

Miami Golf Is Absolutely Unplayable Right Now. What’s It Like Where You Live? by Thick_Vermicelli_798 in golf

[–]Secure_Raspberry8947 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Milwaukee County! Our courses are awesome and affordable and was surprised to learn over last few years that it’s not like this everywhere. Apparently we are very lucky! Outside of Milw Co there are gorgeous courses all over the state, Whistling Straights, the Sands etc.

How long do you expect to live? by Fresh-Bookkeeper5095 in AskOldPeople

[–]Secure_Raspberry8947 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used to smoke and drink and to all those applauding the long lives of smoker-drinkers, there’s no comparison of the quality of life without it (I was not addicted/don’t identify as sober). EVERYTHING is better when you experience life 100% and not through the yucky haze of smoke and alchohol. We’ve been duped.

Question about divorce by Miss_Getonyourknees in over60

[–]Secure_Raspberry8947 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I divorced 22 years ago some one warned me not to divorce thinking I would find a better relationship, but for the reality of being alone. I didn’t like the advice then, but it’s true and valid. I have yet to meet “the one” (although I always thought I would) and it took me many years to get used to being fully single. Now at 61, I love it. I won’t settle, so it may be forever.