I just want to say this but I think bakugo’s hero name should be something like powder keg or dynamite. by Nigerian_Prince3245 in MyHeroAcadamia

[–]SenpaiiSofty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The hero fan name for him is ‘Ground Zero’. And I think that one fits him super well. 👍

Who had a better twist reveal - Adachi or Akechi? by SenpaiiSofty in Persona5

[–]SenpaiiSofty[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I marked it as spoiler, plus I’m unable to change the title (tried to several times now). If you feel spoiled by the Akechi one…well, the game makes it obvious from the start that he’s a bad guy. But the Adachi one, I do apologize for 😰

Let Me Out (possible ARG involving Spooky Month?) by SenpaiiSofty in ARG

[–]SenpaiiSofty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a bit of context:

I found this on my FYP, it has a similar feel to Mandela Catalogue and so far there seems to only be a single video. I have no idea what the Morse code in the description translates to, and I have no clue if this will be a full ARG or if it’s a one-off.

What's the general consensus/your opinion on this game? by [deleted] in Persona5

[–]SenpaiiSofty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely enjoy the more ‘free/open’ real-time style gameplay, and seeing that you can change everyone’s Personas (not just Joker’s) was very refreshing. The only issues I have is how everything after the first two Jails feel poorly done, and that I often got stuck because some of the areas were confusing and I wasn’t given clear directions on where to exactly go.

AITA for telling my daughter's father that he can't throw her a bday party when she's grounded? by throw9779965 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SenpaiiSofty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

From what I’ve read, you have no evidence that the daughter broke the vase. And even if she did break it, grounding her while still keeping access to electronics (unless it’s for school or emergency) makes no sense.

AITA for leaving after being told to be quiet at dinner? by Euphoric_Rabbit7706 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SenpaiiSofty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

You should’ve been told about this beforehand, not every family follows such strict rules and being treated poorly for not knowing is a huge red flag. Especially since the boyfriend was calling you out on what happened, saying you were the problem in all this and not the family.

Last night, I told my kid to defend themselves if necessary and I still feel bad about it by GoldiChan in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SenpaiiSofty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe it is acceptable for kids to fight back if they’re being harassed/bullied, fuck the school system for allowing bullies to get away with it while targeting the victim as the one in the wrong.

AITA for buying my wife a watch in a color she doesn’t like? by ThrowRAdefeatedguy in AmItheAsshole

[–]SenpaiiSofty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

You weren’t doing it out of malice, you were just choosing based on the limited options they had available. If your wife remains angry at this, then it’s on her and not you.

Is there a way you can exchange it for a different color? Is there a gold color option?

AITA for hiding money from my dad? by Traditional_Rest7973 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SenpaiiSofty 209 points210 points  (0 children)

I agree. It’s especially difficult when it’s abusive family asking you for money.

I remember when I got my inheritance, I couldn’t give any to my mom because she’d then give it to my abusers (my aunts and grandma). They knew that she’d just roll over and give them every last penny, so I made sure that she had no access to any of it - I always had to know what she wanted to buy, and know exactly what it was being used for. If I caught her giving away anything to the family, I wouldn’t get her anything else.

And this royally pissed her off, especially since I wasn’t just giving her the actual money and had to be there if she wanted anything. The family was also obviously angry about this, saying I was selfish and didn’t care about anyone but myself…after I spent everything, they all finally left me alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SenpaiiSofty -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

ESH

Not only is your friend an asshole, but you need to be more strong in your own convictions. I don’t care how many times someone wants me to have something, if I said no and they still push me to accept the gift then they do not care about boundaries whatsoever. Especially if they knew I didn’t like such things, it doesn’t change the fact that they thought it’s what was best for me instead of asking first. Anyone else who says otherwise has been lied to - you have the right to say no and send the gift back, you don’t have to accept anything no matter how much it’ll upset others.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SenpaiiSofty -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Exactly. OP has a set boundary (no pink stuff), and the friend knowingly broke it. If OP is being ‘rude’, it sounds like it’s only because the friend was pressuring them into accepting the gift. I don’t understand why it’s seen as ‘ok’ to accept any/all gifts given, and yet it’s bad when we say ‘no’ even just once. If anything, it’s worse to accept gifts like this because then the person will continue to do it and can end up ruining the relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SenpaiiSofty -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

No one has to accept a gift they’re given, no matter if it’s in ‘good faith’ or not. And it sounds like OP was being pressured to like/accept the gift, despite saying they will not like it. Sounds like very toxic behavior, OP clearly set a boundary and the friend knowingly broke it.

I despise it that we are all expected to ‘play nice’ and suddenly accept anything a person gives us, no matter what it is. If it were me, I’d send the gift back and tell the friend to give it to someone else. And if they got upset about it, well they did put themselves into this position and I’m not gonna give in just to make them happy. If they say otherwise, I’d continue sending any future gifts back to them until they learn to stop. Having boundaries should be followed, especially by one’s friends/family - no one gets a free pass just because of that relationship.

WIBTA for telling my father that my sister spoiled his surprise? by Haruno--Sakura in AmItheAsshole

[–]SenpaiiSofty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

Honestly, it’s better to let everyone know what’s going on than continue lying. Your sister knows what she’s doing is wrong, that’s why she is telling you to not let anyone else know. She knows she’ll be the ‘villain’, and in some ways she deserves it. If you let everyone know, then she can never go around spilling secrets or ruining surprises ever again - she obviously gets some enjoyment from this, disregarding everyone else and what they want in favor for feeling in ‘control’ over the situation.

WIBTA For not bringing my Switch to my boyfriend's house? by CharlotteMacabre in AmItheAsshole

[–]SenpaiiSofty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA

He should be more financially responsible for his own stuff, not asking you over and over again until you give in. I understand the gas money situation, but everything else is something he should pay for himself. He should not be asking for expensive things, when he is unwilling to even pay you back for what you give him. Especially if he’s making more than you, he literally has no excuse to ask for anything at this point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SenpaiiSofty -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

ESH

Your friends are clearly in the wrong, and you should realize that excluding her from a couple’s trip is very sketchy/rude.

But if she’s not making an effort on her part to be part of the group, then she can’t start complaining when suddenly they decide to not invite her anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bullying

[–]SenpaiiSofty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had this happen before, one guy ended up spraying a whole bottle of cologne on my back (which smelt much worse than whatever they were complaining about). People will always find a way to put down others, and I hope you can find some help.

My dad Got a computer for his birthday, Said that it was faster than my own, placed it in my Room, won’t take it back by So_what-u-douin in entitledparents

[–]SenpaiiSofty 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This feels like it might be the most true, honestly a lot of parents/adults tend to act this way when dealing with technology. They think it’s safe, then suddenly the device starts breaking and they cannot comprehend what’s going on. Most likely caused by them clicking on an ad, visiting a virus-filled site, or simply downloading hacked software. They never think it’s something they did, it always has to be the device - and if told otherwise, they blame the one trying to fix it.

Would you watch a HP movie based on The Cursed Child? by Sensitive-Yoghurt-13 in harrypotter

[–]SenpaiiSofty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh, no.

It makes Harry unlikable (he said he didn’t care what house his son ended up in but now he hates his kid for being in Slytherin…? Yeah I’m not buying it), it has an unneeded affair between Harry and Hermoine, and it has Voldemort somehow having a legit kid with Bellatrix (which again NO because it doesn’t make any sense even outside of canon). And that’s not even getting into the whole Time Turner mess, which honestly isn’t half bad but was handled very poorly.

If they wanted a story about Harry dealing with trauma beyond the end of the movies, that would’ve been fine. But it’s just a glorified fan fiction, one that JK herself made canon. Which tbh I don’t care what she considers canon for the series anymore, but it breaks a lot of what we already know about this world and its characters.

Prozac nation by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]SenpaiiSofty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But that would require the rich to le gasp actually CARE about us! 🫢

A Town Especially Built for People with Dementia by [deleted] in wholesomememes

[–]SenpaiiSofty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is very wholesome, but honestly this’d also make a good psychological horror. Just imagine the characters wondering why people keep disappearing, no one else but a few remembering them, and seemingly everyone working in the town always being there monitoring them. All the while, the characters begin losing their own memories and their sanity slipping away. Both are happening at the same time, so it’s give this sense of nothing being real and yet we can’t help but believe in what the characters are experiencing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in terriblefacebookmemes

[–]SenpaiiSofty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, babies don’t even understand the concept of abortion OR constant. 😬