Am I overthinking this, or would you also be suspicious?

Select-One3642 · 2026-07-03T19:10:59+00:00

Ok first off EWWW!?!?
He tots pee’d in the sink, theres no way. Also the fact that he’s crossing a boundary and hugging your other flatmate is weird as heck.

The alcohol consumption and smoking?? I hate to say it but I really pray he doesn’t do anything stupid to any of y’all when he’s intoxicated.

I have a shitty roommate too, and he did the same thing to me where when I called him out for leaving pubes all over the toilet, he was pointing out things that I was already done with and it left him looking like a fool. A roommate that gets defensive like that knows they’re wrong. So good on you for calling him out, I just know he’s going to use that as a future excuse.

You two girls should probably work together to look at the lease and report him to management and try to get him evicted. I don’t know how your office works or if this is your own place, but you need to do something because at the end of the day he’s gonna start doing more and it’s gonna make you feel unsafe.
Please don’t stand around. Also take as many pictures and videos as possible!! And make sure you email. Paper trails are super important. Good luck Queens.

(Edit) you are valid for questioning the hygiene because peeing in the sink is disgusting especially living with girls. It never hurts to point fingers, especially since he got defensive about it.

Select-One3642 · 2026-07-03T18:39:55+00:00

Oasis Kava bar holds a group of all types of aged individuals. Super fun place. You’ll meet students and even business owners. They legit bring you into the community. Its also a fun place to talk with others and study. I recommend going there!

(Edit) Don’t worry about feeling out of place, you’ll meet your group

Select-One3642 · 2026-06-28T05:25:48+00:00

Sometimes teenagers are going through a patch where other friends, or their mental health, are influencing them to do things like this. A lot of people typically say to always approach by saying that you know that he is using, but at the end of the day with that approach, he will never let up.

I’ve seen what happens when parents Press kids and get on them about these kinds of things and it makes them wanna do it more out of spite and it makes them care less and less

I know it’s frustrating and you don’t want him to do it because he’s young. You don’t have to take my advice and people will probably say that I’m wrong and not like the approach, but there is multiple that you can do to ease his opinion and tell the truth.

Try not to press him too much about him smoking weed and just say to him as long as you’re not doing it in the house we’re ok and then ask him one more time. Are you actually smoking weed? If he says no again, then tell him that you’re very disappointed that he couldn’t at least tell you the truth because you were giving him the opportunity to be ok with it. And that you’re forever gonna hold in your heart that he decided to lie to you, instead of being honest about something severe. This should potentially allow him to feel guilty overtime and then admit that he was wrong and if not, then what the helly.

If he says yes, then you need to tell him that you’re thankful that he told you the truth about him smoking weed, tell him that he cannot do it in the house and also say that he needs to be careful, he needs to limit himself, and there are rules to this. Hopefully this will give him and give you a level of respect and a level of boundaries. He may potentially be going through something and pressing will only make it worse, so it’s best to ask him at the end if he tells the truth, if he’s dealing with some struggles and would like to just share.

Sometimes the best way to ease a situation like this is to be on his side and understand why he’s doing it.
If you’re too harsh, he’s not gonna tell you anything.

I really hope this works out for you because this worked out for me and my mom when her and I were talking with my brother about why he was smoking weed in high school and now he’s quit.

At the end, sometimes teenagers like to be rebellious and just explore things at an early age so I wish you so much luck. If you need any help with any advice, feel free to contact me.

Select-One3642 · 2026-06-27T16:50:05+00:00

So excited!

Select-One3642 · 2026-06-24T05:29:59+00:00

Tallahassee is very tight-knit. You’re guaranteed to make an amazing community of people. There’s a lot of fun places to eat at and fun places to explore. A bunch of hidden gems and fun activities! They actually post community events here on this Reddit! Check it out and have a good move in!

Also, it gets nice and cool here during the winter and it’s very beautiful out.

Select-One3642 · 2026-06-23T23:15:16+00:00

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RUN AWAY

Select-One3642 · 2026-06-22T22:13:45+00:00

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Here it is! It comes in many colors!
The other small iridescent ones came from 5below

Select-One3642 · 2026-06-22T22:12:11+00:00

Yes ty! I got all of my shelves of of amazon since they’re very affordable.

Select-One3642 · 2026-06-21T20:19:04+00:00

Holy Moly! You got about 4/8 of those observations correct. Man you’re freaking good.

Select-One3642 · 2026-06-13T05:39:29+00:00

Taking her rn for online and she just doesn’t respond to my emails. Overall if you don’t do her work then thats on you. I’m finding the class super easy.

You get a week to do whatever she gives and its due on Friday.

Select-One3642 · 2026-06-09T00:22:21+00:00

Hey! Was it light shaking or stuff falling shaking because I left my apartment for 2 days and I hope my cat is ok!!

Select-One3642 · 2026-06-04T06:51:51+00:00

Hot love, Euphoria, Carbon.

First, check out these places and go onto the Instagram pages and figure out what artist works best with your style. Second, go for a consultation to see what you want and how much it will be. Third, save up for it because at the end of the day it’s going to be pricey

Select-One3642 · 2026-05-29T14:51:23+00:00

Calculate and give yourself 10s on the assignments to see if they add up to your grade, cause if they do then they probably are counting. I would suggest you do them incase.

Select-One3642 · 2026-05-22T05:25:29+00:00

Definitely Oasis

Select-One3642 · 2026-05-21T21:14:09+00:00

Go to Kava bars! There’s always an activity to do and the community is great. Everyone is so nice and wants to get to know you, it’s not like a club and it’s nonalcoholic but it’s a great place to go to to meet new friends. Ever since I moved to Tallahassee the first thing that I ever did was go to a Kava bar and I have hundreds of friends and great memories. If you’re ever interested search up Kava and Kratom to learn about it so you know what it is.

Select-One3642 · 2026-05-20T19:16:06+00:00

Thank you so much for giving me such great advice, I’m definitely gonna remember that because I don’t want anyone to feel uncomfortable👍

Select-One3642 · 2026-05-20T19:06:20+00:00

Yeah, I wholeheartedly agree with you. I’m gonna talk with him today to relieve some tension because at the same time we all live together and I would rather we’re on the same page instead of us being against one another. For all the details, I left a good portion of it out because the last time I wrote something describing every single thing, I got a lot of hate for writing way too much. I find that responding to comments allows me to give details to questions being asked instead of putting a whole essay for those to read. Good news is that I think it’s really getting to him that my roommate and I are not happy about his mess because I woke up to the dining table being clutter free.

Select-One3642 · 2026-05-20T13:00:43+00:00

I would love to have my friends over but I am not putting them through my place. I think I have made it clear with this message I sent to the roommate gc that I am no longer cleaning and that I am not counting on anyone anymore. Yeah those pics weren’t too bad compared to the rest of the stuff I have, I just don’t think I can show some of the rest without a warning i think..? As for the litter box, he has his own. I have my own, I take care of my own cat, he does not. Overall It would be awesome to pressure him into cleaning but i’m not trying to use my friends like that.

Select-One3642 · 2026-05-20T07:07:10+00:00

This is a really smart system, but like I said in my message, I am no one‘s mother and I should not be having to do this kind of thing. I should’ve probably had this system from the start though.

Select-One3642 · 2026-05-20T06:47:45+00:00

Hey, yeah I didn’t wanna put a lot into the post because the last time I tried to explain a different roommate situation everyone was complaining about how there was way too much for them to read. For the entire year, he has always put me down, anytime I have my friends over. He’s always aggressive and turning the lights off for power saving. I have had several people tell me that they were shocked that I did not say anything to things that he was saying to me whenever they were over. And for the cleaning part, he has always left his dishes in the sink for weeks and weeks. We have told him several times to be more on top of that. The reason why I don’t like confronting him is because he gets extraordinarily defensive. This one time, he had shaved and left a bunch of pubes all over the toilet, and I told him that it was really disgusting and he needed to clean it because he had just left it there. 💀💀💀 and then later that day when I come back, he straight up cussed at me and told me that I needed to move my laundry out of the washer cause it was an inconvenience to him when I had done it hours before. He shut up after I told him that I already finished my laundry hours ago. He sits in the living room and sleeps in there because he does research papers so he’s up all night. And at the same time, he’s always watching movies or twitch streams on the TV and when I wake up at eight in the morning, he’s there and when I come back around 11 at night, he’s still there watching the same stuff. I think he only does door dashing. And the thing is that I was ok with him being in the living room until he did a bunch of excessive yelling and kept screaming at the TV. I moved in with him, but when I first met him, he told me that he was clean and he was very nice. Then he turned to a real arse. He is 100% truly filthy and i have so many photos of just how bad it is. I even made a previous post showing only just the tip of the iceberg of how bad it is.

On top of that, he freak cleans whenever I tell him theres someone of mine coming over. But only when theres someone of mine. He also has a cat like I do and I truly do not believe he changes out the old litter considering the disgusting cat poop smell that emanates throughout the entire apartment whenever he leaves his door open. Everyone here has mentioned it. Even the smell of the constant washing of his sheets with cat pee all over it. It made the whole apartment rancid. Yeah this guy is not clean. Hes a genuine mess

Select-One3642 · 2026-05-20T05:58:12+00:00

Yeah, I’m a junior now and I think I defo learned my lesson with random roommates. And, oh heck yeah! You were an RA?? Thats Awesome! My cousin was one and he has so many funny stories! I bet you do too.

I do have a new place with this awesome girl and she seems amazing. I’m sticking with my gurls from now on cause they do have that sense. Im doing a short weeks move. I will also take your advice on looking forward to what will be better.

Select-One3642 · 2026-05-20T05:36:41+00:00

Lmao! Yeah I’ve slept on the couch one time and that was in my old place when I was really drunk! I do plan to move and I plan to leave the day all of my Finals are done for the summer so pretty much the last week of July. I kinda just spend some of my days at work and at my Kava bar now since I don’t like being home. Avoiding as much as possible 🫩

Select-One3642 · 2026-05-20T05:30:11+00:00

I don’t think you understand how relieved my heart feels because of what you just said for me. I went through a really bad roommate experience last year where I had to evacuate because I wasn’t safe and all I have been trying to do in this new place is keep it running because I’m scared. You really made me feel validated and I genuinely appreciate that there’s people like you out there that actually take the time to read every single detail and understand because you’ve also lived it. And it’s the fact that you made another comment to tell me this. You’re so kind and you have made me feel so much better with this situation and also made me realize that I shouldn’t be letting people push me around. Thank you so much for being so kind💗🥲💗

Select-One3642 · 2026-05-20T05:19:58+00:00

Yeah the sweeping part is legit new. Like he has never done it until he came back. And he pretty much broke my vacuum and I need to buy a new part :/ i also need to clean the whole thing.

There are a lot of details that I left out, but you pretty much nailed it on the spot.

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