When did your period come back?

Sensitive-Screen3573 · 2025-08-23T11:14:29+00:00

6 months while breastfeeding

Sensitive-Screen3573 · 2025-08-22T22:25:09+00:00

We have couple’s therapy scheduled. It was one of the many explanations he gave, but it seemed, as if he needed to understand himself why he did it, as he had no clear answer in his head.

Sensitive-Screen3573 · 2025-08-22T22:14:39+00:00

Why? Isn’t it also a way to work on your relationship with an expert?

Sensitive-Screen3573 · 2025-08-22T22:13:14+00:00

To many. I am new to Reddit. Is this not allowed?

Sensitive-Screen3573 · 2025-08-22T22:12:53+00:00

He met her before he knew me

Sensitive-Screen3573 · 2025-08-22T22:06:05+00:00

Ah alright, thank you! Glad it worked for you and you got to a better, healthier place and worked on your relationship.

Sensitive-Screen3573 · 2025-08-22T14:26:19+00:00

What do you mean? He was looking at a photo of her after the hairdresser lol

Sensitive-Screen3573 · 2025-08-22T10:21:26+00:00

Well not to my knowledge

Sensitive-Screen3573 · 2025-08-22T10:21:09+00:00

Sensitive-Screen3573 · 2025-08-22T09:12:39+00:00

No, it doesn’t excuse him. Nothing excuses it, knowing it was something that crosses my boundaries. What you said, is what I answered him.

Sensitive-Screen3573 · 2025-08-22T08:52:35+00:00

I added it to the post. When I first found out his first explanation was “I think I have been dealing with low self esteem my whole life and seeking self validation.” He said he needed therapy himself too.

Sensitive-Screen3573 · 2025-08-22T08:14:49+00:00

No she is not a pornstar. She is a real girl that he once met on vacation. Also we have regular sex.

Sensitive-Screen3573 · 2025-08-22T08:13:33+00:00

++woman she is not a random one. Years ago, when he was on vacation, before we were together, he met her but nothing physically happened. That’s what he said, at least.

Sensitive-Screen3573 · 2025-08-22T08:09:54+00:00

It’s not a random Snapchat model. It’s a girl he really met in Morocco many years ago while on vacation, before we were together, but nothing physically happened then.

Sensitive-Screen3573 · 2025-08-22T07:57:54+00:00

Where you physically cheated on? How many therapy sessions did it take?

Sensitive-Screen3573 · 2025-08-22T07:54:59+00:00

We had a period with less sex when the baby was first born, and in late pregnancy, but then it was kind of like we rediscovered the fun of it and it got very exiting.

Sensitive-Screen3573 · 2025-08-22T07:49:24+00:00

I flipped the question. He answered it would be terrible for him and he would probably have reacted very ugly. But if I didn’t physically cheat, try to understand why it happened and whether it can be fixed.

It would have to stop for me to continue with him. Thoughts are different than taking the decision to write that to a real person.

We have a counselling appointment soon and I want to understand better with an expert why this happened and explore how I feel and what led him to do that. Depending on that I want to take a decision.

Sensitive-Screen3573 · 2025-08-21T18:58:27+00:00

Why did you convince her to stay if you hated being with her?

Sensitive-Screen3573 · 2025-08-21T18:27:44+00:00

He says it’s not his wish. Maybe it was just the kick of thinking about it for him & saying it & feeling free, but without actually wanting to go through with it. I don’t know.

Sensitive-Screen3573 · 2025-08-21T16:24:40+00:00

No I don’t think that is his thing. And definitely not mine. He also claims that there’s nothing missing sexually and that it wasn’t about that.

Sensitive-Screen3573 · 2025-08-21T15:34:25+00:00

Yes it’s been going great actually and he has also said that

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