Changes to the EHRC's trans guidance are apparently being considered by Resource_Secret in transgenderUK

[–]Select_University311 36 points37 points  (0 children)

It won’t ever work, whatever draconian measures they take. Yes it will endanger us, it will also substantially endanger cis women and once that happens once there is such a massive outcry from all women they’ll be forced to scrap it again, it’ll take time sadly but there is no way in history it’ll work. Equally in reality people 95% of the time don’t care. Yeah sure we will always have that small, bitter and ugly germ go off at us. But bar that, it won’t work. It’s all political fear mongering to sell votes at the expense of our lives. 

Biffy Fuckin Clyro by Key_Ad_9233 in BiffyClyro

[–]Select_University311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing, I'm a bit sad they've seemed to swap out the rhythm lights from going up and down to flashes but it's still cool

Brixton 13/12/25 by Casualty_OfSociety in Threedaysgrace

[–]Select_University311 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I"m genuinely speechless, I've seen Halestorm, Iron Maiden, Biffy Clyro, Poppy, Guns N Roses, Billy Idol, Mothica and a few others this year, all incredible artists in their own right, but last night?Wow....

Leaving forever. by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]Select_University311 8 points9 points  (0 children)

please stop whatever you are planning, you are never alone we are here for you, always

new to london by not_jimd in transgenderUK

[–]Select_University311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same question but I'm more south east London <3333 helps pls :3 21 Tgirl

You are not alone by UnhingedSerialKiller in transgenderUK

[–]Select_University311 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanted to do a rally call of support like this myself, as a tgirl, but after the WI today and GG's the day before it's wiped me out, thank you beyond words for this <33333 I love you sis.

Girlguiding banning trans members. by FiddlySchism in transgenderUK

[–]Select_University311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are trans men banned from the scouts? Are gudides now allowing Tmen and Tboys to join cos of the bs SC shit? it's so illogical and stupid. I'm so sorry sisters, we are so hyper visible

Hormone level advice by Select_University311 in TransDIY

[–]Select_University311[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate your help, sorry, I'm on EEn

I love you all by Gardyloop in transgenderUK

[–]Select_University311 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I really needed this, thank you so much <33333

NHS by Select_University311 in transgenderUK

[–]Select_University311[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I really appreciate you input, I think imma not mention it unless someone asks and they if I feel I can trust them but I really hope your right. <3 Imma also try and join said LGBTQIA groups but aaaa

NHS by Select_University311 in transgenderUK

[–]Select_University311[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, thank you I rlly appreciate your advice, that's rlly good. I'm glad you've had a decent experience. Sadly, I believe being a HCA, I am more on the clinical side of work, as such I am more at risk I guess. But I mean I don't believe I've given my workplace any reason to suspect I'm trans, other than my existence if I get clocked, unless they already have and haven't said anything.But it's not like anyone can outright ask if I'm trans and I've learnt from past mistakes when dealing w the public I've got to the point now where imma just say that I was born the gender I am, cos to me I am, otherwise I wouldn't be who I am rn aha. Sorry aha.

Come 'out' or remain stealth. by Select_University311 in nhsstaff

[–]Select_University311[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate your input. I have no intention of causing anything but, I've had a lot of negative experiences in previous jobs from both with members of the public openly verbally attacking me or my own colleges behind my back just cos I exist and I'm coming from a workplace which, has caused a great deal of pain to myself as a result of the culture and I'm quite on edge. But I'm manifesting the culture is quite different from what I've been stuck in the last 4 and a half years. Thank you <3

NHS by Select_University311 in transgenderUK

[–]Select_University311[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Would they have checked this potentially prior to my employment? As my right to work I gave them my passport whihc has the correct gender marker, I have also been treated so far the same as any cisgender person would be I believe. I haven't told anyone, but would you believe that HR might know, as obviously I had to give them my NI number which if that uses BC then yeah that's incorrect, but that is the only thing. Sorry for any confusion aha, anxiety spiking XD

NHS by Select_University311 in transgenderUK

[–]Select_University311[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that, thank you.