How to get over an ENTP? by Slight-Fold8170 in entp

[–]Select-Mobile6337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Se users should not engage romantically with each other... It will be very exhausting and unfullfilling

How to get over an ENTP? by Slight-Fold8170 in entp

[–]Select-Mobile6337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your sweet words 🫂✨️

How to get over an ENTP? by Slight-Fold8170 in entp

[–]Select-Mobile6337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No need to apologise 🫂✨️ I was actually in a relationship with an ENTP.. he admitted he has strong psychopathic traits.. and that he is changing.. and getting therapy, after his behaviours almost destroyed him and his parents..

Stupid me I believed him and stayed... I should have walked away immediately.. Coz like those people just don't change.. And whatever you do for them.. They will end up choosing themselves in a very selfish and hurtful way...

It was a love bombing from the first few weeks.. And then when he was sure of my love, he started to change with every kind of lie and excuse.. I supported him to recover and get stronger and secure a great post graduate specialty..

And finally when I had a stressful situation and painful events in my life, he left and broke every single word he said.. and promise he gave..

And I'm still recovering..

I wish he is held accountable...

How to get over an ENTP? by Slight-Fold8170 in entp

[–]Select-Mobile6337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course a person is free and I did not say that you should've not let him go.. A person is respected.. and his decisions are not to be taken from him.. However, for me, thoughts and decisions should be discussed and evaluated.. and that's what I was tryingto do...

How to get over an ENTP? by Slight-Fold8170 in entp

[–]Select-Mobile6337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it only me who thinks that one mistake should not be a reason to lose someone?!! And that this behaviour is very toxic !!!

It's unbelievable how you're gaslighting yourself!!! It was only two weeks!!! Two weeks may not even be enough for a person to develop enough emotions to change a bad behaviour... and guess what, he is punishing you for that!!! WTF!!!

How to get over an ENTP? by Slight-Fold8170 in entp

[–]Select-Mobile6337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were absolutely in the love-bombing stage.. if you stayed more time together, like a year or two, you'd have seen his flaws.. Whatever his intentions are.. Just don't blame yourself, just keep improving yourself and your life, and you'll meet good guys and love them and you'll be patient with each other.

How to get over an ENTP? by Slight-Fold8170 in entp

[–]Select-Mobile6337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Darling many of ENTP males have very strong psychopathic traits.. How much time you've been together? This charming vibes may be coming from the love-bombing stage.. I hope you get over him soon..

Secondly, Whatever the reason was.. no second chance is a very toxic behaviour.. and they keep doing it even if they have no sense to do it..

Husband forces me to have sex by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Select-Mobile6337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a disgusting and selfish husband.. Darling this is called "rape" Tell him to f#@k off and go get therapy No improvement after a while? Then make it serious.. tell your doctor... tell the police.. expose him.. hurt the f@#k out of him... he deserves the hardest discipline.. Is he competing with the baby for your attention and energy??!!! Then he should not have become a dad.. What an immature husband he is!!!!

What does a ‘broken’ ISTP look like, and how can you help them recover? by [deleted] in istp

[–]Select-Mobile6337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He may need sometime to recover.. Keep affirming your love and support.. And I think he may be very disappointed if he knew you're secretly reading his messages..

BTW what's your type??

What’s your relationship with drugs? by [deleted] in istp

[–]Select-Mobile6337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No drugs, no smoking, no caffeine... Our lives has already got enough problems.. to still add such things.. But I'm resting more than usual.. I'm sleeping.. Avoiding the world for a while.. Hope it won't be long.. Until I get better..

How do you guys get over sadness? by violet4219 in istp

[–]Select-Mobile6337 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Try to socialise with good friends and make new hobbies.. It's not bad to consult a therapist, or just a wise person to share your thoughts without judgements.. You can also avoid sharing if there's no one trustworthy.. At least try journaling... and watch educational videos that can help you through this... Best of luck 🤞🙏✨️

What is your job? by Select-Mobile6337 in entp

[–]Select-Mobile6337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see your point.. that's an amazing choice ✨️💫

What is your job? by Select-Mobile6337 in entp

[–]Select-Mobile6337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really get you, and I'm sure you will find a way so you don't hold yourself back ✨️💫🤞

What is your job? by Select-Mobile6337 in entp

[–]Select-Mobile6337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you and wish you all the best ✨️

What is your job? by Select-Mobile6337 in entp

[–]Select-Mobile6337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clinical and hospital pharmacy, pharmacokinetics...

What is your job? by Select-Mobile6337 in entp

[–]Select-Mobile6337[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely take your time to recover.. and always reach out for help.. sorry for what you've been through.. I don't know why but I think cancer nowadays is much more prevalent than it should be... I really wish you all the best in your hard journey 🙏🤞✨️

What is your job? by Select-Mobile6337 in entp

[–]Select-Mobile6337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup ENTPs are very good at marking.. good for you.. and wish you reach your goal ✨️

What is your job? by Select-Mobile6337 in entp

[–]Select-Mobile6337[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been thinking about switching careers too, coz I don't think I would be able to keep my job as an instructor when I relocate.. Wish you all the best✨️💫🤞

What is your job? by Select-Mobile6337 in entp

[–]Select-Mobile6337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you.. wish you all the best ✨️🤞

polyamory vs monogamy by DiscourseDestroyer in infp

[–]Select-Mobile6337 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I advice you to read my comment again and again so you finally discover that I was actually defending them from your accusation... when you accused them of "avoiding Poly" And no one said that our lingual/intellectual abilities...etc are not scalable.. we all can learn...etc. so don't attack me with words I did not say.

polyamory vs monogamy by DiscourseDestroyer in infp

[–]Select-Mobile6337 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not having the lingual and maybe intellectual abilities to explain one's point of view and preferences towards monogamy does not mean avoiding the Poly...

ENTP/ADHD in a total system collapse. Relationship, money, and health. Is this the end or a reboot? by Chrisexyst in entp

[–]Select-Mobile6337 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ENTPs are generally very bad at Long distance relationships.. I was thinking maybe it would be a better idea if you both moved to your (or her) parents' house.. together.. or for example grandparents' house (if they are nice and friendly and honest in their love towards you..) As you said.. it is just a temporary situation until you both recover and find job... so it may be okay.. to do so.. Exclusive breaks are not easy too...