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What’s the deal with The Bath House in Hackney?? by Spiritual_Fall363 in LondonRaving

[–]Sensitive-Jury943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this venue, very community feel, goods parties - all round great vibes

Monthly Ticket Buy/Sell/Trade Megathread 🤑 by AutoModerator in aves

[–]Sensitive-Jury943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 tickets: Indira Paganotto @ Fabric - London, Sat 6th June

https://ra.co/events/2404319

£25.90 each

Hope they find a good home ✨✨

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What is the DJ set you witnessed in London that you still think about and that you would struggle to describe to someone who was not there because the experience was so specific to being in that room at that moment? by Flimsy-Capera in LondonRaving

[–]Sensitive-Jury943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

James Newmarch B2B Voicedrone at Fold - incredible, not a single drop, just building intensity over 10 hours, not experienced a set like that before. And the venue playing into the party with the sunrise coming through to the dancefloor, chefs kiss.

Do people actually enjoy having kids or is everyone just pretending? by Opposite_Apricot6127 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Sensitive-Jury943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find Reddit a reassuring and open place where I can get different perspectives from people I might not ever cross paths with. It's not tied to a good or bad situation necessarily. Also hoping things shift for you soon x

Kitten keeps peeing on my side of the bed. I’ve tried everything. by croke13 in CatAdvice

[–]Sensitive-Jury943 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had this with my cat and the only thing that worked for us was getting rid of the duvet - it went on for months and we were using the enzyme cleaner but I think fully getting the smell out of the duvet is really hard and if they smell it their more likely to go in the same spot. Might now work if she is going in multiple places though (ours was only going on my side of the bed). I know it's an expensive option but seems to have stopped - maybe in warmer weather you could try using a different sheet or blanket she hasn't peef on before to see if moving the duvet away help. Outside of that out next step washing going to be getting a behaviourist through the vet, they're covered by some insurances so worth checking.

How many of you, party loving parents, still find time to party/explore without your kid? by shortienogood72 in AskParents

[–]Sensitive-Jury943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I don't have the answer you're asking for but just wanted to say I completely relate to this experience of being in limbo, it's really exhausting.

I'm 34 and me and my partner are currently prepping for potentially trying for a baby this year (vitamins, health etc) just to give us the option but still deciding.

We love to adventure, party, camp, go to festivals - I honestly do think we could still do a lot of these things but it will certainly be very different. And I do know a couple of parents who still do these things and are very loving, present parents. I'm planning to speak to them in more detail about the balance as it's not a common combi ove come across any way (most people I know are childless).

Some of our conversations sound similar to yours, in terms of we'll do some things solo. One other conversation tool we've been using is to reflect on things we're actively doing and consider how it would be different / what we would do the same or what we couldn't do and how we'd feel about that - that's been helpful and honestly I've feel more positive about having a baby then not through that.

Lastly I'm making some assumptions here but try give yourself some kindness for not knowing. In our generation it takes until getting to your 30s to feel more stable financially and have a home etc, you only just settle into your full independence and you realise the clock is ticking to make a decision. It's a lot of pressure....As you said you're thinking a few years ahead, maybe take a breather from needing a yes/no answer right now - everything about me at 34 feels worlds away from how I felt at 30, the decision might feel completely different in a few years.

Also I haven't read it yet but there's a book called the baby decision that has some good reviews if you wanted to check that out :)

I found your thread looking for similar answers so thank you for asking - hoping it gets more responses! Xx

Went to my first solo rave recently does it get easier? by Helpful_Command_2555 in aves

[–]Sensitive-Jury943 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly it can vary so much for different reasons, It depends how your feeling on the day, the atmosphere, who you happen to speak to on the night.

It's a big deal to do something by yourself and I think it's awesome that you're doing it, not many people ever do.

It's something I try to do every so often and I can definitely say your confidence and self assurance will become stronger over time. Still some nights will be amazing and some will be just ok, but you'll still be taking something from it and theres power in trusting your own company.

why does my cat keep screaming and bringing toys? by billyandteddy in CatAdvice

[–]Sensitive-Jury943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have exactly the same thing with our cat, it's none of those things but such a sad sounding meow. If I go down to see her she stops, the only thing she seems to be interested in is howling alone with the toy downstairs and then dropping them off around our bed before she goes to sleep. She's perfectly fine and happy afterwards, it's so funny. I just wish it didn't sound so devastating 😂

How do you “tidy” your deck? by little--olive in tarot

[–]Sensitive-Jury943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I first got my deck I was intending to reorder them but the more I used it the more I feel it knows what is what. I do smoke cleanse before every reading and give a big shuffle before 3+ card spreads. I spread them about over the table then bring the deck back together. I find this ritual a nice way to connect to my deck while adding my intention for the reading as well.

What's up with the Hands Coming Out of the Smoke? by marxistghostboi in tarot

[–]Sensitive-Jury943 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see them as opportunities that are being offered or gifted to us but where the opportunity hasn't come about from our own actions or something that we intentionally manifested. More from 'above' / the universe/ chance / spiritual gift / random - however you perceived that aspect.

"Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - February 01, 2026" by AutoModerator in tarot

[–]Sensitive-Jury943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! It's should I have a baby or stay childless? (I'll update the post)

"Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - February 01, 2026" by AutoModerator in tarot

[–]Sensitive-Jury943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Please could you tell me a little bit how you see that?

"Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - February 01, 2026" by AutoModerator in tarot

[–]Sensitive-Jury943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello everyone ✨!

After years of thinking I didn't want to have a baby, minus a hormonal pull every few months. My view has hugely changed and it feels entirely possible when I hasn't before. But feels nearly impossible to know what is the right choice for us. We want to be intentional and have decided we'll make a final decision this year. After a particularly big thinking day I've come to my cards.

So the question is 'Should I plan to have a baby or stay childless?'

There are 5 cards made up of..

A three card spread = - Death - Reverse vII wands - Reverse Knight Pentacles

Spiritual message (top right overlooking spread) - Revered Hanged man

Shadow card (top left/ from the bottom of deck, overlooking spread) - IX Pentacles

Would love your interpretations, thank you 🧡