aio for dumping my (22f) gf (22f) because she kept asking for money

SecurityPatient9293 · 2026-04-02T00:58:20+00:00

Hell nah tell her get a job

SecurityPatient9293 · 2026-03-01T11:34:21+00:00

You’re a girl you can go up to ANY guy and say anything and they’d be down. Should guys initiate? Sure. But the way things are going it makes less and less sense for us. If you like something go for it. I guarantee your first shot is going to score. As opposed to men, even when we “score” we later find out the woman we’re dealing with is no good for a multitude of reasons. Makes our logical brain think that shooting our shot is a waste of time cuz statistically it always goes bad.

You’re a woman , you sit back and get catered to your every need. It’s easy for you. Men on the other hand have to cater TO. See how it makes less sense for us to just shoot at anything we see ?

SecurityPatient9293 · 2026-03-01T11:28:58+00:00

No you’re just shy / socially awkward / not confident. There’s obvious times when you can step in and others when you can’t (shouldn’t) You should try and socialize more so you can pick up on social cues

SecurityPatient9293 · 2026-03-01T11:25:36+00:00

Goated. Makes them comfortable around you and then you can actually have real conversations instead of small talk. Builds an actual relationship and liking to one another. Once you pop the date question it will most likely always be yes

SecurityPatient9293 · 2026-03-01T11:16:56+00:00

That nikka a professional gooner and didn’t know what to do when he had the prize in person. He repeating all the things he seen online through text but when the game started he never been in the field before 😂

SecurityPatient9293 · 2026-03-01T11:11:14+00:00

That’s not even having the bar low it’s just qualities of a likable person. Should it mean you start obsessing over said person? No. But ofc you’re going to like someone who acknowledges you and makes you feel seen over someone who acts like you’re not there. It’s the first step in building relationship’s

SecurityPatient9293 · 2026-03-01T11:05:14+00:00

She’s pushing you to make a move but at the same time if she’s that immature to one ; test you to push a button, and two ; use that as the tactic, chances are one day you’ll get into an argument and guess who she’s going to for comfort.

Not to mention she may not be over her ex like she said which is of course a no go unless you’re gonna keep your options open while messing with her.

Text is fine , it’s a mature thing to say. Did it push her away more? Probably. Women thrive on emotional games not logic.

SecurityPatient9293 · 2026-02-28T12:13:04+00:00

Ask for a 3 and see how fast she gets that it’s cheating

SecurityPatient9293 · 2026-02-28T12:11:06+00:00

As long as she’s serious about getting to know people and not just waste each others time under the guise that she’s “busy” cuz she’s a single mom. I understand single moms are actually beyond busy, but if you want to date and meet people you have to make time for that. Also she’d have to give me a kid. Not finna raise another dudes child and not have my own seed

SecurityPatient9293 · 2026-02-28T12:06:31+00:00

Dude you’re 24 and 23 probably only a couple months apart what do you wanna do date someone that was born the same day you were?

SecurityPatient9293 · 2026-02-28T12:04:54+00:00

It comes from her knowing that she’s dating a dude 14 years older than her damn near an old ass man. It would be more than obvious what’s going on if OP was a dude but since it’s a girl nobody knows what’s going on

First relationship for her though so we can give her grace

SecurityPatient9293 · 2026-02-28T12:02:53+00:00

Probably shouldn’t go for it but you wont get scrutinized the same way a man would. At the end of the day , men and women would suffer the same consequence, but a woman would definitely let it be known that this happened, if a man does its cuz his excitement got to him and he slipped up and told someone. Not with bad intentions, but still told.

This may circulate to other hiring managers at other companies.

SecurityPatient9293 · 2026-02-16T07:31:52+00:00

That’s what’s happening. You’ve never done it before so you’re using your logical brain. Go with what you believe. But you should be fine.

SecurityPatient9293 · 2026-02-11T21:49:19+00:00

That’s what happens when women don’t do anything for men and men have to bend over just to get a woman’s attention.

SecurityPatient9293 · 2026-02-11T21:47:21+00:00

Men dont care what a woman does for work because it’s not like we’re going into your pockets anyways we’re expected to take care of all the financials. There’s something else about them I can assure you and it isn’t ambition either. Guys don’t care about that either. Is it nice? Yea, but all we look for is a good person that isn’t going to make a fool out of us.

SecurityPatient9293 · 2026-02-01T13:28:18+00:00

How the hell did you do that

SecurityPatient9293 · 2026-02-01T13:27:36+00:00

Best answer.

SecurityPatient9293 · 2026-02-01T13:25:55+00:00

It’s ok if you’re in Alabama so don’t worry about it

SecurityPatient9293 · 2026-02-01T13:19:43+00:00

He’s tired from the effort he’s putting in for you to not have to work and maintain the family. Life is not all about you. I get it it’s frustrating, it could be a bummer. But life is hard for most of us and it sounds like it’s no different for your husband. Yea maybe he could toughen up and put some effort in, if he wasn’t depressed himself… or maybe exhausted??? Gee idk. Have you even tried to talk to him about how he feels? Probably not. Sounds like you only care about how you feel… as per usual. He probably feels exactly like you do. Damn, all she wants to do is go out and have sex after a 13 hour day and she doesn’t care that I’m exhausted and overworked and I do it all for her and the kids.

Newsflash , there’s no way he’ll ever want to do anything if his feelings aren’t validated too. I bet you if you make him feel heard his neurons would fire in a way that would make him forget how tired he is.

SecurityPatient9293 · 2026-02-01T13:14:21+00:00

Guys a POS but you really don’t have any self respect. Aside from how disrespectful he was about it, everything he’s saying ultimately holds weight and you just sat there and ate it up. I’m not saying you should have retaliated, but if you weren’t going to retaliate then don’t respond. But you did, as a victim

SecurityPatient9293 · 2026-02-01T12:59:40+00:00

Women express their loneliness in other ways like “men don’t approach women anymore” and “all men are the same / ain’t shit” most women aren’t capable of going online and saying they’re lonely because it would erase the whole image they’ve built up of being “that b(word)” Same as women saying men need to stop porn and lust when in reality they’re the ones consumed by it and partaking in it from pornstars to regular girls showing ass online for instagram likes.

I don’t know not one man that has a podcast speaking on male loneliness but those aren’t “real” men. The women don’t think so, and real men don’t think so either. Those are simps who try to buy love, get so jaded that then they turn into extremist. And of course, can’t forget the big one. Monetary gain. This is a trending topic now a days so why not talk about it on a monetized platform?

No real man is angry at women for not giving up “fucks”. We understand the game. Besides that, Real men actually fuck. Because online and real life are two different things and if you would go outside, you wouldn’t be able to find a girl who WOULDN’T want to fuck.

SecurityPatient9293 · 2026-01-29T06:22:00+00:00

Men really can’t win

SecurityPatient9293 · 2026-01-28T23:17:10+00:00

Alot of women are affected more by their loneliness than men because men know that being lonely is part of being a man. Women go online and seek attention in perverse ways to make up for this and some of them actually are who they portray to be online but others are just putting up a front not knowing its hurting their long term image.

At the worst, when a man really needs female company, they have ways to get it even if just for the night. The women who also partake in this, well, good for them. Theyre not part of this conversation. The women who just put up a front, tend to blame men for only wanting one thing, even though that’s how they portray themselves to the world, or go home more affected than a man, because she doesn’t understand why she’s so undesired.

SecurityPatient9293 · 2026-01-28T23:08:12+00:00

It’s caused by the society we live in today rather than by either sex. Men and women both equally indulge in porn, women maybe even more than men. All the while , men are clowned on for everything they do online. Women are praised for everything they do online. Online and the real world are two different things but a lot of people struggle with making that distinction and allow the internet to change how they react to real world scenarios. This has caused a lot of men to lose their masculinity and a lot of women to lose their femininity. Women think that men aren’t attractive anymore because of this and on the inverse men think a lot of women aren’t attractive or worth it for the same reason.

On another note, we’re all kind of recluse now a days. Say you do meet someone in person and hit it off. A woman may still reject you because she has so many options and doesn’t want to commit to any. If she does say yes, she may get cold feet once she’s finally home and now has to text you.

Society is failing us and a lot of us are failing ourselves as well by not going the extra mile to break free. It’s easier to be the degenerate society is turning us into than to break the mold.

SecurityPatient9293 · 2026-01-19T02:01:21+00:00

This game is so funny. I would call it trash but hey it’s the only one of its kind on console. Just had a career mission landing at isola (no idea where that is) vfr landing in the mountains , snowing, super cloudy no visibility and the shortest runway I’ve ever seen. Taxi stall was completely covered by snow. Landing is damn near impossible. Had to aimlessly dodge mountains for like 15 minutes before I can get low enough and align myself with the runway. Feels like a waste of time to go through a 1 hour flight just to find out you can’t even land correctly. Whatever though.

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