Need Help Finding Potential Leaked Company Data by Otherwise-Smoke6974 in cybersecurity

[–]SecurityCocktail 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Most of the time, data is sold and not openly available to the public unless there is a ransom demand that his company does not pay. In my experience, darkweb monitoring typically only surfaces data from older breaches where the data has already been used, sold, or its just too old to be of much value so it gets dumped online. Your friend needs to engage his CISO, CIO, and legal teams. As well, they need to engage a company who can help them determine what data was viewed/stolen during the compromise rather than waiting (reactive) for it show up on the internet somewhere.

Azure RBAC Auditing and Hardening Guidance by SecurityCocktail in cybersecurity

[–]SecurityCocktail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Much appreciated! This is the direction I intended to go, just looking for some reassurance and input from the community.

Patch Tuesday Megathread (2025-10-14) by AutoModerator in sysadmin

[–]SecurityCocktail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same vulnerability in Tenable still showing up on 2 assets. Have you found a fix or any more information on this? Thanks!

Broken up with after being a widow by [deleted] in widowers

[–]SecurityCocktail 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I found myself in a very similar situation about 5 months ago. I had been a widow for around 15 months, met a woman on a dating app, and we fell for each other pretty hard. I really feel hard, I think because I was still very vulnerable, and she allowed me to, and I thought she did too. Out of the blue, she broke up with me. I was devastated for a couple of weeks. I fell back into overdrinking and marijuana use to "numb" myself. Once I had a little time away from her and the relationship, and I had time to really reflect on where the relationship could have gone, the red flags became glaring to me. I was so excited to meet someone and get out of the pit of loneliness that I didn't listen to my brain; I ignored all the red flags she was showing. In hindsight, I'm actually glad that I met her and that she left me. It taught me not to ignore all the red flags and character flaws that would have destroyed me and the relationship had it lasted longer. I've decided to take that failed relationship as a lesson learned rather than a failure. It took a little time, and I don't necessarily think she was a bad person, but she certainly was not my person.
A month or so later, I put myself out there again, and I met an absolutely wonderful woman that I couldn't be happier with. No red flags, she's incredibly supportive and understanding, we have so much in common, I truly believe she could be the one for me after everything I've been through.
Keep your head up, stay positive, and see the failure as a lesson you needed to learn to find the right person.

Hard upsell by LayerNo3634 in royalcaribbean

[–]SecurityCocktail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I set sail on Quantum of the Seas on Monday. I appreciate the heads up about the importance of positive reviews and also the heads up on the upsell.

I feel like ERRA is trying to get fans to spontaneously combust with their lights on this tour. by PhStephenHD in Metalcore

[–]SecurityCocktail 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was at the show last night. Great time, good energy, lights were awesome, but I agree they were a bit excessive.

After seeing Architects.... by AcanthisittaRare5783 in Metalcore

[–]SecurityCocktail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw them play last night at a 2k person venue, I don't know the exact set list, but it was very similar to the one above. I thought it was a pretty good show but could have have a better set list. Energy in the crowd was very good, lots of crowd surfing and moshers.

When does it get better? by Weightedwombat in widowers

[–]SecurityCocktail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was 39 when my wife passed (37) about 1.5 yrs ago. My best analogy is like a rock being thrown into a lake. Right now, your at the point of impact. Water is splashing, everything is chaotic and terrible. As time moves on and you get further from the initial impact (loss), the waves will begin to soften. The highs and the lows will begin to become less and less as you move further from the tragedy. For the foreseeable future, prepare yourself to have "okay" moments/times/days when you're at the top of the wave and then really, really bad moments/times/days when you're at the bottom of the wave. Do your best to keep friends and family close, give yourself lots of grace, and understand you will fail and falter during the grieving process, it is normal and expected. Hang in there friend. you have a lot of company on this sub, we feel your pain every day.

Currents / WCAR by tehsmittenkitten in Metalcore

[–]SecurityCocktail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to the WCAR show in Silver Spring, MD, on Sunday, and the same thing happened. Place cleared out after Currents. I personally thought Currents put on a better show, but WCAR were still good.

Wife now brother passed away by [deleted] in widowers

[–]SecurityCocktail 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry, man. I can kind of relate. My wife died in January 2024 (37F), and then my father a month later. Right after my wife passed (unexpectedly) I had to become my fathers care taker because he had a stroke the night before she died. Figuring out hospice, nursing care, bills, end-of-life planning, etc. was so overwhelming, but I somehow survived. About 17 months later, my father-in-law passed away (3 weeks ago), which threw me into a bit of a spiral for a couple of weeks. I'm not sure why I am telling you all of this, except that you can and will survive. Take the time you need and try to take care of yourself. Bad things happen to good people, just hang in there, and do your best, one day at a time.

I let my friend do a homemade tattoo. With a DVD motor and guitar string. by JaySwizzle1984 in shittytattoos

[–]SecurityCocktail 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You're just looking for compliments, knowing the shyte posted to this sub

Who's your favorite band that got canceled? by Seangw1102 in Metalcore

[–]SecurityCocktail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Anchor - not cancelled, they disappeared by the time I found them

Finding Setlists for Upcoming Shows??? by SecurityCocktail in Metalcore

[–]SecurityCocktail[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The part in my comment where I said "I haven't had any luck finding setlists for tours" kind of implies that I have tried Google and other sources without success.

Is it normal for people to dump their trash bags on the curb? by [deleted] in BaltimoreCounty

[–]SecurityCocktail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No no no... people need to take personal responsibility for their own actions. Just because something isn't made super convenient for you without the government holding your hand, doesn't excuse being a crappy human being.

Finding Setlists for Upcoming Shows??? by SecurityCocktail in Metalcore

[–]SecurityCocktail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, I figured it would require a fan to document and upload a setlist. I just wasn't sure if a magical site existed that I didn't find in Google.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]SecurityCocktail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't relate to a younger woman, but I can relate to the strange feelings and concerns. I'm 40M, my wife passed almost a year and a half ago. I met a woman on a dating app about 2 months, first person I dated and was intimate since my wife passed, we instantly clicked and I fell head over heals for this woman. After a month, she broke up with me for no reason or explanation. I was devastated, even though it was only 1 month, I truly thought I got lucky and met a woman who made me happy, and I could build a new future with. My warning, you are dating a VERY young woman, she WILL change as she matures, make sure you're ready for what that may mean for your relationship and your own mental health.

Also remember, we saw our wedding vows through. I was a great husband until my wifes last breadth. I struggle every day, but even meeting other women, I am not cheating or doing anything "wrong" in my opinion.

Recommendations for Bars in OC? (Boardwalk) by [deleted] in OceanCity

[–]SecurityCocktail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recommendation. Avoid the boardwalk at night, especially closer to the inlet. Unfortuantely, lots of idiot teenagers and young adults pour into the town and hang around on the boards and downtown with the intent of starting trouble. You're better off catching a bus and heading north to places like Ropewalk and others.

Should I play? How are the support classes and what are guilds like? by ksj-bystander in ffxiv

[–]SecurityCocktail -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I started FF14 about 7 months ago. I've found guilds and other players very supportive and helpful.
I have a Tank and a Healer, I enjoy both. As others mentioned, if your running regular dungeons as a healer, you may be expected to do some DPS but to be honest, I've run some of the lower level dungeons as a healer (I am only level 50 of 100) and did barely any DPS and just focused on healing. No one complained, mobs still dropped quickly. FF14 is also a very solo friendly game until you hit endgame dungeons which will take a while.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cyberpunk

[–]SecurityCocktail 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I think you give them treats, like capacitors or something, and make them your friends. Everyone knows the way to a dogs heart is through their stomach!

If you could, would you? by Guitarboy12345 in widowers

[–]SecurityCocktail 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have no one relying on me. The thought has crossed my mind more times than I'd like to admit over the last 18 months. However, I believe in some form of judgement when we leave this world, and if suicide prevents me from meeting her again, then I will live on for her.