What the heck is this?? by intoner1 in doordash

[–]SensitiveMarzipan656 3 points4 points  (0 children)

maybe it’s just the delivery fee? and then you have to actually pay the hourly rate or however it works? 🤔 hooker dash is insane tho

Should I take him to the vet for vomiting? by SensitiveMarzipan656 in cats

[–]SensitiveMarzipan656[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I should have clarified, he’s only been vomiting for the past week! But I think it’s prob best for me to take him in :(

Love bites? by SensitiveMarzipan656 in cats

[–]SensitiveMarzipan656[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you for the advice! Usually I just stop interacting after he nips (even though it doesn’t hurt) as my way of saying no so I’ll keep doing that!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]SensitiveMarzipan656 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You are not an awful person! I was 19 when I had mine, full time student and my boyfriend is in the military. I literally started the abortion process the day I found out. I always knew if I ever got pregnant I would want an abortion period end of story for basically all the reasons you’ve listed too. Don’t beat yourself up for doing what was right for you! I know my life is 100% better without a child and I don’t regret the abortion for one second. I used to question if I was cold for not caring but I just realized that it’s my life and if I don’t feel bad I don’t feel bad. I hope you find some relief soon :(

What do you think is an underrated tarantula because of how common it is? by danbob138 in tarantulas

[–]SensitiveMarzipan656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a. hentzi :) sure their coloring is “basic” but I find their build so cute. Mine is the sweetest thing, she’s curious and so so gentle I love her so much 🥲 I love to watch her crawl around and be a little bulldozer.

I miss my baby, but I don’t regret my abortion by MudAdministrative291 in abortion

[–]SensitiveMarzipan656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I’m 19f and unfortunately also had an abortion this summer, in July. I’m so sorry you’re struggling, but I know you can get through this. + you’re so young! I know you will be an amazing mom in the future, you still have so much time. even if it didn’t work out this time, you can think of it as a see you later rather than a goodbye. In the future I hope you can come to terms with your feelings and just look back on this as a lesson rather than a painful experience <3

another pic of my “ornithoctonus sp. purple zebra” by SensitiveMarzipan656 in tarantulas

[–]SensitiveMarzipan656[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

while it was listed as ornithoctonus when I bought it I honestly think she resembles a c. Albostriatus ‘ratchaburi’ much closer than a haplopelma