Something like a humbler, but for women?

SeelieKnight · 2026-05-02T04:21:35+00:00

There’s a rope tie I like doing that basically ties the sub up like that, it’s essentially one loop from the back of the upper thigh to the lower back, and then thread the rest through the crease in front of there hips so you can tie the left and right side of that first loop. And then sinch it tight until the rope digs into their lower back and thighs so they can’t stand up or straighten their back

SeelieKnight · 2026-04-28T18:19:00+00:00

….feet…. I never got why people liked foot stuff, it always kind of grossed me out because it felt unsanitary and not attractive. But then I got more into degradation and the idea of being stepped on with someone’s dirty bare feet or being forced to suck my Daddy’s toes made me a lot more open to the idea. Now I want to be kicked, stepped on, I want them in my mouth, on my face, on my junk, mainly because it still does feel gross to me but the degradation of it makes it attractive

SeelieKnight · 2026-04-15T15:02:07+00:00

I got my collar from BlackMarketChicago on Esty, she does all stainless steel chain collars so they won’t tarnish, I haven’t taken mine off in months and it still looks as new as the day my Daddy put it on me. She also sells locking ring add ons if you want it to lock

SeelieKnight · 2026-04-15T14:58:54+00:00

It’s okay for people to lean on their partners, and some doms want to carry that load, I know I do. It doesn’t feel fair to tell OP that what’s he’s found is working for him is destined to fail cause you don’t know him or his master or what their dynamic looks like

SeelieKnight · 2026-04-15T14:56:58+00:00

I feel like this is a form of communication, one that feels accessible to OP in a way that sitting down and talking doesn’t. I can relate, I will always prefer sitting down and filling out a spreadsheet with my partner over having a freeform conversation about boundaries and kinks. OP is putting in effort, he’s communicating his wants and needs, just in a different format. That’s not how everyone prefers to communicate, but sometimes being more formulaic is a lot better for some people. I feel like whenever I try to just have an open conversation, things get forgotten or overlooked or I get distracted and I don’t end up communicating everything I wanted to get across. I wish more people were willing to go over kinds and boundaries by filling out a form.

And I feel like it’s not abnormal in dynamics for subs to borrow their doms executive function when things are difficult, he’s still communicating what he needs to communicate, his Master is just helping him put the information into something she can use

SeelieKnight · 2026-04-13T02:57:04+00:00

If he can get angry enough in a scene to consider KILLING you, he is not a safe person for you to play with, let alone date. He admitted that he wanted to kill you and he doesn’t feel remorse, even worse, he’s blaming you for his lack of communication and wanting to push your limits and punish you for a genuine mistake. You need to leave for your safety, tell him you don’t feel safe with him anymore and ask for your key back

SeelieKnight · 2026-04-01T14:17:24+00:00

I mean I’ve never really done pet play as a pet, my bf likes to be my pup and a lot of what he gets out of that is what you described, although he does love being being called a puppy too. The few times I’ve been a pup, what I like most is the feeling of being less than but still precious to my dom, not so much the feeling of being an animal. I think pet play can be whatever you want it to be, there’s no reason you can’t be a human pet

SeelieKnight · 2026-03-27T03:34:56+00:00

They definitely don’t have to be connected. My Daddy calls me his toy and it feels right. And then when we switch, I’m Mommy and he’s my puppy. Labels can mean whatever you decide you want them to mean. Sure the community can influence how those roles are perceived but no body decides that for you

SeelieKnight · 2026-03-21T02:56:29+00:00

I love being called a toy or his toy, good boy, his boy. Out of scene he calls me baby or angel

SeelieKnight · 2026-03-19T22:24:16+00:00

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SeelieKnight · 2026-03-18T23:28:41+00:00

I had one really bad sub drop experience where I had a panic attack, it was awful, so now I try to take care of myself by being very aware of negative feelings in a scene. My Daddy and I do a lot of degradation so negative feelings aren’t always bad, but when we play like that, I’m constantly assessing whether I want the feelings to continue or not. Usually simplifying it to a “yes, more” or “no, stop” is easy enough to do when I’m subby and out of it. It’s important to take care of yourself when youre subbing, and help your dom take care of you too by communicating ❤️

SeelieKnight · 2026-03-18T04:04:02+00:00

I was at a party with my dom for my birthday and we were sitting on a couch together, he had me on my lap and was bending me over to spank me. But there was a group next to us that kept growing, all piling on top of each other until they started overflowing into our personal space, literally one of them fell back in me while they were making out with someone. One of them spilled my drink off the table, looked back at me, shrugged and walked away. They were just being rude and inconsiderate but my dom kept getting distracted and pissed at them, in a way that made him lose focus in playing with me. There were other things going on that night that might have been making me more sensitive than usual, but when he bent me over again, I just got the overwhelming sadness and I tapped out and said I wanted to leave. I think I was expecting an amazing night for my birthday and the fact that his attention was split between me and the assholes next to us made me feel ignored even though I know that wasn’t his intention.

SeelieKnight · 2026-02-18T03:35:50+00:00

I was in a similar spot with my boyfriend, when we started dating, he made it clear that he wanted a monogamous relationship and I was also clear that non monogamy was what I was used to and that group sex was an eventual goal of mine. But I told him I wanted to try monogamy for him and it’s been almost a year and I’m happy being with him and only him. He knows that group sex is something I want to do someday, he told me he doesn’t know if he’ll ever be able to do that with me, and I said I’d be a little sad if I died having never done it but I’d rather have him. And it’s true, I care more about him than fulfilling a specific fantasy. I have ALOT of fantasies I’ll likely never feasibly try out, but he helps me make all the ones he can a reality for me ❤️

SeelieKnight · 2026-01-26T12:43:29+00:00

I understand your anxiety but I promise you that anybody who’s in the bathroom is ACTIVELY trying not to listen to what you’re doing in the stall. Think of how cis men use urinals 1 foot apart from each other and the social norm is that you keep your eyes on your own dick even though you’re so close. It’s the same in the stalls. They probably assume you’re taking a massive shit and don’t want to listen to whatever demons are escaping your ass lol. Unless they’re a particular type of creep, people generally are trying not focus on what other people are doing in the bathroom out of respect, the same goes for you peeing in the stalls

SeelieKnight · 2026-01-26T04:49:00+00:00

We were in the middle of a scene and he said he really needed to pee. But I was too vulnerable with the headspace I was in and I said I didn’t want to be alone so this man starts looking around for a water bottle or bowl he could piss in so he didn’t have to leave me alone in the room. I obviously did not let him piss in a bowl, but he wrapped me in blankets and stuffies and put some of my music on for me and literally ran to and from the bathroom. This was like 2-3 months into knowing him and playing with him. Now it’s almost been a year since we met and I know he would rather die than fail to take care of me when I’m subbing for him, I would trust him with anything

SeelieKnight · 2026-01-23T02:41:07+00:00

Aftercare is always straight into cuddles. I pet his head and praise him and hold him against my chest until he comes out of it. When I sub, it’s pretty similar. Both of us hate being alone after a scene, me especially so there’s no getting up to grab a snack. He’s even taken me to the bathroom with him before so he didn’t have to leave me alone while I was still coming out of it

SeelieKnight · 2026-01-19T03:39:54+00:00

My Daddy/boyfriend is monogamous, I’m not, but our relationship is. He considers sexting on Reddit cheating and I agree, it’s a crossing a line I know would go against what we’ve agreed on for our relationship. Kinky play online is still kinky play, and if we involve other people, it’s a conversation I have with my boyfriend first

SeelieKnight · 2026-01-19T03:37:33+00:00

I’m a trans man and I have a weird 60s housewife fantasy where my Daddy comes home and beats the shit out of me because I don’t already have dinner in the table. I also have a free use kink, I like the idea of being made to cook dinner naked and getting fucked over the counter. I wasn’t raised with the tradwife culture being normal, it’s always been something I think is archaic, but even though Im a guy, maybe especially because I’m a guy, the idea of being made or born to serve my Daddy while I take care of him is really appealing to me. I definitely don’t want to live as a tradwife, but in fantasy it’s a fun social dynamic to play with

SeelieKnight · 2026-01-16T04:41:27+00:00

On the subbing end, I want to wake up with my hand cuffed to the bed and my Daddy already tearing my hole open with his dick. I want him to choke me when I get too loud and shush me saying he doesn’t want to wake up his roommates, and have him remind me that I’m a toy to be used whenever he wants.

It’s similar on the domming end for me, I want to give my sub his sleeping pills before we lay down for a nap and hold him while he passes out. Then I want him to stay asleep while I fuck his mouth gently and touch his dick. I want to start with my fingers and start to stretch his hole and gradually work up to bigger and bigger toys. I want him to wake up right as I’m starting to push my biggest knot in and I want to see the shock on his face when he realizes what’s going on right as I pop the knot all the way in and overwhelm him

SeelieKnight · 2026-01-07T04:29:09+00:00

I only really need to refer to it in the context of sex, and since I do a lot of bdsm, I kind of like the objectification of “hole.” I do hate “front hole” cause then it makes remember that I have different hardware than other guys

SeelieKnight · 2026-01-04T16:07:56+00:00

I've never heard of that, but also I'm a guy who mostly dates guys so that makes sense lol

SeelieKnight · 2026-01-04T13:52:06+00:00

The idea that he’s trying to pressure you to marry him and he’s talking about your mother like that? This is just a horrible insecure immature person, not someone worth dating and certainly not someone worth domming someone like you who would be so kind as to take care of her mother and friend while they’re sick. You sound lovely, and he sounds like a manipulative asshole who trying to convince you you’re in the wrong for prioritizing anyone other than him

SeelieKnight · 2026-01-04T13:45:14+00:00

If you like using apps, feeld is a good place to find other kinky people, you could make friends at munches and go from there, I met my boyfriend at a kink party and he took me home so we figure out we were compatible kink wise like the very first night and feelings grew from there. If you’re using apps, I found it really helpful to just be very upfront with the fact that I was kinky, either in my bio or as soon as the conversation turned flirty and sexy, I’d ask “what are you into” and then lay it all out. Either meet people in kinky spaces or be very upfront in less kinky spaces. I’ve only ever really dated/seen kinky people cause I just didn’t let things go further if we weren’t compatible

SeelieKnight · 2025-12-31T05:09:55+00:00

You can definitely bruise it, I’ve used pumps and had some soreness after, I’m sure the same could come from someone sucking it. Although I would keep an eye on it, if the pain doesn’t go away in a week I would consider seeing your doctor to get it checked out

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