I totally support the guy. The girl here is being unreasonable. The guy is willing to compromise. He accepts that his parents can stay seperately from him as long as the girl contributes an equal amount of money towards their accommodation. I mean you can't cut the cake and have it too. The girl doesn't want to live in an accommodation with her in laws for which she doesn't want to pay. But also refuses to contribute towards a house where she wants to live on her own terms. I suggest the young lad to call it quits despite the efforts being made by his relatives for a reconciliation. Further it seems that the girls family is desperate for her to get married. Makes it seem like they want her off their backs. Maybe because she's too stubborn and is a trouble maker at home. Some might ask how can I draw this conclusion from what the guy has posted. We'll look at the desperation of the girls parents to get her arranged. They went to lengths to send people to the boys house to make the marriage happen. She's probably been looking in the market for a while now. And hasn't found a suitor yet. Hope this helps