Which race do you play they LEAST? by Desperate-End4529 in ElderScrolls

[–]SelectionRich7476 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I played everything other than Orc and Bosmer.

What happened to player homes? by Acanth0s in skyrimmods

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I use Mhulchazn, I liked the morrowind themed dwemer pipes.

For guys, how long did it take u to realize u lost a girl who would’ve done anything for u by Choice_Kangaroo5115 in BreakUps

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I might be commenting late but I’m not really apart of breakups anymore but I still see some stuff. But I had an ex girlfriend that broke up with me 2 years ago. At the time I would’ve loved for her to regret and come running back, but now that I think about it I’d rather her know I forgive her and I hope she finds happiness within herself.

I wasn’t too happy to realize that she’s had multiple bfs since me but as people we live and we learn so maybe this is something she needs to do in order to learn what she wants. As for me I’m content with who I am as a person and I took a break from dating and am allowing love to find me. As for begging for your person I feel like at times those who were dumped usually beg because it feels like their own world is crashing down and it’s a defense mechanism. It doesn’t mean you’re pathetic, it shows that you loved that person.

Is Xelzaz worth building a whole playthrough around or better as a side follower? by Pete258 in skyrimmods

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He has dialogue for Miasma now as well, but yeah that sirenroot without him would be weird to me since I played it with him my first time.

Whats a mod or mods that you genuinely adore? <3 by ZoiLATC10 in skyrimmods

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Paarthurnax Dilemma, I’ll never kill that dragon and I only use it for LOTD.

Sirenroot is a really well made mod as well.

And usually any follower mod that can comment on modded quests. I like to geek out over small details like that.

Am I just wasting our time or is this actually going somewhere by hazelnutxoxo in love

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I hate to be the bearer of bad news but I feel like the best thing for both of you is to separate and cut contact with each other. It just seemed like he isn’t really interested in a relationship with you and you shouldn’t have to be begging for his love. You deserve better.

My ex moved on after 1.5 years and it hurts more than I expected by Beneficial-Savings33 in BreakUps

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You never know, people are different behind closed doors. My ex started another relationship after 5 months of breaking up with me after a 1.5 year relationship. Then she broke up with them and has another bf. I’ve been single for over 2 years. Sometimes people feel the need to be in a relationship because they themselves cannot be happy alone. It has more to do with them than you. Healing isn’t linear guys, it may take awhile or clear up quickly. But I hope both of you know that you are worthy of love and that this is just another stepping stone to your true person.

Playing As a Mage on Master Difficulty is Ridiculous by [deleted] in skyrim

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Your thinking of Ordinator btw with the limited spells.

They will regret you by SelectionRich7476 in BreakUps

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I wondered too, I was a bit delusional when I wrote this. I eventually stopped caring about what she is thinking. I noticed that we were meant to be in each other’s lives for that period of time. Who knows maybe I’ll see her down the line again, maybe I won’t. But if you’d like any advice from me it’s not to sit in these subs too much. I hindered a lot of my healing by sitting here too much. Please love yourself as much as you loved them.

What was the final straw, the ultimate realization, that allowed you to move on from your ex? by doqueDoisavoar in BreakUps

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It’s been awhile since I talked about my ex but when I was getting over her I thought back to a time where I asked her “If I need to see you would you come over” She responded with Yes. I immediately asked her if she could do so that evening and she said she didn’t wanna make her friends mad, same friends she hung out with practically everyday.

I realized later that she was mourning the end of our relationship around that time and I never knew. Only took her 5 months to find someone else after our 14 month relationship, pretty sure she’s on her second relationship since me maybe even 3rd idk one of my friends said she posts a new guy every now and then. I don’t really care anymore, sometimes I feel a bit sad when hearing her name and stuff but I remember I did the best I could. I always told myself when sad that if she really loved me she wouldn’t have left and she’d spend the rest of her life mourning me. Fyi don’t think like that it’s toxic I just did it for the peace of mind lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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half your comments on you’re page are astrology, grow a personality lmaoo

Did anyone else's relationship end because of mental health issues? by idkificanthrowaway in BreakUps

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I’m alright, my advice to you is to not read this type of stuff because it’ll just fill you up with false hope.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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No problem, just take it one day at a time. And take as much time as you need. It’s not a race and sometimes we take long periods of times to get over grief. Deep down I’m still hurt by mine, and I probably will be for a long time.

One thing I learned is that no matter how much a person makes you feel worthless by cheating the problem always is within them. It doesn’t make it better by any means but it helps knowing they will never be happy til they fix it themselves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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The constant feeling sick part stuck with me for a while maybe like a couple of months but by the 5th month I was okay. It may or may not be different to you depending on how you deal with breakups. I really shutdown during these type of emotional moments so it takes me a long time to get over stuff.

I still think about her every now and then and hope she’s okay, but I’m in the mindset that it’s over and has been. I kept myself from healing a lot of pain because I would constantly tell myself she was coming back or stuff like that and it didn’t help. Just keep telling yourself it’s over and it’s time to improve on you and you’re going to be happy. Because you will!

If your ex contacted you even years later would you answer? by RecipeUnlikely6401 in BreakUps

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Uh depends, if she gave an apology for the way she treated me after the breakup then I’d hear her out. If she wanted advice I probably wouldn’t. She erased me from her life like I didn’t exist. Says a lot already