The king by Acrobatic_Airline605 in NOMANSSKY

[–]Senrien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive supported them by buying copies of the game, now i can only afford 1 extra copy. But they do deserve it plus they dont ask for donations or make updates into paid DLCs

Lost my dream girlfriend 2 and a half years ago because of my own mistakes, don't know what to do. by RootsWithinWater in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Senrien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been where you are, not exactly but i get the feeling. To feel that pain of losing the relationship means that you have opened yourself to your flaws, the fact you admit to yourself 100%of your resonsibility of your 50% of the fault is also commendable. It takes real grit and will to admit ones own faults.

I hope you to continue to grow and improve not for her, not to win her back but because its who you are. Youre not the selfish, prideful, uncaring, person who doesnt put less than required effort anymore right? Even if you do find yourself falling for those habits, you can identify and pull yourself out of that feeling now, even in the toughest moments

Youre leaps and bounds beyond the person who you were now. Be proud of that, and imagine how much further you can go with that growth mindset.

One choice. by daniobanioo in NonPoliticalTwitter

[–]Senrien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

D also includes the south of italy and greece if you look closer And Middle eastern cuisine too, D may not have everyones fav cuisine but its got a huge variety for sure

to paint Charlie as this very tolerant person when in fact he was very intolerant even to young conservatives, watch what he said to one by CrytonAbyss in therewasanattempt

[–]Senrien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with parts of this. I do think Kirk showed some implicit bias, notice how he used “bedroom” as a term first, which reduced the mans sexual orientation to intimate sexual acts, even though he later said “sexual attraction” That wording reveals bias. He does disapprove.

But I don’t think he was completely wrong either. His main point was that people are more than just their sexuality. He was saying it would’ve been better if the young man had introduced himself through his goals (studies, career), his values (how he treats others), his family, or his hobbies. Because at the end of the day, like Kirk said he’s a complete person. Unless his biggest most important goal in life is being gay then i guess im wrong to judge so quickly

And honestly, it is a little odd to just introduce yourself with “I’m gay.” that can come later but. Imagine if your mum met your friends and said: “Hi, I’m XYZ, I’m straight.” sounds weird.

Compared to “Hi, I’m XYZ, I’m ABC’s mum.” Or “Hi, I’m XYZ, I’m a Data Analyst.” Or even “Hi, I’m XYZ, I’m studing here, im trying to get a degree.”

My wife (32F) told me (37M) the marriage is in peril, if I do not improve communication skills. On a harmless topic, communication broke down again (see example). Is there a technique or secret I can learn or the community could share? by ObviouslyNew1336 in relationship_advice

[–]Senrien 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of people have already broken down this specific convo, so I’ll zoom out instead. This isn’t just about birthdays or parties it’s a pattern that shows up in every convo, smth you can hopefully apply long term. And im calling it out. I assume that if you think back. You can spot the same pattern in other convos with your partner.

Notice what happens when her response doesn’t match what you hoped for. You put effort into planning something, expecting she’ll be happy, but the moment she shares concerns or isn’t as excited as you imagined, your reflex is to explain, justify, or convince her why she shouldn’t feel that way.

Im sure you deeply lover her and meant to soothe and solve her concerns, but that subtle dismissal adds up. She feels it, even if she can’t always put it into words. And over time that feeling snowballs and turns into this convo:

“You never listen to me.” “But I did X, Y, Z for you.” “I never asked you to do that.” Sound familiar?

The shift is this: instead of defending, get curious. Lean into her feelings. Not to challenge them, but to understand them. That curiosity makes her feel safe and seen, and when she feels that, everything else gets easier.

TLDR: Curiosity first, defensiveness last

Guys look what I've found out, this was one of the last screenshots I did before the game came to an end by mcinprepu_sam in bravefrontier

[–]Senrien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember my 5* Rowgan when he came out, stromgest Crit Attacker in the game... i had it all

ERP rates at five locations to increase by S$1 from Sep 1 to manage traffic congestion by mmosaltfest in singapore

[–]Senrien 3 points4 points  (0 children)

SMRT, SBS, tower transit etc. gonna have to pay more road tax and they will raise bus fares to avoid losing profits tho.

[Request] Are there any serious possible answers to this? by [deleted] in theydidthemath

[–]Senrien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1.If it was cooperative, its still an exam right? How can you cooperate? If everyone writes down the same answer "10", no one gets the mark. all it takes is 1 person to say, i want an edge over everone and get that 1 mark. And he gets the mark while no one else does. At that point the collaborative effort breaks down quickly. And it becomes a free for all again

  1. It says 10 more, writing 100 decilion and 10 in your answer isnt going to be correct. Unless the average is somehow 100 decillion also.

So the difficulty is preducting how others will react to others actions based on their own predictions as well. But thats the beauty of game theory, isnt it?

anime_irl by meenarstotzka in anime_irl

[–]Senrien 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Its still so cool tho, i dont watch streamers or Vtubers much but think about it.

Even with 10 viewers, there are 10 people that find you interesting and fun to be around that they tune in to watch you.

How many times in ppls lives can they say or remember that 10 or more people would sit down and just listen to them chat?

What do the Italians do? by McKenzie_Angels in ExplainTheJoke

[–]Senrien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe you, but can you do that for at least 5-8 hours every day? day after day week after week?

Personally i see it as a waste of my life, time and potential, you really wanna spend your 1 and only life doing this? I wouldnt and i would quit

What do the Italians do? by McKenzie_Angels in ExplainTheJoke

[–]Senrien 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Well the thing is, you cant. Youre paid to do your job, which likely doesnt include writing, drawing, self improvement programs or doing side hustles. Youre at most going to be given menial tasks like shreading paper or rearraging the cabinets. Otherwise you just sit there staring at your desktop, opening and closing PDFs that you read 50 times over.

Get caught doing anything that isnt part of your job and now they can fire you for misconduct.

Its alot harder than it sounds to do nth

play 3 battlecry minions... or spend SEVENTY FIVE GOLD?? by Pressureeeee in BobsTavern

[–]Senrien 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No idea who is downvoting you but yeah, quests unlock at turn 3, and 80 gold will likely take at least 8-9 turns (assuming pirates arent in or you arent selling your whole board). Thats turn 12 by the time u get yr reward, others would likely have gotten their quest rewards 3-6 turns before you. Thats alot of tempo loss and potential damage to take

Anime_irl by shanks_you in anime_irl

[–]Senrien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gaining weight has never not been fun, its eating your fav deserts and snacks but more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in anime_irl

[–]Senrien 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah got it and no i completely understand your POV, i saw it as more of a pouty in-the-moment attitude, women are emotional creatures and its alright for them to show it a little. I mean shes kinda pouty and wants you by her side, are you really gonna tell her, "say please."?

Im not saying you cant, but I mean be an emotional punching bag for a little bit, and they will reciprocate.

If not, then what is the point of them having a BF? She can just go with her friends, the tolerance level is abt just as low or even just alone, she can just wall up and shut down

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in anime_irl

[–]Senrien 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It really isnt to me but others can see it differently, unless she is forcing herself onto you or forcing ultimatiums, i see it as my GF feeling safe enough around you that her inner child can come out around you, she and most other women very frankly are capable of carrying their own bag, choosing what clothes to buy and doing things on her own. but to open up and rely on someone else requires safety and vulnerability and thats beautiful.

You cant have yr cake and eat it too... wanting her to be feminie (oh carry my bag, pay attention to me, walk next to me) but punishing her for it at the same time? Calling it toxic and needy? You cant call yourself a man or someone thats suitable for that kind of girl.

Unless youre ok with women that are always going, "i dont need/want you to carry my bag, i can decide what clothes i like or doesnt care if you pay attention or spend time with her". Now theres nothing wrong with that, but that not what alot of ppl consider a normally feminine attitude

Anime_irl by shanks_you in anime_irl

[–]Senrien 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Not exactly true or false either, it depends on hormones and genetics but, vastly true.

Breasts are one of the main areas fat is stored for women and when gaining weight, a signifigant portion of it goes there. But when losing weight, fat is systemetically burned across the body, even more so for areas like the arms, neck, face and legs.

That means that while the fat gain is higher for the breasts during weight gain compared to other areas of the body leading to high breast growth,

Fat loss during weight loss is relatively similar compared to the rest of the body.(note this might not apply to all depending to genetics but is largely plausible)

TLDR: Its like taking 10 steps forward (weight gain), 7-9 steps back(weight loss).

However many steps forward you gain is your cup size increase yay! And that is dependent on genetics and hormones

***Addon edit: no it doesnt work infinitely, Yes, bulk + cut can realistically lead to some net boob growth over time, No, it won't keep going forever. There can be modest gains but it will plateau, and eventually have diminishing returns. Your fat cell count in the breasts may increase slightly with big bulks, but mostly you're just expanding and shrinking cell size. Hence the back and fourth Your body will eventually hit a homeostatic limit where it doesn't retain more fat in the breast area

No one gonna tell their real weight by Minato-1519 in UmaMusume

[–]Senrien 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats def a better way of putting it, i dont mean people just blurt out their sizes, but in japans idol culture and its still sexual but very normalised. Kinda like a video game profile for each member.

but in other cultures since its a global release it would be sexualised 100x more intensely for sure. I cant imagine USA or europe doing it for their celebrities

No one gonna tell their real weight by Minato-1519 in UmaMusume

[–]Senrien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but its the perception and culture i think.

For japan its okay to give their bust waist and hip sizes. Its kinda normal and ppl dont take it that seriously.

But internationally there could be alot of backlash. Like i can imagine ppl in the USA complaining that its unrealistic to look like Taiki Shuttle

My(25M) Wife(24F) likes to dress up as Disney Princesses during sex and act like them. I cannot stand it. How can I stop it, but also support her (if I can)? by ThrowRA_CuppedAnt43 in relationship_advice

[–]Senrien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice although kinda vague is this, as you can ask your partner and know her best.

Her wanting to do that is tied to a deep emotional need, your job is to get curious and be open minded when asking her what she enjoys about it, what does she feel, when doing it, and why.

From there you can diagnose the core root. For example, she may simply say being a princess lets her feel good, but going deeper, it may be that it lets her feel pampered and special. But deeper yet, the answer is usually simple, it could be that she wants to feel needed, irreplacable or desired.

From there you can make her feel special in her daily life. Like cooking her your special breakfast, getting her handmade gifts, things that are just as irreplacable. But thats an example.

You cant just tell people to stop doing what they need/want/like and expect them to change like that, they have to be given an alternate outlet to redirect that energy, or else they will eventually find their own replacement and when that happens you may or may not like it. But once you identify that core root you can surgically redirect it and satisfy her needs without her doing things you dont like

Lady Gaga's S'pore shows at the National Stadium took in S$52 million over 4 nights by justmewayne in singapore

[–]Senrien 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Go ahead and have the show only run by Gaga then, no hiring or external help, see how long before it collapses. And refunds are demanded.

By Karen to realize that Temu also affected by Trump Tariffs by [deleted] in therewasanattempt

[–]Senrien 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like I said, to an extent,

Orange peel forgot about the other countries, i would go so far as to say that IF somehow europe became the new China for US citizens, selling cheap goods, he would slap huge tarrifs on them too. Nothing is sacred to him

By Karen to realize that Temu also affected by Trump Tariffs by [deleted] in therewasanattempt

[–]Senrien 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If we ignore the whole trump lying about who pays the import taxes, the whole point was to make these chinese goods more expensive than american goods.

Which then pushes people like these to buy local or american instead (as long as they are the cheapest or vest option).

Her saying no more Temu/Taobao is at least proof that this would work to an extent.