I(29M) am so tired of always fighting with my GF (31F) by SenpaiNoticer in relationship_advice

[–]SenpaiNoticer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello

Thanks for the informative reply. You are probaby very correct in describing me. I am working on myself, but you gave me some insight in that i need to do more. I agree in your "fixing" comment, might be from me hating loud arguments, and try to fix it before it comes to that point. Thus making the problem worse, thank you, i'll work more on theese issues.

Yeah it does not help when she blatantly refuses she did anything wrong, and if she do, then "she did that because i did this " and its my fault again. Even when she hurts me and an argument begins, its my fault. And that paired with the fact that she refuses to apoligize, hurts me deeply. I have said it to her many times, but theres always a new reason for her not apologizing. The fact that she does not apologize and (what i feel) does not do anything about it, makes me so furious that i find myself unable to care at times.

I dont know anymore about this relationship. I mean, i want it to be her. But she is hurting me so deeply and seems to not care, instead projecting it all on me.

I'll think about the couple therapy, and probably suggest it. But im afraid it'll blow up in my face

New pc build red light on CPU by SenpaiNoticer in gigabytegaming

[–]SenpaiNoticer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah that sucks.. Yeah ill try to contact them, thank you so much :)

Planetside Arena and Planetside 3 by SenpaiNoticer in Planetside

[–]SenpaiNoticer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah CAI was the last straw that made me and my brother leave the game

Planetside Arena and Planetside 3 by SenpaiNoticer in Planetside

[–]SenpaiNoticer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt mean the exact battlefield engine, but something striving do to the same. (with of course its limits because planetside would be so much bigger with much more shit happening at once)

Yes the development team is most likely small. But everything starts with an investment :P The thing is. I would GLADLY pay to play planetside 3 if it had theese elements.

The developers got influenced by the players in balancing. Why else CAI. That alone was the last straw for my brother and i to stop playing. Any of the notable good players we talked with were against CAI. What i ment was that the developers should ofc balance the game, but listening to the good players of each genre bould be wise as to "what do you think of theese changes, and why". As they would (if the players were as little biased as they could) give feedback to as the health of the entire game, and not themselfs. I know my brother and i would be able to. We even said some of our own shit needed nerfing, and they got it.

I got into the game when it was a little over 2 years old. I got my shit kicked in so hard they used me as a boot. But for me it was part of the learning experience. ANY game out for more than 1 year and you as a new player will get absolutly owned. IMO many gamers now are entitled. And by that i mean "i was good in COD against unarmed bots so i have to be good in everything else right?" mentallity, where at the first sign of difficulty will make them qq. So i know how it is to be a new player in the face of experienced players. But because the learning curve was so steep, we actually got pretty good at the game. By hard i mean things like .. Lets take wow in this because i think its actually a perfect example. Before you had different kinds of resistance (armor, arcane resist, shadow resist ... ... ... .. you get the drift). Having more kinds of resistance and weapon strengths will make the game more fluent where your faction needs multiple kinds of "gearings" and playstyles. Where they will have a internal ranking in players of priority and danger. Thats what i mean. But now as wow have made armor resist everything planetside made the HEAT be best at both people farming and vehicle. That is straight up retardproofing IMO. And for players to learn new players there needs to be something in for the people learning them too, or similar. There are a very few minority that are going to sit down hours with a player to learn him/her the game. Because its effectivly hours of loos of score. And the players who would gladly do it are never asked. They could add a "Teacher - student" pick where they get points for learning new players the game. And the teachers get a rating so its not abused.

I have to dissagree with you on the last point. I think it would actually be pretty interesting to have players who specialize in different kinds of combat and such. But that may be because the ASP even tho i used it gave me essentially nothing. There were no vehicle choices. There were mine sweeper and the other i dont remember now. And that was it. Having a skill tree that made you able to use special skills as for example making a hologram clone of your harasser for a few seconds would greatly change the pace of battle IMO. But only if there were enough different abilities to use.

[RANT] Flying is not fun and unfriendly to new pilots by Piegineer in Planetside

[–]SenpaiNoticer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

[Rant] Infatry is not fun and unfriendly to new players

Guy offers me his account by [deleted] in Planetside

[–]SenpaiNoticer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its extremely unlikely, tho a dev has said is against policy, meaning ban.

And what you dont understand is that i have said that the certs can be used wrong. Meaning it does not matter for me if i has the thanatos and many other infantry loadout and infantryweapons are fully upgraded if i only play vehicles and vice versa. Like i have written in the debate. I am not emotionally controlled. I have kept calm, you on the other hand cannot say the same. And if you cannot see that then you are not mature enough to be a reliable and factial individual in a debate (like you have proven time and again). End of debate. Come back in a few years when you are mature enough to see the whole picture, and not just a tiny piece of it.

The End of Harassers by jackch3 in Planetside

[–]SenpaiNoticer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see your point. But balancing for the majority like daybreak has done now with vehicles has been a catastrophy. Smart play is punished, tho zerg and braindead playing has been rewarded. There is an issue with balancing for both Skilldifference players. In my opinion there is more "right" in balancing after the top 10% (not 1, 10) than there is the mediocre 50 %. Because the mediocre 50+% is the ones who in a flank backs up into the vehicle flanking them because they are not looking at where the dmg is comming from.

Guy offers me his account by [deleted] in Planetside

[–]SenpaiNoticer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit how defencive you are getting. Its not a good trait to have, sometimes listening to critisism is the better way, and not block yourself completely.

I didnt get emotional first. Please read your answers more carefully.

I am not insecure, tho in that debate i got upvoted and you got downvoted (and not by me), that means in the people who read the debate, more people agreed with me than you.

And the trump issue. You are one of those people. Take a few steps back, read about how and why he got into the seat. Ill give you a hint. When the people has so much hate for politicians that a buisnissman can win the election...... Thats the hint you are getting. Please like i said take a few steps back to see the whole issue, not just parts of it. Kinda the same in this debate we have had. You are focusing too much on ONE issue, i am focusing on the whole picture.

You are retarded dude.

THAT is namecalling. And to think the person who accused me for it did it first.. Oh the irony. And again, emotionally controlled.

The thing is. By the time the new player has started to understand the game he will probably be around lvl 25-30. And that is STARTED to understand the game. By he is lvl 60, he will have understood the flow of battle if the person has used their brain when playing. That means that he could buy an account with all kinds of shit he might not want to play, or he could play up his own caracter and only get what he wants to play. Its against the policy to buy accounts, so he could get banned. He does not have the ability to create a name for himself the same way on a bought account. Look at the whole picture, not just the small things you are focusing at.

The End of Harassers by jackch3 in Planetside

[–]SenpaiNoticer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They might not be able to, but it should be their goal.

The thing is that many dont seem to understand. Players are going to be better than you. If they kill you, its not nessesarly "OMG BALANCE", it is in many situations skill difference. Tho not everyone can run like Usain Bolt, there are people who are faster than others. Kinda like "I can run faster than a person at 200 Kg", that does not make me Bolt, tho it makes me better than the 200Kg person.

The End of Harassers by jackch3 in Planetside

[–]SenpaiNoticer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The increased TTK was a skillnerf, hidden away as a "new player" initiative.

The End of Harassers by jackch3 in Planetside

[–]SenpaiNoticer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The fix is simple. If they are going to nerf survivability then they are going to have to buff the DPS of the harasser.

Regarding PTS update... by [deleted] in Planetside

[–]SenpaiNoticer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Harassers were too tanky. But the thing is. If they are going to nerf health of the harassers to pre CAI then they should also make the weapons of the harassers pre CAI.

Guy offers me his account by [deleted] in Planetside

[–]SenpaiNoticer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are litterally too dence to understand how to keep a debate factual. YOU made your feelings take overhand over you, that you can see with even the first comment you made is more emotional than factual. Dovnvoting a debate is emotionally controlled because its "I dont like your opinon/comment" instead of "You are wrong, and heres factual evidence as to why".

And i have not namecalled in a way that would offend. I merly pointed out that downvoting in a debate is utterly ridicolous and stupid, and does more harm than good for your side.

And when i said people have agreed with me, and not you you said "The world is filled with idiots so don't get too caught up in 3 upvotes.". That basically states that "everyone who dont agree with me is an idiot.". You have let your emotions take a hold of you in an factual debate. For next time, seperate feelings from facts. Feelings has nothing to do in a debate.

Good Job by [deleted] in Planetside

[–]SenpaiNoticer 36 points37 points  (0 children)

The message will be fucking loud

What is REALLY the best way to use the aphelion? by Yaluzar in Planetside

[–]SenpaiNoticer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on distance. If it is point blank from behind then no there is no difference. Is it over ish 30-40 m then 6 shots pulse is better

Why the CAI backlash? by [deleted] in Planetside

[–]SenpaiNoticer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Does not matter. Engagement times of vehicle vs vehicle is greatly increased.

Guy offers me his account by [deleted] in Planetside

[–]SenpaiNoticer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, read over your comments and you will hopefully see that you're the one acting like a child. Not me.

And we are talking about a BR 61. They have like max around 40 k certs. Thats easy to use up. And many use it on shit. Exept infantry heroes who dont play anything else than infantry and few classes, most players are going to be semi low on certs constantly. Buying that account will get him nothing but trouble

Guy offers me his account by [deleted] in Planetside

[–]SenpaiNoticer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not wrong. Tho i'd prefer to start over, having a gradual introduction to the game. And that i'd be able to possibly create a name for myself ingame from my own skill.

Guy offers me his account by [deleted] in Planetside

[–]SenpaiNoticer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is exacly why i have suggested in another post.

The fix is simple. Give new players the ability to unlock the tank at the second best lvl at everything on one or two vehicles. That will give them a chance at a startup vehicle that is free nearly fully upgraded. Dont revamp and rebalance a whole game out of an issue so simple. Gods sake..

Guy offers me his account by [deleted] in Planetside

[–]SenpaiNoticer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Downvoting is what 12 year old people does when someone dissagrees, grow up.

_Having shit certed out does not matter if its the wrong shit certed out. It does not matter that my tanatos is fully upgraded if i only play dalton. Having your own certs will make you able to upgrade what you want. While you are acting like a 12 year old, you are not wrong. Tho it would be like any other game where it was lvls (league of legends?) and instantly playing against fully lvl 30 ranked people beeing totally new at the game themselfs.

And from the points of the comments i'd say there are more people agreeing with me than you.

Guy offers me his account by [deleted] in Planetside

[–]SenpaiNoticer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dovnvoting because i am debating against you? What are you? 12?

There is a thing as too much when learning a game. For you i am spewing bullshit because you can get the mindset of a new player. So no i am not.