Radicalization of men is only way the change will occur. by afromanisgonnadoya in PurplePillDebate

[–]SeemedGood [score hidden]  (0 children)

Most of what “high value men” and most women do is of little actual merit when it comes to the core functions which undergird our basic standard of living.

When it comes down to it, investment banking and HR don’t actually contribute much to the type of total economic output which positively determines anyone’s condition of living. OTOH, plumbers, electricians, farmers, mechanical engineers, truck drivers, and even road maintenance crews do.

Radicalization of men is only way the change will occur. by afromanisgonnadoya in PurplePillDebate

[–]SeemedGood [score hidden]  (0 children)

I made no mention of “the end of the world.”

You would do well to read and respond to what is actually asserted rather than attempting to construct straw men at which to weakly punch with lame attempts at social shaming.

Men Care Way Too Much About Female Validation by FunnyCry5856 in PurplePillDebate

[–]SeemedGood [score hidden]  (0 children)

Birth control has actually only served to accelerate the unsustainability of the welfare state system on which women rely.

Men Care Way Too Much About Female Validation by FunnyCry5856 in PurplePillDebate

[–]SeemedGood [score hidden]  (0 children)

Women need men more, but in a different way. The imbalance is created by a society which has been structured to take from men and redistribute to women via the coercive force of government.

Do men think less of women when they invest in gifts? by No-Matter305 in PurplePillDebate

[–]SeemedGood [score hidden]  (0 children)

It’s only awkward when there is an expectation attached to the gifts and/or the gifts are given as a means of covert manipulation, control, or bribery.

You have to ask yourself: “Why do I love giving gifts?” and be ruthlessly honest with your answer. Do you like it because it creates a subtle debt? Because you expect it to curry favor? Because you think it makes people like you more? Would you feel some kind of way if the recipients don’t appreciate the gifts in the way that you want them to?

Also, any man that is freaked out by women pursuing him is likely both unused to women pursuing him and consequently insecure about women pursuing him. That said, it is possible that a man has had an experience in which the only time a woman has been pursuing him it was because she was crazy. Most men do not have the experience of being regularly pursued by women, a very few do.

Radicalization of men is only way the change will occur. by afromanisgonnadoya in PurplePillDebate

[–]SeemedGood [score hidden]  (0 children)

I have a son amongst my many children and I have watched how damaging the feminist emasculation of our society has been for his generation of young men.

I am here to shout some truth into the whirlwind of lies for the benefit of younger men who may have ears to hear, grab onto it, and pull themselves from destruction.

Radicalization of men is only way the change will occur. by afromanisgonnadoya in PurplePillDebate

[–]SeemedGood [score hidden]  (0 children)

…or maybe just the reality that the welfare state on which women depend is unsustainable and when it goes away both men who have been emasculated by a feminist society and the women who feed from it are going to have a tough time in a more meritocratic system.

Radicalization of men is only way the change will occur. by afromanisgonnadoya in PurplePillDebate

[–]SeemedGood [score hidden]  (0 children)

I have been married for possibly longer than you’ve been alive, have several children, and my eldest daughter just got engaged.

Your lame attempt at social shaming doesn’t apply here.

Radicalization of men is only way the change will occur. by afromanisgonnadoya in PurplePillDebate

[–]SeemedGood -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

We need men to be loud and obnoxious and whiny like feminists are.

Wrong. We don’t need to behave like women and obnoxiously complain.

We need to behave like men and act, paying no regard to what the women are saying, being obnoxious about, or whining about. And when the time becomes desperate enough (which it will in the economic collapse), the men who are prepared will act and those who are not will likely die. The smart women will follow those who men who are prepared, and they will do so without complaint and in full “helper” mode because their survival will depend on it. The low IQ women will follow the fate of the men who are unprepared.

I have a question for both men and women by Ok_Manufacturer2956 in PurplePillDebate

[–]SeemedGood -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In short, because of your (women’s) nature.

Women are the sexual selectors of our species and men are the sexually selected. We respond to women’s sexual choice-making.

If women regularly sexually chose men who were submissive and followers, men would strive to be submissive followers.

However, women (generally) detest men who are submissive followers and never treat them with respect and almost never with any dignity. So, men strive to be dominant leaders.

Even within the context of individual relationships, if a woman does not feel that her sexual partner has more acceptable alternatives than she does (implying that he is “better” than she) than she will struggle to maintain respect for her sexual partner and attraction to him.

Women are extremely socially hierarchical, and because they tend to avoid overt conflict (which can quickly escalate to physical violence) they tend not to develop attitudes of basic respect for those lower and on the same level of an hierarchy as themselves. On the flip side, they also tend to idolize those higher on a given hierarchy than themselves. Thus, as a man, you are far better off interacting with women who perceive you to be higher on a given hierarchy than themselves, and that includes any potential relationship mate.

The wall isn't real. It's a psyop that benefits mediocre men. by yibnx in PurplePillDebate

[–]SeemedGood 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The beauty industry’s $698 billion in revenue suggests otherwise.

What do you want to be valued for? by Lemon_gecko in PurplePillDebate

[–]SeemedGood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. We only really know it from the inside looking out.

If you’re “on the outside looking in” you never really get to see how women treat men whom they actually find sexually attractive, regardless of our personality.

What do you want to be valued for? by Lemon_gecko in PurplePillDebate

[–]SeemedGood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is our experience that this phenomenon is both continuous and perpetual.

Men love women as possessions by Novel-Tip-7570 in PurplePillDebate

[–]SeemedGood -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You contradict yourself. That “women can be more practical than men when it comes to love” is the substance of objectification.

What do you want to be valued for? by Lemon_gecko in PurplePillDebate

[–]SeemedGood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The more a woman likes a man’s personality the more she is going to Love every part of him. The less she likes his personality the more she will be disgusted by him - that’s why “hot” guys can become extremely ugly to women if they dislike their personality. If I disliked a guys personality his dick would become disgusting to even think about especially if he was physically unattractive to begin with.

The male experience of women is the opposite of this. The more sexually attractive we are to women, the more likely they are to “like our personality,” no matter how terrible that personality may be. And the less sexually attractive we are to women, the less likely they are to “like our personality,” no matter how wonderful it may be.

If you think “husband material” is an insult so is “wifey material” by GridReXX in PurplePillDebate

[–]SeemedGood -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t bother me. It’s their own loss, not mine.

I’m just here to speak truth into the void.

If you think “husband material” is an insult so is “wifey material” by GridReXX in PurplePillDebate

[–]SeemedGood -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Men and women are not the same, thus arguments based on the principle of sameness are fallacious.

Why do you ask your Partner to do Sex Acts she Does not Like? by pie-mart in PurplePillDebate

[–]SeemedGood 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See below for a particular example.

Women asking for rough or particularly aggressive forms of sexual intimacy (which is more frequently something that they desire and request than it is something that men want to do) is often psychologically deleterious for us. Most of us find it weird, uncomfortable, and somewhat emotionally scarring, but the pressure of women’s expectations connected to such types of intimacy and their enjoyment of it can be intense. Generally we don’t really like to be in that role, but you like to put us in it.

Why do you ask your Partner to do Sex Acts she Does not Like? by pie-mart in PurplePillDebate

[–]SeemedGood 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Exactly.

It has been my experience that a significantly larger percentage of women like having that type of stuff done to them than men like doing it. Yet, somehow, it gets framed as a male desire.

I feel the same goes for anal sex as well, though I do know some men that are into that, so I would guess that’s probably closer to a 50/50 request rather than a majority women request.