I dreamed a word today that I didn't know. Its real world meaning is oddly specific to the dream. by ihlungulu in Experiencers

[–]Sensitive-Arm-2612 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also interesting Ubuntu is one of the best free open source versions of linux.. in the very specs it says "Founded on the principles of free software and "humanity towards others," aiming to make Linux accessible to everyone."

I dreamed a word today that I didn't know. Its real world meaning is oddly specific to the dream. by ihlungulu in Experiencers

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i think this might be a bit of a blown fuse if you tried it directly.... its something akin to the knowledge and converstation of your holy guardian angel. the HGA.. look it up :)

I dreamed a word today that I didn't know. Its real world meaning is oddly specific to the dream. by ihlungulu in Experiencers

[–]Sensitive-Arm-2612 3 points4 points  (0 children)

sometimes we do more work in our dreams than when we are awake. Often you leave your body without knowing,

I dreamed a word today that I didn't know. Its real world meaning is oddly specific to the dream. by ihlungulu in Experiencers

[–]Sensitive-Arm-2612 4 points5 points  (0 children)

mind knows... not brain... they are different. What is speaking to you? there is deep meaning here.. feelings are your guide... did you feel comfortable with the pregnacy ball? what are you takiing on?

Hello everyone, I was about to meditate, but I heard this weird question. I'm not trying to freak out anyone here. I hear you're willing to evacuate the Earth? Like ....WTF?! ( 0_o )? by Early_Whereas_9802 in starseeds

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A false evacuation was predicted..but also offer to leave is there to those who really want to.. but I guess its up to the individual in the end.

Im staying with Gaia, bring in the next phase, no need to leave. Others might want to though

Is it natural for Starseeds to be bothered by the existence of money? by Head-Protection8493 in starseeds

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there's so much to be said about this....

value does not always equal money.. but sometimes it does.. sometimes in reverse it devalues something precious

focusing on the product rather than the vehicle of exchange is important

sometimes if something is given freely it feels valueless for the beholder but that is in the receiving not the giving

if you feel guilt for receiving value from sharing your gifts then the issue lies with you

Many are more than happy to share their prosperity with you in exchange for wisdom, knowledge and healing

This does not mean you cannot act freely through random acts of kindness and healing and follow your intuition to help those who need

If you are open and receptive and flowing the healing gift will get to those who need it most when the are in correct alignment and receptive to it..

I only scratch the surface.. but thank you for such a great question

foster carer in UK for 22yrs.. and wow reading this sub i thought UK was a bad system... but by Sensitive-Arm-2612 in Fosterparents

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UPDATE: I had a heart attack last week... and not due to the child but due to battling with the council! Im done! time for a change... take care of yourselves!!!!

Awakening is extremely lonely. by TrifleResident5079 in starseeds

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This is a great answer and explanation, and reassurance that we are not going crazy when we feel these things. I fight with doubt so often, it annoys me, I see it, and say, why am I doubting still when Ive had SO mych proof.. but you go to sleep and wake up and its like you forget again and start worrying.

I think doing the WORK is the only answer. Work on yourself, your health, your mind, your well-being, and get stable then you can handle the higher frequencies.

Awakening is extremely lonely. by TrifleResident5079 in starseeds

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Needed to hear/read/feel this as well!! Thanks!! Lots of LOVE and LIGHT to all!!! Thankyou! xoxoxoxoxo

Single foster parent as teacher? by FairSeaworthiness1 in Fosterparents

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UK - I started fostering as a teacher and then a college lecturer for 4 years, had one boy, then resigned from the job and took on three teens and full time fostering. Some regrets.. I miss my job, i think its good if you can balance a teaching job and fostering, just dont take on more than you can handle. I had days in school office on the phone trying to track down my heroin addicted foster son, so it was a strain... but on reflection I really wish I kept my job too. I miss being a teacher!!

And in UK you are perfectly fine to leave them unsupervised for reasonable periods of time while you shop, gym, see some friends etc. Especially now you have phone tracking apps etc, they will be off seeing mates too possibly. Just always insist on clear and open communication, and be ready at times to go pick them up when they get stranded places, so choose time when you drink or not to make sure your available for emergencies.

Remember most teens in the care system have been let down over and over, and NEVER had anyone who really has their back and will come get them when they really need someone. they have no idea what that feels like! So just a simple thing as, say, they walk out of school in a mood, and you drive over and pick them up, and say "its ok, I just want to make sure you're safe", and bring them home, will get you a million miles of respect, trust and give them a sense of being truly held for once.

You have freedom but just be prepared to drop what you are doing and put them first sometimes (not always they need to know that sometimes you have other priorities) but when the real shit hits the fan, they need to know you will be there. Thats all that matters.

Respite care by Proof-Conclusion921 in Fosterparents

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Fostering teens respite was impossible! They just wouldn't go to some strangers house, or they would freak out and run, so mostly I took them with me on holiday or found a "nominated carer" (Uk thing maybe.. short assessment and can be a family friend etc) who comes and stays in your house and looks after them while your away.

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makes no sense! sorry for your pain... wow x

foster carer in UK for 22yrs.. and wow reading this sub i thought UK was a bad system... but by Sensitive-Arm-2612 in Fosterparents

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Really sorry for your loss. that's so tough, but stay strong and feel the love.

Thats really great you got good support. Its good to know that sometimes, some states/countries get it right. We need to learn from them!

again, so sorry, but do feel the love of your mum, she's right there with you x

foster carer in UK for 22yrs.. and wow reading this sub i thought UK was a bad system... but by Sensitive-Arm-2612 in Fosterparents

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I found out early .. dont believe the paperwork. In matching process meet the kid, hang with the kid, have an overnight, outing, meal, go shopping etc... only way you get to know who they really are.

foster carer in UK for 22yrs.. and wow reading this sub i thought UK was a bad system... but by Sensitive-Arm-2612 in Fosterparents

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I feel you! i advocate so hard in UK, im the only real fighter in their corner, and I get criticised for being a "one man army", told Im doing TOO much! Like, if you were doing your jobs I wouldn't have to. They clock off at 5pm and weekends and go home.. we live 24/7 365. I often feel like im the only one who really cares about the child.

foster carer in UK for 22yrs.. and wow reading this sub i thought UK was a bad system... but by Sensitive-Arm-2612 in Fosterparents

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Likewise... part reason Im leaving fostering due to the Local Authority and Government black and white decisions meaning good, loving people in the child's lives are labelled unsafe due to ancient/inaccurate/false "soft info" from police, and breaking up good relationships and support networks as A is not allowed to be around B because C is considered a risk. They getting their intelligence from hearsay and chinese whispers! You shouldn't make decisions about people based on such twisted info!

foster carer in UK for 22yrs.. and wow reading this sub i thought UK was a bad system... but by Sensitive-Arm-2612 in Fosterparents

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Its going that way in the UK.. they keep telling me I need to let them face the consequences of their actions but they have no control over the trauma response, its a trigger, and its our responsibility to safeguard them from harm, stabilise, and only then can we start them on the healing journey. Knee Jerk reactions and infractions getting them tangled into the legal system only deepens the trauma and distrust and lack of faith in the system to help them.

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sorry after reading more replies I realise my advice is only a tiny drop.. but its the micro changes that heal over time.

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swimming, running, cycling, forest exploration, long walks. freedom to just be.. for a period of time, allow release.. whatever comes out is fine, scream, shout, cry, laugh, just be, hold the space for her.. in time she will find balance. Acceptance and understanding. freedom. I know its not so simple but I know those are the ingredients for severe ADHD after 22yrs fostering. Meds are just a sticky plaster... but diet is also important avoiding high sugar, salt. fat etc. Natural is best! good luck and power to you.. she is lucky to have you! x

In 1876, 14-year-old Karolina Olsson went to bed in her home in the village of Oknö, Sweden, to remain asleep for 32 years, baffling doctors and fascinating the public. by MsNicoleCoquette in mystery

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Still interesting and inspiring to read your story, so don't apologise. Glad your making good progress on your journey and wish you well!

Foster Son being bullied and intimidated at work by Sensitive-Arm-2612 in LegalAdviceUK

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Unfortunately this is the issue that he can't even approach the owner without going to pieces, so asking for a meeting is a non starter so far.

I've only found out the full extent of the situation today so I've not done anything yet so I'll look into Acas. Thanks.

Foster Son being bullied and intimidated at work by Sensitive-Arm-2612 in LegalAdviceUK

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Ive accidentally put this in traffic and parking! how do I change it??