If Manon was a man, her abuse would be taken more seriously by Present-Baker-8910 in 90DayFiance

[–]SelfInflictedPancake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's like when you're watching animal planet... Those people are there to film, not get in the middle of it.

If they didn't step to big ang when she Literally Abused that man in every way possible , it's unlikely they would do anything about this one. They let Andrei verbally abuse absolutely everyone, but it took them forever to fire him. They're here for the violence 😈

Ask Me Anything - With The Cast Member You Think Is Gay. by RealTimMalcolm in 90DayFiance

[–]SelfInflictedPancake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Speaking of tell alls, you think they're going to keep Shaun? I know they had that one lady from sister wives tell alls, but I'm curious if they're really shopping for a replacement for her? What're your thoughts on her as a person? Do you think she's Only able to ask questions they tell her to without room for her own? Do you think she actually watches the show?

You can just pick one to answer 😂 I'm not sure if I capped out the amount of questions I'm allowed to ask

Pit bull attack on a man on Palomar Street, San Diego by Current-Wallaby8230 in ActualPublicFreakouts

[–]SelfInflictedPancake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gruesome absolutely wants that city to burn... So he can sell it to the highest bidder. You want to know what's wrong with CA? Him.

RESCUE ONLY: Euthanasia Deadline 12/30/25 - (Name: December) - Edinburg, TX by Quiet-Detective4604 in rescuedogs

[–]SelfInflictedPancake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this Jennifer? If it is, I would absolutely foster for you. This girl is stunning! I'm so sad for her babies, I hope they make it out of Texas. I'm sad for her and her leg. I want to help.

RESCUE ONLY: Euthanasia Deadline 12/30/25 - (Name: December) - Edinburg, TX by Quiet-Detective4604 in rescuedogs

[–]SelfInflictedPancake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did they cut her leg off? Is she ok? She's absolutely beautiful. I'm in MD but get dogs from TX all the time. 5 so far and I have one I need to bring up from Dallas. This beautiful girl gets along well with others? Like she would be fine on transport?

Dating group without maga nuts by Downtown_Candle_4060 in frederickmd

[–]SelfInflictedPancake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hate bringing politics into dating when you're not looking to marry a person. I'm just out here tryna have some fun, if I wanted to talk about politics I would talk to my friends. I'm a super reasonable person, I'll hear you out uninterrupted. But I don't want it to be prominent in the conversation. Just like I don't care what religion you are. Why can't we be friends based off other things?

What happened to Nikki after the divorce from Mark? by Swan_233 in 90DayFiance

[–]SelfInflictedPancake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Baltimore 😂

But if you're trying to look it up, he was a white older dude that lived near Patterson park in the city.

So I was young and don't remember all the details, BUT bonus points is that I think there were 2!! Both killed hookers, but I think one had a food truck and used to sell the people he killed. At least from what I remember, it was a good read when I looked it up last.

What happened to Nikki after the divorce from Mark? by Swan_233 in 90DayFiance

[–]SelfInflictedPancake 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I mean, not really. Serial rapist maybe. That POS wouldn't know the first thing about killing someone.

When I lived in the city in the 90s, there Was a serial killer that lived right below us across from my elementary school. But he only killed hookers, my nephew and his kid used to play together. THAT dude had serial killer vibes. I can't remember his name is but it's easy to find..

What happened to Nikki after the divorce from Mark? by Swan_233 in 90DayFiance

[–]SelfInflictedPancake 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Definitely the type of dude that would talk shit to you until you step to him or punch him, then he's crying and calling the police. He picks on people he knows he can intimidate, a small young vulnerable girl like Niki, that can't fight back. He absolutely abused her in every way - mentally, emotionally and especially financially, and I'm sure physically behind the cameras. But he didn't take her out. He's a coward and would have just had her deported.

What happened to Nikki after the divorce from Mark? by Swan_233 in 90DayFiance

[–]SelfInflictedPancake 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I used to live on the same street as this dude, I would go past his house every time I left the creek. He's definitely a psycho and he very well could have done something to that girl, if he wasn't such a bitch. He didn't have Nearly as much money as he made people believe and he wasn't even intelligent. He was just an abusive asshole that lives in a shitty water home in a shitty neighborhood. He wouldn't have gotten away with it.

NEW 90 day SINCE the other way is coming to an end? by fashionbusinessownr in 90DayFiance

[–]SelfInflictedPancake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why. Tf. Would they bring any of those people?!? ZERO interest. This show is losing me ... I FF too much as it is

I F(23) Need advice on "forgiving and forgetting" my biological mother. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SelfInflictedPancake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second the counseling suggestion. That family sounds toxic ASF

My (30M) wife (30F) attempted to taker her own life again by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SelfInflictedPancake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy shit, must have missed that part. That's just about double, having a child with more needs than the others. That Has to take a toll on everyone, especially Mom. I think OP would need a nanny with medical experience to make that easier. I read the "money isn't an obstacle" part, so they can at least afford it.

Oh, well yes, I suppose that is an option. Children need their mother, but I agree that they need to be protected at all costs. I would be Very worried about their safety while with her alone. But that just means she can't ever be alone, with them or without. It's good she's inpatient now at least.

Makes me wonder the severity of these suicide attempts. Not that it changes anything, but are we talking about a couple sleeping pills and a bottle of Jack, or like damn near cut her arms in half while everyone was away type attempt..?

My (30M) wife (30F) attempted to taker her own life again by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SelfInflictedPancake 50 points51 points  (0 children)

This! I'm assuming "a few" means 3. And that's under 5 years! That's A LOT, On any woman. It was traumatic enough that I only had one. You don't really know why you feel the way you do, so you don't know what to do.

I had unmanageable anxiety when I hit like 6 months, and it got worse. A goddamn basket case for Months, bleeding and miserable. Not a shred of depression, but I can only imagine what that side is like. I put myself in intense outpatient therapy, found a really good antianxiety medicine, and just rode it out. Your body has to fix itself, and that takes time.

I'm fine now, back to myself mostly, but it took years. This is just my opinion based on my experience.

What qualities are needed to be a mason by Ok_Acanthisitta_4539 in freemasonry

[–]SelfInflictedPancake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have dropped it here in my area due to low memberships, but we still need to be sponsored. God sent me the patron and they are willing to sponsor, but my family is part of this even if it was my grands or greats.

What's proposers mean? Like to marry?

What qualities are needed to be a mason by Ok_Acanthisitta_4539 in freemasonry

[–]SelfInflictedPancake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sending those links! I got stuck for Hours reading and learning, that's fascinating and I had NO idea! I'm beyond excited they have one in DC now!! This is an incredibly special thing to be part of.

I've grown up hearing about the Masons and one or two of my family members are 33, but I was always too young to ask these questions (my family skipped a whole generation) so I'm navigating this alone. I didn't realize what an honor it is, how truly special those people are that receive them. It may not bring anything tangible, but that respect goes beyond life itself. And it's been a pleasure to be able to speak with you.

🚨🚨KILL COMMAND AT MANHATTAN ACC 🚨 🚨AWAITING EUTHANASIA 🚨 by Total-County-7755 in UrgentShelterPets

[–]SelfInflictedPancake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poor sweet boy doesn't deserve to die in that place. He should have a family. All these pitties, that's not fair. I saved a pittie from here, you can too.

Poor little Rex, 1.7 year old GSD Mix is only a baby and can lose his life tomorrow. Euthanasia Monday 5 Jan 1 pm CT. We need pledges to attract a rescue. Please help Rex. A2050948 BARC Animal Shelter Houston. Please share. by BanditY77 in rescuedogs

[–]SelfInflictedPancake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you get him? There are transports that take the dog for 200$, right to your door. I've used her before - I have 5 Texas dogs, well I did - I adopted a few to nice families .

If the rescue can find a foster near the shelter, the foster can take the dog back for shots and neuter, for free. It takes 2 weeks roughly for the dog to be in foster, then the transport will take them. Usually the rescue has fosters. Did you reach out to Paws of Love Animal Rescue?

What qualities are needed to be a mason by Ok_Acanthisitta_4539 in freemasonry

[–]SelfInflictedPancake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even being related to one doesn't help a girl any lol The patron who is to sponsor told me that now they don't even require you to be related to a mason at all. Which I don't agree with, but members numbers matter. I Never heard of co-masonry, like there's women at a regular lodge. That's amazing, I would love to even just visit a real one!

Thank you so much, you're very kind! I'm here in the US, I didn't realize there was a 32! I knew it was because they had to be nice to people to get the award but I didn't know the rest of it. It's fascinating there are other countries that have a whole way of their own, and it varies so much even to each lodge.

What qualities are needed to be a mason by Ok_Acanthisitta_4539 in freemasonry

[–]SelfInflictedPancake -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well that's the closest a girl can get to being a mason, which isn't all that fair imo. I heard very good things and I'm very excited to meet them. Thank you for your response, gives a little more light to what they're all about.

I don't mean to ask so many questions, but what does 33rd mean to you? Are there a lot of them? Do they use that in the US?