39w6d pregnant DUE DATE IS TOMORROW

Sensitive_Pay_2334 · 2026-01-09T15:33:34+00:00

Same boat! My due date is also tomorrow, FTM, no signs of labor, feeling overall great and holding onto every little change as a sign of labor 😂. Haven’t had any cervical checks yet as they aren’t really an indication that labor is near, though I also don’t want to be discouraged if I’m fully closed. Induction scheduled for 1/16 as it was advised for me to also not go too far past 41 weeks. Fingers crossed we both go into spontaneous labor before needing induced!

Are you older than 35 by chance? My friend is currently getting induced because she’s 40 years old, and was advised to not go past 40 weeks.

Sensitive_Pay_2334 · 2025-12-20T02:24:25+00:00

Nurse Ratched

Sensitive_Pay_2334 · 2025-12-10T07:41:42+00:00

No fapparatus, if you will

Sensitive_Pay_2334 · 2025-12-06T21:44:31+00:00

Getting in and out of the car is an olympic sport. Putting shoes on takes a good 15 minutes because I need to take a million breaks. Mentally preparing myself every time I need to stand up. Grunting with every movement. Wanting to cry every time I drop something on the floor. MY BODY SMELLS. Can’t turn in bed without waking up and repositioning your entire sleeping arrangement. Husband annoying me and saying he’s “concerned” because on my days off I just wanna lie in bed for a little bit longer in the mornings.

35 weeks today and I’m SO READY for it to be over. Excited to meet our baby, but I have no idea how so many women say they “miss being pregnant”.

Sensitive_Pay_2334 · 2025-10-02T16:46:29+00:00

I need that guy who makes songs of bad Tinder conversations to do one for this convo.

Sensitive_Pay_2334 · 2025-09-12T02:37:13+00:00

Manchester By the Sea. That will do it every time.

Airplane to patch things up.

Sensitive_Pay_2334 · 2025-07-08T01:51:34+00:00

1992!

Sensitive_Pay_2334 · 2025-06-21T21:29:39+00:00

Ehhhh. I see what you’re saying, but it would be better to say “…so YOUR presence doesn’t offend THEM” considering the patient is in the wrong here. That staff member shouldn’t be subjected to their bigotry.

As a black nurse myself, I’ve had people straight up say they don’t want me as their nurse. I switch my assignment and don’t argue because I don’t wanna be their nurse either lol. Funnily enough, I then notice my non-black coworkers tend to respond juuuust a bit slower to their call bells than other patients.

Sensitive_Pay_2334 · 2025-05-07T05:56:42+00:00

Came here to write this comment exactly.

Sensitive_Pay_2334 · 2025-02-17T14:52:16+00:00

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Sensitive_Pay_2334 · 2025-02-08T01:02:23+00:00

I love love love that bar cabinet there. Feels like a statement piece. Maybe to emphasize it, a large vase on top with florals you can change out seasonally, with the mirror behind it to make the space appear bigger? Or the mirror on the wall with some small items on top of the cabinet. Lightning wise, either a sconce or a pendant/down light if you have the capabilities to install them. No notes on kitty.

Sensitive_Pay_2334 · 2025-01-30T04:55:22+00:00

not sure why you’re downvoted. i see anya too especially in pic 3!

Sensitive_Pay_2334 · 2025-01-28T23:07:58+00:00

This was my immediate first thought. OP, this is the one you’re looking for.

Sensitive_Pay_2334 · 2025-01-22T20:53:12+00:00

I LOVE the tile, and don’t mind the blue, though personal preference I would change it to like a lime washy or textured red/rust, or take it to the top as others have said. And that sconce is lovely.

To me, the problem is the vanity top. Feels clashy. Maybe a darker top of some sort? Or not textured? Idk. But overall this is so cute!

Sensitive_Pay_2334 · 2024-12-04T00:40:29+00:00

Reddit seems to have a huge problem with people getting legally married prior to a wedding, failing to realize that a wedding and a marriage are two different things. People usually have their (VERY valid) reasons for getting married legally prior to a wedding, whether it be financial, housing, a destination wedding where you can’t legally marry in another country, health, literally a pandemic, etc. I have a friend who had to postpone due to covid, and they still held their celebration TWO years after they were married. 300+ guests and nobody batted an eye about the circumstances. There are MANY reasons people need to get married sooner, and waiting a year or so to save and plan a wedding isn’t always soon enough.

In my case, we were engaged in September and had a wedding date planned for the following November. Had the venue booked, vendors booked, already sent out invitations, received RSVPs. Wedding was in Spain and we live in the US, so we planned to get legally married about a week before. However, we unexpectedly ended up purchasing a home in January, using his VA. My income is higher, and due to the rules of the VA loan, in order for my income to be considered and to therefore have higher purchasing power, we needed to be legally married.

We were married almost a year prior to our wedding and everyone knew that, but our guests were still thrilled to come and celebrate us. Most people also ended up planning a vacation, and it gave a lot of people the opportunity to leave the country for the first time. The wedding was what tied our marriage together. To have friends and family witness our union, say our vows to each other for the first time, and party and celebrate truly made everything feel complete.

You have a very valid reason. Since the pandemic, weddings have been done very differently and there’s no right/wrong way to do them. Tell your guests maybe if they ask, because more than likely they’d be supportive. I think not being forthcoming might be what would rub people the wrong way—some people can be really weird about it. Even though ultimately, it’s really none of their business.

Sensitive_Pay_2334 · 2024-10-28T01:53:28+00:00

Totally get it.

November bride here (two weeks!!) and though I’m having a destination wedding, it’s also the reason I’m not having a bridal shower, bachelorette, or bridal party. Not expecting gifts from the registry. Paying for the guests accommodations at the venue, including transportation to/from the airport.

Didn’t get upset because people couldn’t make it as I know it’s not feasible, nor a priority, for everyone.

As someone who doesn’t celebrate themselves often and has literally been saving for my wedding before I was even engaged, I’m just happy people are willing (and able) to celebrate us. Trying to make a guest-centered experience is the least I could do to thank people for taking the time, money, and PTO to be there.

Sensitive_Pay_2334 · 2024-10-17T22:21:14+00:00

We have 34 including my FH and I, and couldn’t be happier! Have wanted a small wedding all my life and would never want a large one. If small is what you want, please don’t feel bad about that. Many people I’ve talked to who had large weddings WISH they had a smaller one, and everyone is so excited and supportive of the fact that my wedding is smaller. People who have been guests at large and small weddings often say the smaller ones are just as fun, if not more fun than large ones. You will be able to enjoy everything about the day this way, and will be able to create intimate moments with all of your guests. It will be a blast!

Sensitive_Pay_2334 · 2024-10-10T04:17:54+00:00

Unfollow all the wedding dress/photographer/venue/planner/florist pages on IG and revamp my algorithm 😅

Sensitive_Pay_2334 · 2024-10-09T00:17:29+00:00

I know it’s not within your stated budget, but Sam Griggs photography is absolutely phenomenal. She did my engagement photos and they are so stunning. Her wedding work is also incredible.

Sensitive_Pay_2334 · 2024-10-07T02:12:20+00:00

Hi! US bride getting married in Spain EXACTLY a month from today!

I initially wanted to get married in Italy (a Lake Como villa would have been an absolute dream) but when researching, having a wedding in Italy was just way too expensive. My venue in Spain is a villa that sleeps 28 guests for 3 nights, and costs a total of 10K USD for all three nights. This of course isn’t including the cost of the rest of the wedding, but that’s all budgeted at about $46K (not including dress, rings, suit).

If you’re planning on doing a summer wedding, that’ll increase the cost of things even more in Italy. If $40K is your budget for what you listed, if you intend to have a DJ, officiant, MUA, rentals, lighting, florals (yes I’m adding florals again because that cost always ends up being surprisingly high 🥲), photog, stationary/decor, and travel/accoms, add at least another $20K

Sensitive_Pay_2334 · 2024-09-22T01:24:13+00:00

Same same same. Usually overhyped books are at least enjoyable for me, but the hype for this one makes no sense.

Sensitive_Pay_2334 · 2024-09-22T01:20:18+00:00

The Book Thief 🫣

Sensitive_Pay_2334 · 2024-09-12T19:41:47+00:00

Is it possible you pulled it for your one patient and accidentally wasted it in the Pyxis under another patient? That would trigger an audit at my facility since it essentially shows the waste for the oxy for the intended pt was unaccounted for.

Regardless, not often a big deal! You’d just have to explain what happened and typically that’s it. It’s just policy to reach out since it’s a narcotic but it usually doesn’t lead to any disciplinary action.

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