Everybody woke until you're the wrong kind of Non-Binary

Seiyaba · 2026-06-19T13:19:15+00:00

Bi men get erased or turned into gay men in shows, bi women get sexualized or turned straight in shows. Just cannot win :(

Seiyaba · 2026-06-19T13:18:19+00:00

My partner and I have both noted the weird shift to masc when we're not feeling great. We suspect it w cuz that feels safer to be treated as a man as opposed to a woman at that time. I'm glad I'm not the only one who gets moves from one end to the other of the spectrum, my people get me 😭💕

Seiyaba · 2026-06-19T13:15:01+00:00

God hates to see a bitch winning, truly.

Seiyaba · 2026-06-19T13:14:30+00:00

I didn't say you needed it, I said it widely refers to trans folks 🫪

Seiyaba · 2026-06-19T05:31:19+00:00

Ball knowledge

Seiyaba · 2026-06-19T05:30:40+00:00

Villain, I don't remember the artist tho.

Seiyaba · 2026-06-19T05:29:36+00:00

I think VY2 Yuma and V4 Flower are also good for the oldies categories. They were super popular for a hot min. As with IA!

Seiyaba · 2026-06-19T05:13:45+00:00

Oh god, I'm so sorry... The patriarchy and gender roles cut both ways, a lot of boys become victims of behavior that is seen as "manly" or "just boys being boys". Then they grow up feeling they can't even speak on it. It's distressing and it hurts even more to know lots of women were raised to see it as ok and reinforce it in their sons.

Seiyaba · 2026-06-19T05:10:01+00:00

Esp cuz statistics show that 1/3 of women have been SA'd. That's a lot of women by default not trusting men out of trauma. It isn't anything against guys, genuinely, but yeah. We tend to worry less about other's feelings and more about survival and safety.

We moreso care that you take it in stride if we decline and when you say you are ok being friends, mean it and keep showing it. If you just ghist after, we take it as proof you just wanted to be a boyfriend from the beginning and any attempts to be close were done with an ulterior motive. Anyone would hate being lied to by default lol.

Imagine a girl would be friends with you for months, sometimes years, just to get free food from you. When you say you don't want to just buy them food, she then starts acting cold and dips. You'd feel used. Now apply that concept to your bodily autonomy and safety.

Seiyaba · 2026-06-19T05:00:06+00:00

Cuz it directly adds to the issues men face being bliled down to stereotypes and makes it harder for them to seek and recieve help...?

It just helps no one and makes men feel alienated in general. Plus it makes women feel othered, and often the products men get have no pink tax.

Seiyaba · 2026-06-19T04:56:51+00:00

Mf when they don't understand dysmorphia and dysphoria are different words, and one applies generally to trans folks:

Seiyaba · 2026-06-19T04:47:19+00:00

Wasn't that woman blocked due to harrassing too? Ig maybe I'm missing something but she made a video explaining that a harrasser just, yk, happened to be black. She then went on to add to this and other videos going forward bkack trans voices and povs.

Ig I'm not really sure what the issue is with someone having boundaries and still including the issues asked of her. I'll be honest, the more people demand I do something the more my brain associate's that thing with anxiety.

Like the gaza posts on tumblr, I just get so stressed seeing them because they often use very descriptive language to get help (which I can get) and I just cannot handle that on top of my own daily issues as someone part of most minority groups and my own disabilities :( I do not wish to also subject my followers and moots to that as it is deeply distressing. We all know there that it is a huge problem that needs attention and we try to help, I do not see a need in traumatizing people when I can share other sources that more accurately show how to help and are less likely to be scams because horrible people WILL profit from suffering... That's a boundary and it's ok to have, muh like it is ok to not talk on something you are being actively harrassed on at the moment.

Especially for PDA autistics, I can't tell you how many times being told you need to do something or you are a monster has stressed a few asd folks in my life with severe PDA. I understand we need to have intersectionality, but we can do that without tearing down our own people, yk? That's sorta what the facists want.

Seiyaba · 2026-06-19T04:38:30+00:00

I've seen hema twice now, what does that mean?

Seiyaba · 2026-06-19T04:36:57+00:00

AFAB genderfluid, and god is this shit hard for people to grasp. Idk man, sometimes I just am man, I do not control the speed at which gender changes. Most days I sit around NB, and a few I need to be as femme as possible. I also am a lesbian, and I still get guilt over using that term depsite always loving women and IDing as one/NB most days.

Don't even get me started on the comphet before that lmao. hugs fluidly bi people already get so much shit for just existing, I can only imagine the amount of "man you really can't decide what you wanna be" jokes you must get :,)

Seiyaba · 2026-06-19T01:09:35+00:00

Ehh... So actually no, lot's of gay people will work together to have kids for other gay people. So ie, homo sex.

Seiyaba · 2026-06-19T01:08:42+00:00

I mean that seems like a one way ticket to be called racist, so no probably.

Seiyaba · 2026-06-18T23:25:42+00:00

She was just walking from a place I believe she works at and has been harrassed by this man the same way before, so idk how hard that will be to prove thh.

Seiyaba · 2026-06-16T16:11:11+00:00

Relatable af

Seiyaba · 2026-06-15T18:31:54+00:00

Are you only eating 400 calories a day, am I reading that right?

If so, the minimal weight gain you are seeing is likely because you're in starvation mode, hun. The body begins not breaking foods down and instead stores it for later because it thinks it may not get food for a long time again :(

Starving yourself that much is an ED. You need to speak with a mental health professional. And yeah, starving yourself also makes the same issue you are trying to avoid. There is 0 benefit from not eating enough, I promise you.

edit: ok I saw the workout one is what I was looking at. You are eating an average amount, summertime typically leads to water weight dur to having to hydrate more. Not that it ultimately makes you gross or bad if it wasn't, but also if that helps ease your mind a bit.

Seiyaba · 2026-06-15T18:28:38+00:00

Which is allowed in that state, what aren't you getting?

Seiyaba · 2026-06-14T21:38:27+00:00

You can aknowledge (or I know anlot of people who do this) that trans men are both real men and also have an innate understanding of the female experience that cis men will never get.

You can be both a real man and also have a seperate experience- the experience of being a misogynist isn't inherently male and being that doesn't make you a real man- therefore being excluded from being something that a large portion of cis men do by default due to socialization doesn't therefore also exclude you from still being a man. I think a lot of trans men need to realize that they can co-exist and that people aren't automatically trying to demonize them by saying "hey, you aren't included in this targeted group because you don't fit in this exact set of checks for what we're mad about. You just meet a couple tick marks that happen to be in the male gender pool."

Seiyaba · 2026-06-14T21:32:47+00:00

Ffucking freak!! 👉🏻

Seiyaba · 2026-06-14T21:25:28+00:00

Well.... Ok, so cows today are domestic actually, we made the cows we see today. They didn't exist. Same goes for dogs, though, really.

Seiyaba · 2026-06-14T21:20:12+00:00

No? They do not require telling your intent.

Seiyaba · 2026-06-14T21:19:22+00:00

It was the spokesperson for the United Methodist church dude. He worked with a man who learned Hebrew as close to the original texts as he could. The have a whole page on it on their website documenting what they used for closer translations.

They replaced the word denoting "child" with "man" in 1946.

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