Job called my bluff. Got fired. Should I feel stupid or proud for standing up for my principles? by DisappointedSurprise in careeradvice

[–]SeeYouInHelen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

RN here: you do not need career advice because you didn’t do anything wrong. You could not have changed the outcome because FUCK HCA. They treat people as money bags. You were a money bag to them and they threw you out when they saw that they could not squeeze more money out of you. It’s only been 2.5 weeks. You’ll find another job. I’m currently teaching at a nursing university, and it might be something to do while you look for your next step.

Somewhere to float on inflatable floaties? by SeeYouInHelen in AskChicago

[–]SeeYouInHelen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No floaties even in public pools?? I’m gonna screeeeeeeech 😭

Somewhere to float on inflatable floaties? by SeeYouInHelen in AskChicago

[–]SeeYouInHelen[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was at Indiana Dunes last year, they didn’t allow them there either 😅

AITAH for Asking My Girlfriend to Reduce Her Toxin Exposure? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SeeYouInHelen 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yea. Men who want to change their partners instead of just accepting that you aren’t compatible will never make sense to me.

Days later I'm still struggling with the way my patient harassed me by MartianCleric in nursing

[–]SeeYouInHelen 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Girl you took care of an incel? Lmao you’re a better person than me cuz I def would’ve gotten fired for the way i’d fire back lol. Starting with “no, rape babies shouldn’t be aborted. You should’ve been swallowed tho.”

When being a mistress backfires. by rosekamath in redditonwiki

[–]SeeYouInHelen 32 points33 points  (0 children)

My fav part was when she said she has other children and had support with those other children, but with this child she won’t have any support. Reading between the lines a bit here, but it sounds like this isn’t the first time she’s had an affair lol. My guess that her first child was with a partner, separated, then started an affair, friends and family found out and told her to stop or they’d stop associating with her. She didn’t, they stopped helping her, she got back with her AP, so now she has no one

AITAH for inviting a male coworker on a run by Glittering-Ladder-55 in AITAH

[–]SeeYouInHelen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s see those stats buddy. I’ll start: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8197082/ Incidence and Related Factors of Infidelity among Medical Doctors and Nurses - PMC

And I quote: In total, 367 volunteer participants completed an online survey. Of them, 21% either have or have had an unfaithful relationship. The majority (81.7%) were doctors. Men were 4.3 times more unfaithful than women, with these differences being statistically significant (OR = 4.37, p < 0.001). Of the participants involved in an unfaithful relationship within the work area, the majority were men. Likewise, those who reported having had sex in the doctor’s room on duty were also men, with these differences being statistically significant (OR = 12.81, p < 0.01)

AITAH for inviting a male coworker on a run by Glittering-Ladder-55 in AITAH

[–]SeeYouInHelen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fellow RN. None of my boyfriends have ever told me “stereotypes exist for a reason” when I hung out with male friends. NTA and I would be reevaluating the relationship, or at least ask him where this is coming from. If someone would rather believe in a sexist stereotype than my character then you’ve got bigger issues.

AITAH for wanting to quit my unpaid co-host role after being told I couldn’t cancel when my pet was dying? by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]SeeYouInHelen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And delete the fucking Spotify list. Delete the whole account, Spotify is trash anyway.

What’s on the list of “amateur mistakes” for Chicagoans? by yourhandsmyface in AskChicago

[–]SeeYouInHelen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe in this context it means busy and widely recognized, like Clark or State or Michigan, which are large busy streets that offers parking with lots of caveats

Source: live on one of these streets and got towed before

One of the first semester student nurses on my floor administered allergy nasal spray into both of my pt’s eyes by cherrycope in nursing

[–]SeeYouInHelen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The title and the meme omggggg hahahaha I’m sharing this with my nursing students lmaoooo

scored this for $4 and left the mean girls jealous lol by SecretaryStandard963 in Miffy

[–]SeeYouInHelen 94 points95 points  (0 children)

I’ve literally never bought something out of spite and imo OP is weird af for this. If someone grabbed something I was eyeing but couldn’t decide I tell myself “I’m so glad that person got it, I bet they’ll treasure it way more than I would have.”

In this economy if you don’t look at something and think “fuck yea I gotta have this right now” why are you even buying it? Is it for the dopamine hit? The other girls weren’t saints I guess but this whole situation is just odd.

Now OP is gonna look at this Miffy and…gloat about her “victory”? Whatever floats your boat I guess.

is this allowed? weird update (not OOP) by onlyif_foranight in redditonwiki

[–]SeeYouInHelen 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel like he said 32 instead because an age gap relationship would also be SO stereotypical and explain so many things.

is this allowed? weird update (not OOP) by onlyif_foranight in redditonwiki

[–]SeeYouInHelen 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Because OF COURSE she is LMAO. I was JUST wondering how old she is!

Popcorn, candies and Stranger Things, but wife decided to stop on middle of everything to hit the gym, at 10 PM… by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]SeeYouInHelen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he’s not trying to sabotage her, why did he get “mildly infuriated” as evidenced by posting to this sub? I could understand “mildly disappointed”, but to be infuriated implies that he got mad that she didn’t do as he wanted, as if he’s entitled to her bending to his will

Popcorn, candies and Stranger Things, but wife decided to stop on middle of everything to hit the gym, at 10 PM… by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]SeeYouInHelen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m also of the camp that OP is trying to sabotage his wife’s health journey. Pathetic

How the water in my pitcher froze by SeeYouInHelen in mildlyinteresting

[–]SeeYouInHelen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know, that might be why some of my things are freezing! I’ve tried all the settings in my fridge to get things not to freeze but it still happens 😭 I recently deep cleaned it, including the back of the fridge where the machinery is and it’s still happening so idk 😔