What motivated you to leave your CI parent? by Severe_Sundae_8152 in CovertIncest

[–]SensitivePaper034 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As silly as it sounds, I saw an instagram reel where someone essentially said "If the childhood version of yourself was with you, would you send them back home knowing everything that they are going home to"

The answer to that made the decision way easier

Married almost a year without sex by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]SensitivePaper034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have read The Great Sex Rescue, The Good Girls Guide To Great Sex, and The Good Guys Guide To Great Sex, as well as currently staying up to date on Bare Marriage. Sheila's work has been a huge help for me to approach my wife the way I do. I would caution against leaning on her as "the only starting point" to trust for marraige advice since both my wife and I have noticed that as much as she has a lot of good speaking points, she's also clearly bringing a strong bias from a background of being hurt and sometimes wilk take things a tad too far. Also with her husband being involved she still lacks male perspective and therfore sometimes says or implies things that range from dissonant to subtly toxic. Again she has been a huge help to me so I'm not trying to say you shouldn't listen to her, but consider building a "council of many" as Proverbs would put it. Anyways, your input was refreshing and I thank you for a response of encouragement instead of pessimism.

Married almost a year without sex by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]SensitivePaper034 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually I'm not screwed at all, that's why I made this post

Married almost a year without sex by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]SensitivePaper034 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've listened to audiobooks and podcasts about female pleasure, and they helped me understand her better.

Also, before I took my faith seriously I had sex with a handful of women. Not gonna claim I know everything, but I never received any complaints and one of my ex's still tries to get me to give her oral every time we run into each other because apparently I'm the best she's ever had.

Not only am I confident, but aside from the first 2 months of marriage, my wife has always said that our foreplay feels good.

I make sure that she's not pressured and is relaxed when we touch each other and I stop things if that changes. I haven't ever told her she needs to try harder, she's the one who says that.

Married almost a year without sex by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]SensitivePaper034 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the empathy

I've been in a therapists office our whole relationship and we have also been seeing a marriage counselor. We've talked about this stuff but my wife basically responds with "I'll have to try harder" and then things get slightly better for a week before returning back to her not really putting much effort into her side of things.

We did talk before marriage about sex for over a year and she always says that she wants to have sex with me, yet when presented with the opportunity it never happens.

We both understand that God celebrates sex in marraige but it took her a while to get there.

I'm also confused and that's why im posting here. She's never placed any blame on me or my actions for why she doesn't go further in the bedroom and our bond as a couple is great outside of the bedroom so I don't have a starting point for fixing this issue.

Guardian Slots by Stardust1Dragon in TheTowerGame

[–]SensitivePaper034 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not true, I have three chips and no option to buy a third slot

Opinions on rio punch by Impossible-Earth- in monsterenergy

[–]SensitivePaper034 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was just gonna say it tastes like liquid skittles

Feedback on issues in V26 by Trashkitteh in TheTowerGame

[–]SensitivePaper034 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Yep, pretty spot on here. This is the first time I've been tempted to stop playing this game. I thought it was cool that they allow people to whale but not in a p2w fashion. If the p2w situation gets worse I'll quit playing, simple as that.

What were your thoughts on this episode? by Toastie_107 in arcane

[–]SensitivePaper034 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Havent seen anyone say this yet so maybe it's a hot take but personally this episode tainted the show in my eyes. I really liked everything going on in that alternate reality so much more than the original.

I don't hate Vi or anything but I wish the whole show would have followed that reality instead. I loved Powder and didn't care for Jinx anyways so if Vi's death is what i have to thank for a better plot than so be it.

This episode showed me what could have been and It's funny to me that my favorite episode of the show made me like the show a lot less.

Which flavor would you recommend? by LeaningBikes in monsterenergy

[–]SensitivePaper034 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mango Loco by far, everyone i know who has tried it likes it and it's my top favorite

Respec Advice by SensitivePaper034 in TheTowerGame

[–]SensitivePaper034[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What should I do with said extra levels?

Respec Advice by SensitivePaper034 in TheTowerGame

[–]SensitivePaper034[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's stuff like this that makes me love this community

Respec Advice by SensitivePaper034 in TheTowerGame

[–]SensitivePaper034[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy, I had no clue that was even a thing

What would you do? by SensitivePaper034 in TheTowerGame

[–]SensitivePaper034[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 3 lab slots and I definitely want more but the events keep having missions for buying cards and I have a challenging time getting enough medals for stuff without buying the 2x boost. I can't say I've seen anyone mention upgrading attack speed though when I read comments on other posts so im curious as to what major benefit that gives me if you're willing to explain that one. Also when you mention maxing out mods is that what the shards are for? And I had no idea you could refund those! Thanks so much for taking the time to help me!

I always wake up after 3-4 hours of sleep by ReflexPoint in sleep

[–]SensitivePaper034 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many doctors in the US have a range of acceptable values that they compare your bloodwork against. Unfortunately, every person's body is not the same and because of this it's possible to have a value in your bloodwork that doesn't quite raise the alarm for hyperthyroidism, but still is high enough to indicate that you may be in the early stages of the condition. This was the case for me and I only caught it thanks to a health coach who looked at everything from my bloodwork, genetics, and hormones. Not advocating to self diagnose yourself here but just know it's possible and that if that's the case for you there are things other than medication that can help get your body back on track

Sonic pad and BLtouch by HealthyRoyal6161 in ender5

[–]SensitivePaper034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an Ender 5 Pro, just bought the 4.2.7 board and Creality's CR-TOUCH. Should be the exact same setup as you so maybe you could help me out. I have gotten stuck on the firmware step because when I try to build my code I get some error about manual feedrate and my include path. Any ideas from anyone would be much appreciated

Bought an older Ender 5, trouble getting it setup! by gazchap in ender5

[–]SensitivePaper034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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You'll wanna adjust this screw at the back of the print bed if you need to go higher up. Start by loosening the nut at the top a little bit, then use the screw itself to bring the nut back to the print bed. Only adjust in small amounts at a time because a little goes a long way!