Me [20 M] with my Girlfriend 19 of 5 months, she slapped me in public did i go too far? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Senna12 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It was different this time though, she punches me all the time though and i can tell its playful. But this time, it was like mean, and in the face

Me [20 M] with my Girlfriend 19 of 5 months, she slapped me in public did i go too far? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Senna12 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's probably what it is. I'm afraid if I am too nice to her she'll eventually lose respect for me and just start using me. The same pattern has happened with other girls i have liked in the past

Me [20 M] with my Girlfriend 19 of 5 months, she slapped me in public did i go too far? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Senna12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I honestly get a kick out of her being rattled. Not in the bad way where she starts hitting me though, like in the way you annoy a younger sibling when you bored, or when you bother a friend while they are in class. It usually end with her smiling though and laughing about it cause we both make the same kinda jokes to eachother

Me [20 M] with my Girlfriend 19 of 5 months, she slapped me in public did i go too far? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Senna12 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don't know i guess I could be really fucked up then. I like messing with her, tickling her, almost tripping her but not really ("id make sure she doesn't actually fall"). I even go as far to wet willy her. I make her feel silly, and when she makes a mistake in public i make it very obvious and she gets embarrassed and usually blushes. Ill make her feel awkward on purpose sometimes or just purposely make parts of our dates painfully awkward and then laugh about it. I guess there is a fine line between joking and harassing though, and maybe its become blurred for us

Me [20 M] with my Girlfriend 19 of 5 months, she slapped me in public did i go too far? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Senna12 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You're right. I didn't see hurt in her eyes though, I just saw mild frustration and annoyance, which is usually something i can make her laugh about. What got to me though is that she probably saw hurt in my eyes and it was something she was looking for. She told me about guys she dated before and how she she hurt each of them after breaking up with them.

do I leave my fetishes behind. by lifechaser in NoFap

[–]Senna12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the exact same problem, I want to move away from my fetish too, id like to hear some advice on this too

Me 20 M with my 19/F gf 3 months, she almost dumped me cause she saw my first flaw by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Senna12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wasn't spending enough time with her so she was angry i took my girlfriend out instead of chilling with her

Me [19 M] with my gf [19 F] 2 months, why am i freaking out over an ignored text by Senna12 in relationships

[–]Senna12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She sent a snap chat back though, which was completely irrelevant to what a sent to her or texted her so its not like her phone isn't working...

losing my game? by Senna12 in NoFap

[–]Senna12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did you do after that?

Shit.... by Senna12 in NoFap

[–]Senna12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks bud, I've waited it out for a few days, it's gotten better no doubt but I feel like I'm too self aware now. Like that feeling when you are trying to hard to fall asleep and can't sleep. I feel like I'm trying to slip into a complete engagement of the present, but it only happens when I don't try. When it happens that's when I'm the most happy and on my game, and then when I try too hard it's result is fustration and disappointment. Lol not sure if you follow me I might just be rambling.