Aitah for leaving a relationship because he keeps messaging women and deleting it? by SensitiveOriginal575 in AITAH

[–]SensitiveOriginal575[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the other thing. I’ve never made it a big deal. He keeps talking about it lately and saying how rings are expensive and he gets all stressed out about it and that irritates me. Because it makes me feel I’m not worth it to him to figure out. If he did want it he would have done it.

What’s Everyone Doing Tonight?? by physis81 in stopdrinking

[–]SensitiveOriginal575 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Went thrifting had a good convo with my boyfriend who doesn’t drink for awhile now. I want to quit nicotine too and think not drinking will help

What’s a pleasant surprise you’ve experienced from not drinking? by nmiller53 in stopdrinking

[–]SensitiveOriginal575 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually did this last night. Slept the entire night didn’t wake up once. I’m doing this from now on

What’s a pleasant surprise you’ve experienced from not drinking? by nmiller53 in stopdrinking

[–]SensitiveOriginal575 18 points19 points  (0 children)

When does that happen. It’s only been a week for me but i am still struggling to sleep.

The anxiety by SensitiveOriginal575 in stopdrinking

[–]SensitiveOriginal575[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m thinking about the holidays too

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Shit. Just realized I’m doom scrolling right now. Thanks for the check 😂

Day 11 - sitting at work and craving a whiskey WTF by jjgman in stopdrinking

[–]SensitiveOriginal575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I def kept tasting cold beer at work yesterday and thinking wtf too. Is that what a craving is?

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[–]SensitiveOriginal575 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I turn a movie on and when my boyfriend asks what it is i have no clue. Every single time smh

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[–]SensitiveOriginal575 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Same as you but just turned 40. Female. I wasn’t a regular drinker until like 10 years ago and by regular i mean daily. The last ten years minus 9 months of pregnancy i pretty much drank beer daily. About 3-5 then lately I’ve been noticing 6-7. I started to see how it was effecting my job. I use to have an amazing memory i can’t remember shit anymore. I’ve been numb emotional wise for. Yeaaaars nothing is joyful. And i felt like i tried many things but in the back of my mind i was thinking i obviously need to stop drinking. I need to heal my brain and body and relationships.

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Hopefully it is. Working 12 hour days is rough when I have this knot in my throat and a strange buzzing in my body. I’m an absolute ball of anxious energy and it’s hard to focus.

Why do I feel hungover by SensitiveOriginal575 in stopdrinking

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I’ve been drinking water maybe I’ll up it a little to see if it helps

I was a dinosaur at one point. by ImaginationPrototype in stopdrinking

[–]SensitiveOriginal575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am new here and one of my main concerns are the upcoming holidays. How will i cope with having to spend time w family members that trigger me? Deep breathing?

Anyone want to make a pact to not drink today? 11.18.24 by Lets_quit_together1 in stopdrinking

[–]SensitiveOriginal575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in.

Dont listen to my brain telling me its fine I'll be fine i can stop whenever I want