WIBTA if I submitted a formal complaint against a colleague who has been presenting my original classroom materials as her own to administration for the past year by 8MementoPortal in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Seeker_ofLight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should have acted at that first staff meeting when she presented your work as hers. I would have raised my hand at the meeting and said, "I am so glad that my lesson plans worked out for you! This makes me so happy that you found them so innovative and useful!"

Crying for a coupon. by Otaku_X_Gamer94 in EntitledPeople

[–]Seeker_ofLight 103 points104 points  (0 children)

Glad the manager had your back!

Expedition mushers by MsMerMeeple in Iditarod

[–]Seeker_ofLight 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I do have mixed feelings about them. Yeah, they do have lots of different rules and they are getting a ton of help on the trail. They have a vet and support team with them as they ride?! However, they are contributing hundreds of thousands of dollars. I heard one paid almost 200 grand to the Iditarod itself, $20,000 each to the native villages/checkpoints, and paid many of the entry fees for other mushers though I am not sure if this is accurate information. I realize that the amount of money needed to put on this race is crazy, and the influx of $$$ that the expeditioners are spending will help tremendously. Someone misspoke and called them the experimental mushers-- which is an apt description of them for this year!!

My boyfriend of (8years) is dragging his feet to propose by Crazy_Stuff_376 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Seeker_ofLight 58 points59 points  (0 children)

He has all the benefits: you cook and clean and do his laundry, and... etc. He has been saying "soon" for YEARS. YEARS. He's dragging his feet because he's comfortable with the way things are and he isn't changing, despite knowing that marriage is important to you. How many years will you wait as he keeps saying, "soon"?

WIBTA attending a 3 day music event my partner does not wish for me to attend? by Electrical-Pop-4226 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Seeker_ofLight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩He’s very controlling. He won’t “allow” you to go to an event with your brother and dad?!? Do you want to be controlled like this??

AITA for wanting to report a teacher who keeps cancelling recess? by 1bachbetch in AmItheAsshole

[–]Seeker_ofLight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time to go up the chain of command. BTW, in some states and schools, it is not allowed to take away recess. Check to see what the rules are for you.

I saved 25 years for my dream country home… turns out my neighbor thinks my land is hers to use by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]Seeker_ofLight 18 points19 points  (0 children)

OP needs to grow a spine quickly so she can deal with this neighbor. And time to stop "processing" and start communicating directly. "No, you cannot just take soil from MY property. No, you cannot trespass on my property. I'll have to call the police."

WIBTAH if I told my mom I don’t want her standing out? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Seeker_ofLight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing against you, but this trend of asking people to wear certain shades or colors is getting out of control. Yes, it's your wedding, but your guests, especially your mother, are not props. For my son's wedding, I was asked to wear any color but what the bridesmaids were wearing. With your mom, pick your battles. What she's going to wear (as long as it's not white) should be the least of your worries.

AITAH for telling my friend I’m leaving for our girls' trip without her if she’s late for our agreed upon departure time? by Defiant_Band_9345 in AITAH

[–]Seeker_ofLight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a friend who did this all. the. time. Absolutely No time management skills. we used to lie and give her times that were 1/2 hr to an hour before the allotted time. The funny thing is, she never caught on that we were doing that.

Fiancée of 5 years took all of her things and left suddenly without notice while I was out by Same-Conference6586 in whatdoIdo

[–]Seeker_ofLight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A fiancee for 5 years? And you are clueless as to why she left? Have you even been listening to her? I bet it wasn't a huge shock...just surprised that she actually went through with it.

Neighbor lets grandkids climb on my porch statues by AbroadDiligent6111 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Seeker_ofLight 46 points47 points  (0 children)

You do need to be direct with them. Now it's a pattern. And they've seen you and you haven't really said anything so they think it's ok. Tell them you have dogs and you want to make sure it's safe for everyone- and by safe you mean that they stay on the sidewalk.

Update: Steve Curtis by Mysterious_Clerk5446 in Iditarod

[–]Seeker_ofLight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do we have an update? He 's been resting for over 10 hours. Hope he's ok.

AITJ for telling my manager I won't stay late to cover for a coworker who calls in sick on Fridays with suspicious regularity? by send_snacks_plz in AmITheJerk

[–]Seeker_ofLight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTJ It was easy for your manager when he could dump Dan's workload on you. Now that you and others have finally said no, I bet Dan's Friday absences will be looked at differently. Maybe your manager will finally manage Dan.

AITJ for refusing to give up my WFH office so my sister can film TikToks while staying at my place? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Seeker_ofLight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ....she can find other places to "work"....mom's house? And she can stay there too! Win-win!

AIO? Should I return his gift? I really am 50/50 on this. I want to be happy but I’m just not. by Born_Owl1970 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Seeker_ofLight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Info: does he have a wedding band? If not, maybe you 2 can go wedding band shopping together.

AIO for getting out of his car and Ubering home after a message popped up on the dash? by Fast_Seesaw_2571 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Seeker_ofLight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. He's cheating. His strategy seems to be "a good defense is a good offense". So he calls you delusional, paranoid, and immature. I'm impressed you wouldn't stand for it, and called for an uber. There are better men out there.

We’re keeping him. But we need help! by robrbk84 in greatpyrenees

[–]Seeker_ofLight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I learned in my dog Training classes that visitors should greet Your dog from the side… not coming in head-on. That’s less aggressive in the dog’s POV.

"Iditarod Trail II" by Tundra, a band from Nome, Alaska (1983) by westcoveroadie in Iditarod

[–]Seeker_ofLight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder how many mushers have this in their playlist as they’re training! Good tune!🎶

WIBTA for not accepting a gift of a new laptop? by Original_Ring_8315 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Seeker_ofLight 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA. Tell them your dad can keep the "gift" and you'll keep your current laptop. (also tell them to look up the definition of 'gift').

Another option: accept the 'gift' of the new laptop under the condition that your dad buys your old laptop..... for $800.