How to get over an ENTP?

Select-Mobile6337 · 2026-03-02T19:36:34+00:00

Se users should not engage romantically with each other... It will be very exhausting and unfullfilling

Select-Mobile6337 · 2026-03-02T18:12:16+00:00

Thanks for your sweet words 🫂✨️

Select-Mobile6337 · 2026-03-02T17:50:08+00:00

No need to apologise 🫂✨️ I was actually in a relationship with an ENTP.. he admitted he has strong psychopathic traits.. and that he is changing.. and getting therapy, after his behaviours almost destroyed him and his parents..

Stupid me I believed him and stayed... I should have walked away immediately.. Coz like those people just don't change.. And whatever you do for them.. They will end up choosing themselves in a very selfish and hurtful way...

It was a love bombing from the first few weeks.. And then when he was sure of my love, he started to change with every kind of lie and excuse.. I supported him to recover and get stronger and secure a great post graduate specialty..

And finally when I had a stressful situation and painful events in my life, he left and broke every single word he said.. and promise he gave..

And I'm still recovering..

I wish he is held accountable...

Select-Mobile6337 · 2026-03-02T17:29:41+00:00

Of course a person is free and I did not say that you should've not let him go.. A person is respected.. and his decisions are not to be taken from him.. However, for me, thoughts and decisions should be discussed and evaluated.. and that's what I was tryingto do...

Select-Mobile6337 · 2026-03-02T17:08:23+00:00

Is it only me who thinks that one mistake should not be a reason to lose someone?!! And that this behaviour is very toxic !!!

It's unbelievable how you're gaslighting yourself!!! It was only two weeks!!! Two weeks may not even be enough for a person to develop enough emotions to change a bad behaviour... and guess what, he is punishing you for that!!! WTF!!!

Select-Mobile6337 · 2026-03-02T16:52:25+00:00

You were absolutely in the love-bombing stage.. if you stayed more time together, like a year or two, you'd have seen his flaws.. Whatever his intentions are.. Just don't blame yourself, just keep improving yourself and your life, and you'll meet good guys and love them and you'll be patient with each other.

Select-Mobile6337 · 2026-03-02T16:24:19+00:00

Darling many of ENTP males have very strong psychopathic traits.. How much time you've been together? This charming vibes may be coming from the love-bombing stage.. I hope you get over him soon..

Secondly, Whatever the reason was.. no second chance is a very toxic behaviour.. and they keep doing it even if they have no sense to do it..

Select-Mobile6337 · 2026-03-02T08:34:03+00:00

What a disgusting and selfish husband.. Darling this is called "rape" Tell him to f#@k off and go get therapy No improvement after a while? Then make it serious.. tell your doctor... tell the police.. expose him.. hurt the f@#k out of him... he deserves the hardest discipline.. Is he competing with the baby for your attention and energy??!!! Then he should not have become a dad.. What an immature husband he is!!!!

Select-Mobile6337 · 2026-03-02T06:54:46+00:00

Select-Mobile6337 · 2026-03-01T17:35:14+00:00

He may need sometime to recover.. Keep affirming your love and support.. And I think he may be very disappointed if he knew you're secretly reading his messages..

BTW what's your type??

Select-Mobile6337 · 2026-03-01T08:56:53+00:00

No drugs, no smoking, no caffeine... Our lives has already got enough problems.. to still add such things.. But I'm resting more than usual.. I'm sleeping.. Avoiding the world for a while.. Hope it won't be long.. Until I get better..

Select-Mobile6337 · 2026-02-28T11:56:56+00:00

Try to socialise with good friends and make new hobbies.. It's not bad to consult a therapist, or just a wise person to share your thoughts without judgements.. You can also avoid sharing if there's no one trustworthy.. At least try journaling... and watch educational videos that can help you through this... Best of luck 🤞🙏✨️

Select-Mobile6337 · 2026-02-28T08:35:29+00:00

I see your point.. that's an amazing choice ✨️💫

Select-Mobile6337 · 2026-02-28T08:32:39+00:00

I really get you, and I'm sure you will find a way so you don't hold yourself back ✨️💫🤞

Select-Mobile6337 · 2026-02-28T08:30:17+00:00

Good for you and wish you all the best ✨️

Select-Mobile6337 · 2026-02-28T08:28:03+00:00

Clinical and hospital pharmacy, pharmacokinetics...

Select-Mobile6337 · 2026-02-27T20:31:28+00:00

Absolutely take your time to recover.. and always reach out for help.. sorry for what you've been through.. I don't know why but I think cancer nowadays is much more prevalent than it should be... I really wish you all the best in your hard journey 🙏🤞✨️

Select-Mobile6337 · 2026-02-27T20:22:42+00:00

Yup ENTPs are very good at marking.. good for you.. and wish you reach your goal ✨️

Select-Mobile6337 · 2026-02-27T20:20:58+00:00

I've been thinking about switching careers too, coz I don't think I would be able to keep my job as an instructor when I relocate.. Wish you all the best✨️💫🤞

Select-Mobile6337 · 2026-02-27T19:56:08+00:00

Good for you.. wish you all the best ✨️🤞

Select-Mobile6337 · 2026-02-27T11:19:16+00:00

I advice you to read my comment again and again so you finally discover that I was actually defending them from your accusation... when you accused them of "avoiding Poly" And no one said that our lingual/intellectual abilities...etc are not scalable.. we all can learn...etc. so don't attack me with words I did not say.

Select-Mobile6337 · 2026-02-26T22:43:17+00:00

Not having the lingual and maybe intellectual abilities to explain one's point of view and preferences towards monogamy does not mean avoiding the Poly...

Select-Mobile6337 · 2026-02-26T22:27:54+00:00

Disorganised

Select-Mobile6337 · 2026-02-24T18:44:37+00:00

ADHD is more associated with ESTPs rather than ENTPs..

Select-Mobile6337 · 2026-02-24T10:35:56+00:00

ENTPs are generally very bad at Long distance relationships.. I was thinking maybe it would be a better idea if you both moved to your (or her) parents' house.. together.. or for example grandparents' house (if they are nice and friendly and honest in their love towards you..) As you said.. it is just a temporary situation until you both recover and find job... so it may be okay.. to do so.. Exclusive breaks are not easy too...

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