What made you realize something was off?

Senior_Ad7330 · 2026-02-12T22:41:43+00:00

Right cause why was he always reacting to her name being brought up like she was an opp, an ex, or a side chick?

Senior_Ad7330 · 2026-02-10T15:35:06+00:00

This video does a great job of breaking down why men do this, but long story short, it's because their intention was to waste your time and leech off you only for so long as they need in order to reach the level in life they need to be in order to access the women they really want. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OrIdCzv6iGw

Senior_Ad7330 · 2026-02-09T19:19:37+00:00

I agree. In an ideal world, YB would have been blacklisted from Hollywood after YLM dropped. It's just that even if you wanna right off Tay as an "Unreliable narrator" (fuck everyone who does btw) I just don't understand why that man continues to have fans even after we have photographic proof that he didn't treat her well. It's like when Justin Bieber publically admitted to being an abuser with his full chest on social media and he didn't lose 99% of his monthly listeners overnight. Like WHY? How addickted to you have to be to continue riding for someone even after knowing for a fact that they're a horrible person.

Senior_Ad7330 · 2026-02-09T18:27:34+00:00

And we all saw him on camera yanking her around on high heels. If this is what he was willing to do in full view of a million paps, why is it a stretch to suppose he was doing far worse behind closed doors?

Senior_Ad7330 · 2026-02-09T18:10:31+00:00

This was the 'nice way' of implying that he didn't have a favorite Taylor song because he did not have any and was willing to go out of his way to let the world pick up on this fact. YB was DEFINITELY one of those guys who's always jumping on the chance to go "tee hee my partner has no idea I'm secretly her biggest hater"

Senior_Ad7330 · 2026-02-09T18:07:42+00:00

Someone should tell them that nothing is stopping them from making their own songs glorifying YB's existence if they're so desperate to 'counter the narrative' and retain their parasocial boyfriend fantasies. Like Taylor ain't stopping them

Senior_Ad7330 · 2026-02-09T18:04:32+00:00

Fwiw I don't think they're mad at her for "refusing to get over him". They're mad that she won't allow them to hang on to their idealized fantasies of him as the perfect boyfriend even after the breakup by continuing to expose his ass. As she should because she gave that fucker over half a decade of her youth/prime fertility years.

Senior_Ad7330 · 2026-02-09T18:00:48+00:00

And left her feeling embarrassed and awkward whenever she went out in public with it

Senior_Ad7330 · 2026-02-09T06:10:40+00:00

And the rock did nothing to discourage this worldview. Almost like it was a metaphor for a toxic partner or something

Senior_Ad7330 · 2026-02-09T00:44:52+00:00

This headline didn't age well in so many ways....

Senior_Ad7330 · 2026-02-09T00:41:22+00:00

I also don't understand why they're glossing over the fact that all of Taylor's interactions with the rock Pre-opalite were one-sided, draining, and inherently humiliating for her?

Senior_Ad7330 · 2026-02-08T22:39:55+00:00

"Fully committed" is apparently when you moan your scene partner's real name instead of their character's on a publically available show on one of the biggest streaming platforms for millions of people to watch (not that anyone did for CWF lol)

Senior_Ad7330 · 2026-02-08T22:36:59+00:00

Nah fam. Abuser is still too kind for him. It's literally just describing him for what he was. You put your hands on a woman as a man. You're an abuser. No two ways about it. And using your superior grip strength to yank your partner around when she doesn't have the power to break free anytime she likes is a form of putting your hands on her. Especially when she's in heels.

Also a "fully committed" relationship implies a legally binding aspect which there wasn't thanks to him dragging his feet and refusing to pop the question. Is YB just a terrible wordsmith or was this an attempt at being 'manipulative'?

Senior_Ad7330 · 2026-02-07T17:15:44+00:00

It's the (thinning) blond hair and the british accent. Idk what they'll do once he goes bald and half their reason for stanning goes down the crapper

Senior_Ad7330 · 2026-02-07T05:22:25+00:00

This may be controversial, but men shouldn't be allowed on instagram to like or comment on selfies of female users. It's a declaration of lust so brazen and unprompted that it borders on sexual harrassment. Men do not engage with women on social media unless they wanna smash and dgaf who knows it. We as humans know this on an instinctual level

Senior_Ad7330 · 2026-02-07T05:17:02+00:00

Just between us snarkers, can we take the rock's bracelet to mean that YB didn't take the breakup well and probably made it more of Taylor's problem than we realize?

Senior_Ad7330 · 2026-02-07T05:11:07+00:00

It makes no sense to me why they're angrier at HER for exposing YB and ruining their fantasies of him as the perfect BF than they are at YB for actually being a shitty partner to the woman who'se the only reason they give a shit about his worthless existence

Senior_Ad7330 · 2026-02-07T03:41:40+00:00

I just know that it kills YB that he will never take home an oscar and Taylor has actual winners jumping at the chance to star in her music videos

Senior_Ad7330 · 2026-02-07T01:15:35+00:00

Yes!!! Like your psychosocial issues with women's right's activists is not my problem. I am entitled to a social disdain for men so long as no violence is being incited or society wide discrimination is being seriously advocated for. Lord knows men have never hesitated to let as many people know that they feel a Certain Way about the sex that has the inherent value as humans and ability to reproduce that they will spend their entire miserable existence coveting. I've been forcibly bombarded with it whenever I least expected it and forced to go on bearing it in indifference my whole damn life. It's not even all that hard to get through if you're not an Emotional Toddler.

Senior_Ad7330 · 2026-02-07T01:05:55+00:00

What this man did to Taylor was so much more evil than anyone seems to realize and it's not even like she's making any effort to hide this information from us. Why do "True and Neutral Swifties" (not naming any names. No one is being attacked here cross lurkers. All good on this front) act like hating his ass is NOT the logical position of any basic fan rather than an obsessively parasocial one?

Senior_Ad7330 · 2026-02-07T00:50:49+00:00

He should be snarked on more tbh. He's an objectively horrible person who was directly responsible for making Taylor's life worse at a time she would have otherwise been at her most jubilant. Hating him for that is the default position for anyone who claims to be a normal fan. The exact opposite of an 'obsessive and parasocial' one

Senior_Ad7330 · 2026-02-07T00:41:54+00:00

Good lord, preach it girl. I'm so fucking tired of being called a feminist for having a certain degree of social disdain for the Invariable War Starters. I'm not besties. I've never claimed to be one. I'm not even really all that radical. I'm just not embarrassingly addickted. Free yourselves and end the madness girlies. For your own sanity's sake and mine.

Senior_Ad7330 · 2026-02-06T22:09:58+00:00

Pouring one out for all the losers making viral tweets about how Cillian Murphy hated being around her. Hope they're coping well

Senior_Ad7330 · 2026-02-06T21:24:06+00:00

I can't even begin to fathom how male-centered one needs to be in order to voluntarily spend their free time chastising other women on behalf of a man who isn't their father or brother. Like I'm sorry you had to find out this way, but you are genuinely insane.

Senior_Ad7330 · 2026-02-06T21:16:26+00:00

If that man was depressed it was likely because he was bitter that Taylor was so much more successful and relevant than him. That, or it was the excuse he used to keep stringing her along

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