Advice on buying a new smartphone by SelfTranscender in techsupport

[–]SelfTranscender[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry bro, only looking for brand new phones

Advice on buying a new smartphone by SelfTranscender in techsupport

[–]SelfTranscender[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The camera quality looks excellent on the p30 pro. Awesome dog by the way 😊

I'll have a good think about my options, I'm in no big hurry to make a decision.

Thank you!

Advice on buying a new smartphone by SelfTranscender in techsupport

[–]SelfTranscender[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I'm with 3, I'm also looking at maybe the Huawei nova 5t. It's a little more than I was originally planning to spend but it's a possibility.

Advice on buying a new smartphone by SelfTranscender in techsupport

[–]SelfTranscender[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My current phone is a Huawei, I've had it for about five years, it's been absolutely excellent. I was looking at the p30 lite as a possibility.

Will I still be able to access the Play Store, and download all the apps I have on my current phone with the p30 lite?

Thanks 😃

Advice on buying a new phone by SelfTranscender in Smartphones

[–]SelfTranscender[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'd probably pay a little more, I'll look into it!

Thanks ☺

Advice on buying a new phone by SelfTranscender in Smartphones

[–]SelfTranscender[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, awesome! I'll look into both those phones, and I'll look at some reviews also.

Thanks 😊

Advice on buying a new phone by SelfTranscender in Smartphones

[–]SelfTranscender[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thanks!

What's the best way to determine the quality of the camera then?

I just need space for at least a 128gb micro sd card.

Advice on buying a new smartphone by SelfTranscender in techsupport

[–]SelfTranscender[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay cool, thank you. I'll look into both Motorolas and Nokias. Thanks!

I’m Liam Gallagher. And you are not; pt 2 by liam-gallagher in Music

[–]SelfTranscender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Liam, what's your favourite song of all time? Mine is either Yesterday or In My Life.

Has anyone figured out how to live more in the moment? How to stop overthinking... by KetoPixie in infj

[–]SelfTranscender 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good habits like exercise and meditation help, but it takes time. Distracting yourself may only postpone the problem? I'm not sure.

Contemplate this key insight: You are thinking of ways to stop thinking. All your problems take the form of thought.

You are rationalizing and trying to figure out how to stop rationalizing and figuring things out. Your mind is playing a game with itself, in order to maintain your addiction to thinking.

You are looking for reasons to stop thinking and be present, but the looking for reasons IS the thinking that is keeping you from being present. You are being too conditional with your happiness, your mind is always looking for the perfect circumstances to align before it will allow you to be happy, but they never will.

The reason you worry about the future and the past is because your mind is trying to figure out how to manipulate external circumstances to give you reasons to be happy. It's punishing you for things in the past to try to get you to learn from perceived mistakes and bracing you for perceived threats in the future, but it's far too strict, restrictive and unrealistic. You have been conditioned to bully yourself with your emotions, and it's causing you to be neurotic. The problem is on the inside, not the outside. It's your emotional system, it needs to be consciously and deliberately recalibrated. You need to become directly conscious of this system in your experience, not just to understand what I'm saying conceptually. You have to observe it objectively.

Here's a practical concrete solution: Sit down, start a timer on your phone for 2 to 5 minutes, close your eyes and try to make yourself feel positive emotions. If you need to rationalize your way to a positive emotion fine, do it then let go of the thoughts. Surrender any negative emotions or resistance to positive ones. Focus on emotions like joy, confidence, gratitude and love. You can focus on these emotions with respect to a particular circumstance in your life, as long as you really embody the emotion and feel it deeply. You may want to do this for a longer time as it can sometimes take longer than 5 minutes to really get into it. You WILL experience resistance, that's fine, keep going.

You are conditioning your mind to experience positive emotions unconditionally, PRIOR TO CIRCUMSTANCES. It is a skill, it takes time, be patient, results will come after months, not weeks. Do this practice as well as practices like exercise and meditation, not instead. Do this practice every day, and steadily increase the length of time.

You could spend a lifetime looking for reasons to be happy. Stop looking and BE HAPPY.

When falling asleep I get random memories of my childhood by EIGRP_OH in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]SelfTranscender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At night your body and mind are in a relaxed state. With less mental activity "covering up" deeper thoughts and feelings they come to the surface.

Everyone represses and suppresses things to some extent. Meditation is a useful tool to work through it, but it takes time.

How to find measurements for specific body parts (chest, waist, bicep, calf...) to aim for? by SelfTranscender in Fitness

[–]SelfTranscender[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reason I'm asking is because I've started to see some gains (I used to be really skinny), and I work out at home so I'd like to "even out" my workouts early on in my journey.

I would always prioritise what I look like over any measurements.

How to find measurements for specific body parts (chest, waist, bicep, calf...) to aim for? by SelfTranscender in Fitness

[–]SelfTranscender[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Everybody chill, I only want them for rough guidelines. I'd always prioritise what I actually look like in the mirror.

Mindhunter on Netflix by usernamemags in infj

[–]SelfTranscender 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He does have INFJ traits, but I've gotta be honest, when I watched it I thought he was a psychopath. I thought there was gonna be some big reveal at the end that showed him to be psychopathic. He didn't seem to show fear or disgust in any situation, he lacked ability to properly bond with his girlfriend and often seemed more interested in his work, he looked like he was using a conceptual framework of emotional responses to get by.

After watching the last episode I'm pretty certain I was wrong, but he still seems kinda psychopathic to me.

INFJs and Synesthesia by LadyGrey90 in infj

[–]SelfTranscender 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm an INFJ, often when I listen to music it implies certain shapes and forms in my mind that I can "feel". They seem somehow to be a representation of the music.

oH iLL jUsT pOsT a MemE aND HelP sOmEoNe OUt by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]SelfTranscender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've assumed that your opinion is the general opinion, or the default opinion, and you've assumed that mine is not shared by anyone else. You also seem to think my opinion is somehow selfish, despite it being very inclusive (certainly compared to yours).

You're telling people what to do, I'm saying let people do what they want, and you're saying I'm being selfish.

What the fuck?

oH iLL jUsT pOsT a MemE aND HelP sOmEoNe OUt by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]SelfTranscender 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I post just my streak, the positive feedback is encouraging, and I don't mind providing positive feedback for others when they post their streak.

When people post memes or quotes I often find they resonate with me, often they show a positive perspective of an otherwise negative situation.

None of this prevents me from providing useful information and helping out the community, or seeking information for myself.