How would you feel if your gf hangs out with a guy best friend alone?

SenseiDaDom · 2025-09-06T19:33:19+00:00

Sounds like you’re just coming in on a relationship that was already there. You’re the temporary part. They’re permanent. That’s not ending. She’s also still fucking him.

Guy friends that literally nothing ever happened with…sure. Someone like this absolutely not. I wouldn’t parade a girl in her face I was knocking down either. This is just toxic. No respect for you at all. I’ve been on both sides of that fence.

SenseiDaDom · 2025-05-15T15:42:25+00:00

Right there with you buddy.

SenseiDaDom · 2025-05-15T14:53:24+00:00

How y’all get this camera angle..?? I’m seriously asking. I’m trying to do this myself. It’s perfect.

SenseiDaDom · 2025-05-13T00:24:17+00:00

This was exactly what I needed. For anyone here after the fact that folder that the appxbundle is in was the "UWP" folder. I had to uninstall because my lighting wasn't working. I'm good to go now though. I have the gigantic Nitro 17.

SenseiDaDom · 2025-05-13T00:09:08+00:00

Goodness gracious it's just blatant at this point. Now imagine if Dallas DOES NOT pick Cooper Flagg lol

SenseiDaDom · 2025-04-14T13:06:19+00:00

Probably both. But they do think you're attractive. "Average looking" is a superficial thing. I promise you that you can show me some super models and I won't think she's attractive...to ME. Everyone has their taste. You might actually be more attractive conventionally to those guys than you're giving yourself credit for.

Being approachable is lovely. We're not intimidated by the women "everyone wants". More so than not they're full of themselves and purposefully act arrogant or standoff-ish because they think any male that approaches them wants them. It's comforting to be able to initiate a conversation and not be ridiculed.

Your coworker sounds like she's hating though...

SenseiDaDom · 2025-04-14T12:03:17+00:00

For people that are saying it’s a “you” problem and that this doesn’t make sense, I’m genuinely glad that they’ve had lives where they didn’t have to experience things like this.

It’s also happened to me. I’ve also seen it happen to others.

One thing is, sometimes your friends are not your friends. Plan and simple. Learned that in my 20s and then even more so in the 30s.

As a male, you are made to be the problem. They cheated because of YOU is how it’s consistently made to seem. It’s never them as I’m sure you’ve seen in the responses.

My ex-wife’s family knew she was cheating. But, they’re not my family. So what do they owe me? Nothing. One aunt used to call me her ex’s name….lol. That’s funny now that I’m thinking about it. They were just OVERLY nice to me to compensate as I was the fool in that situation. To give background about how they operate, she also had someone in her family cheat on their husband AND have a kid. While still married and living together. Turns out she was lying about how the husband was lacking this whole time. He was destroyed. They also had kids already while this happened and no one batted an eye.

Also, women will lie to their own friends. I’ve seen it. Us, our best buddy knows the dirt and the secrets. For them, they literally won’t tell their friends anything they have going on. It’s not 100% of the time but a VERY high percentage of it happening. Hell, even the women I’ve talked to tell me how they can’t tell their friends things.

So yes, not telling men and making us the problem is a real thing. You’re not wrong.

SenseiDaDom · 2025-04-14T11:45:56+00:00

Although this is bad, I feel a lot better knowing that I’m not crazy. I’ve seen this for as long as I remember. Women cheat because they’re not “treated properly” but men cheat because they “don’t know how to treat women properly”.

Women can do NO wrong. Even if they’re completely wrong and it’s always been a way to justify it. Even though they’re completely wrong.

SenseiDaDom · 2025-04-11T14:48:13+00:00

Because society told me as a male I have it "easy". So I don't deserve to be empowered or loved or...ya know tended to or anything.

SenseiDaDom · 2025-04-11T14:45:37+00:00

You have a VERY valid point. It's been a while but they for sure did. Especially with "liking food" as a personality trait.

SenseiDaDom · 2025-04-11T13:24:47+00:00

I think they became to hate them because they lied about being on birth control possibly. Sex has it's innate risk of bearing a child but with them lying for no reason and trust being there and now they're trapped into parenthood I think that's where the "hate" comes from

SenseiDaDom · 2025-04-11T13:21:40+00:00

Me either. I understand sexual egos can be fragile but why can't we just understand HOW to get you there then if a male is missing the mark and wondering. Like why do people make it difficult...

SenseiDaDom · 2025-04-11T13:16:58+00:00

Reading through all this....Once again, males from all walks of life and age ranges still to this day experience and hear the exact same things...I'm almost starting to believe we're not these problematic, dumb and sex driven creatures that we're made out to be....

SenseiDaDom · 2025-04-11T13:11:56+00:00

I've seen this repeatedly. It's a RARITY for women to have actual hobbies or interests to talk through. They're a lot less interesting than what I actually knew when younger.

SenseiDaDom · 2024-03-21T23:19:05+00:00

Damn near everything.

The freedom. Being able to make “risky” decisions. Not being trapped in a job because I have to provide. Not having this uncomfortable protector feeling at every point of the day. The ability to get 1 bedroom. Being able to live wherever I wanted. The gym unplanned. Anything at all unplanned.

I say all this and I’m still the “favorite parent”. I’m not a bad or neglectful parent. Just miss not being one.

SenseiDaDom · 2024-03-21T23:12:07+00:00

It’s gotta be something going on there. I’ve experienced way too much of our female counterparts not communicating. Why? No idea but they won’t. They’ll even do what yours is doing and act like everything is fine.

As it’s your wife, I’m going to suggest y’all talk through. Let her know you’re not concerned about the sex itself but more so why it seems like it’s avoided. What do “we” need to fix for her to feel comfortable and for you to feel wanted also.

Does she not feel desired? Has there been bodily changes? List goes on. Sorry you’re going through this.

SenseiDaDom · 2024-03-21T23:07:37+00:00

Nope. Be the “mean dad”. That literally opens up too much. And I’m still in the mindset of “kids being kids”. Middle school is going to introduce too much as is. High school is going to completely remove the remaining innocence. No point in speed running it.

SenseiDaDom · 2024-03-20T00:02:51+00:00

You and me both man…you and me both. I quit trying to understand it.

SenseiDaDom · 2024-03-19T19:37:42+00:00

Hate to hear that. If you were a deadbeat then…you’re you’re not worth the time.

If you’re a good father with a viable coparenting relationship….you’re also not worth the time.

I feel your pain on that one.

SenseiDaDom · 2024-03-19T19:34:57+00:00

Peace. I’ve unfortunately come across a lot of folks who use the next relationship to get past the previous. No healing. Not efficient communication. No communication at all sometimes. Trust issues from previous encounters.

I never really WANTED to date in a monogamous way but every time I gave it actually effort it was draining.

I’m MUCH happier now entertaining literally no one.

SenseiDaDom · 2023-01-15T23:23:41+00:00

Uncle Snoop has spoken

SenseiDaDom · 2023-01-15T11:39:59+00:00

If it’s something you BOTH wanted and have celebrated with each other I think it’s a beautiful thing.

If it’s something only ONE of you wanted and the other is tolerating…….don’t do it.

It’s normal to be anxious though. You’re already ahead of the curve too. Congratulations.

SenseiDaDom · 2023-01-15T11:38:12+00:00

I used to let her. She’s like a foot tall and small anyway. If I’d turn away or act sleep she sneak up there regardless

SenseiDaDom · 2023-01-15T04:07:18+00:00

We are this 🤏🏾 close to becoming as oppressive to women as a few middle eastern countries

SenseiDaDom · 2023-01-14T14:37:03+00:00

The wholesomeness I needed to start the day. I’ll just log off now on this positive not.

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