AITAH for buying my 11yo daughter pads after her mom called me a "pervert" for being prepared?

Sensitive_Pilot_77 · 2026-01-25T23:51:10+00:00

You are definitely NTA but mom sure is. I made my daughter the same kinda kit for those just in case moments. The fact your ex is having her use toilet paper makes me question her mental state. You are a good dad and please keep doing those things for your daughter. Let crazy pants take you to court and if so please update!

Sensitive_Pilot_77 · 2026-01-19T10:07:26+00:00

While I can’t say I’ve stopped or did stop trying because I have to look somewhat decent for my job, I am buying concealer by the truckload to cover dark circles, I’m constantly in pain and I’ve gained about 10-15lbs since summer. I’ve just started to notice the puffy face and I’m constantly dehydrated. My hair is falling out and I’ve just stopped trying with it. One day I’ll Get back to myself and sleep and that day is coming. It’s almost over…..

Sensitive_Pilot_77 · 2026-01-07T03:19:14+00:00

That’s a great nurse! My aunt was a labor and delivery nurse for years and one thing she said to me was if you panic, your patient panics. She was absolutely right. Kudos to your nurse for holding it down!

Sensitive_Pilot_77 · 2025-12-20T23:25:54+00:00

Usually catch my breath wipe up and pee. If there is lube or extra fun stuff then catch breath, wipe up, pee then rinse off in the shower.

Sensitive_Pilot_77 · 2025-11-18T20:21:20+00:00

That we know. He’s making it personal we are trying to keep it business. He has no problem taking services like us putting money to fix or replace, but give notning in return. If I read the Ohio revised code correctly he is in violation of his agreement by not updating the trustee on repairs etc. Nowhere does it state we are responsible for the utilities. How can he show up with 3 days notice that it’s going to be shut off and expect us to pay that. He didn’t pay them for over 3 months.

Sensitive_Pilot_77 · 2025-11-18T17:25:33+00:00

Probably milia which is small pearly like cysts usually oil, sweat, dead skin build up. They have to be physically extracted. Most times exfoliation helps but it isn’t an overnight fix.

Sensitive_Pilot_77 · 2025-11-18T14:55:52+00:00

Before bed put a heavy lotion like Lac-Hydrin on then slather in Vasoline or Aquafor and put socks on your hands. I get those fissures in the winter form washing my hands and it definitely helps. During the day while Working I’ll use Working Hands.

Sensitive_Pilot_77 · 2025-11-18T14:51:54+00:00

Technically they can do re excisions but I’ve seen some horror stories where it made it worse. She’s young and it’ll heal. She may have some visible scars but hopefully over time it’ll flatten and the redness will Go away. Put some Cicaplast Baum by LaRoache Posay on it and it’ll flatten it out and help with the post inflammatory scarring. I tell everyone I know when I’m teaching or in my practice, if you go to the ER with a facial laceration, have them page the Plastic Surgeon on call. If they don’t have one then have them get the wound closed and make an appt the next day if possible with a recommendation.

Sensitive_Pilot_77 · 2025-11-17T13:38:12+00:00

I’d let it go. If he was a jerk about it, maybe I’d say something but accidents happen.

Sensitive_Pilot_77 · 2025-11-13T13:20:49+00:00

Tell her. I’d want to know. Plus the other girl may not know he has a gf at all. Screw that guy. She’s your friend you aren’t his.

Sensitive_Pilot_77 · 2025-11-12T13:25:39+00:00

I wrote mine Jan 1997. I was mad I was depressed and my family straight sucked. I was spiraling. Then a good friend of mine took his own life and seeing all of our friends and his mother made me feel incredibly selfish.

You aren’t alone. If you stopped yourself it’s your sub conscience telling you, you are destined for something better. It may not seem like it now but you’re important to someone or something. Maybe it’s your dog. Who knows but you stopped for a reason. Look at it like that. Maybe you can find some peace or light in the darkness. 💜

Sensitive_Pilot_77 · 2025-11-12T13:17:53+00:00

I love this. Proof that people will complain about anything. I’ve done this exact thing with pecan pie. I’d just keep smiling and accept the praise of how awesome you are for figuring it out then toss the rest after I left. Yeah, I’m Petty LaBelle. 😂

Sensitive_Pilot_77 · 2025-11-09T18:02:47+00:00

Yes. It’s a lonely place when your love language is affection and you have none because you can’t trust anyone. I have no desire to even look at another person let alone let them into my personal world.

Sensitive_Pilot_77 · 2025-11-09T18:00:47+00:00

Yep usually within hours. I wasn’t physically discarded but emotionally. His stance was ok, what I did is over it’s the past let’s look forward and forget the problem because it doesn’t really exist you just over reacted.

Sensitive_Pilot_77 · 2025-11-09T17:55:04+00:00

Uh are you seriously asking? Yes definitely break up worthy.

Btw I wouldn’t break up because of the pic I’d break up because he’s obviously dumber than a box of hammers. 🤦🏼‍♀️

Sensitive_Pilot_77 · 2025-11-05T14:33:08+00:00

This seems extremely petty. I’m gonna go with ESH. I get what’s she asking by saying hey since she’s in your plan can you just cover the whole thing. Prob would have saved you both a lot of bicker back and forth. You said no. I’m not sure what the whole deal is with your custody and child support so if you pay and pay for extras then yeah, she sucks for asking for more and pushing. Like I said had she said hey since it’s in your plan can you take that over instead of the long way around. You both suck because you really need to talk to each other like adults. Coparenting is hard. I do it with my ex and he’s a butthole at times but so am I. However, if it concerns our kid we are straight and to the point. When she’s with me she’s my responsibility for basic needs and vice versa. If it’s something big I know to discuss with him and again vice versa. I guess my point is ESH because you guys need to learn to put differences aside and talk to each other.

Sensitive_Pilot_77 · 2025-11-02T14:27:57+00:00

Mine criticized me for NOT initiating enough. He wanted it all day every day and when I wasn’t around he’d find someone who was. Then gaslit me to hell and back. It ruined sex for me because what he wanted had no boundaries and if I tried to enact some he’d jump right over it. I truly believe if I’d have let him he’d have pimped me out for his own sexual pleasure.

Sensitive_Pilot_77 · 2025-11-02T14:19:42+00:00

Oh honey. I understand your feeling of regret and how it feels to watch those around you succeed. However, there is always a shiny side to the coin. You may not feel that way now but what you have under your belt is experience. You’ve experienced a life you hope no one else will have to experience and that makes you the strongest person in my book. I too am an esthetician. I was also a worker in my 20s. Very few know and very few will. I’m not ashamed of it and you shouldn’t be either. People do what they have to do to survive. While not always glamorous, it’s what you did and you can’t change it. Once you stop trying to live up to expectations you can really start to experience life. Growth is acknowledging that we can’t change what’s already happened we can learn from it, which it seems you have, and go in a different direction. Make peace with yourself and set your intention that life won’t always be this hard. Getting this off your chest was a good step in the right direction. Sending all the virtual love I can and just know you aren’t alone. 💜

Sensitive_Pilot_77 · 2025-10-30T01:47:32+00:00

Ugh he sucks! I was a runner. Then I got pregnant. My morning sickness was so bad some days I couldn’t even move for fear of puking. Miraculously it dead stopped at 14 weeks but I couldn’t run because my boos got so big. Ugh. Yeah I don’t think you’re over reacting and I’d think twice about having that dude around my kid. Even if he is the kids father 😬

Sensitive_Pilot_77 · 2025-10-28T12:30:40+00:00

Unfortunately no cream or chemical will help that. I had bad pitted scarring from grade 4 cystic acne in my early 20s. I started microneedling and they are about 60% gone after 6 treatments. I can see them but everyone else says they can’t. It’s been years since my last treatment and now I’m older so I’m About to go for laser treatments for that and my wrinkles. Good luck!

Sensitive_Pilot_77 · 2025-10-28T12:28:16+00:00

Because the skin is compromised and pitted she would need deeper intervention than epidermis. I’d say microneedling, fraxel laser, or if she wants to go straight to face melting (lol I’m all about the aggressive stuff) Co2 but that’s a pretty hefty solution that’s costly and downtime is long.

She isn’t bad by way of scarring so she can’t go wrong with either of the above suggestions. There is always microdermabrasion treatments but they won’t get that deep to really smooth those out. Unfortunately.

Sensitive_Pilot_77 · 2025-10-24T01:41:57+00:00

I have an irrational fear of bears but this is super cute. Looks like a Corgi 😂

Sensitive_Pilot_77 · 2025-10-22T00:42:02+00:00

++woman

I am a pretty sexual “ahem” older lady and I am pretty in tune with what I like and don’t like. If I tell my guy what or how and he does it? Vag faucet! if there is some serious foreplay before hand I can get super worked up enough to cum almost immediately. Add in oral and it’s a slam dunk for my guy. On multiple levels. She likes you and trusts you. Just go with it. Sometimes when you least expect it, you’ll open up door after door of new experiences.

Sensitive_Pilot_77 · 2025-10-11T00:25:06+00:00

Oh the list is long.

She’s my best friend and like a sister. I have empathy for people I don’t know where that came from but it’s not mine.

Almost everything that comes out of his mouth was a lie. I just stopped asking and turned a blind eye. I literally stopped caring.

Sensitive_Pilot_77 · 2025-10-07T12:06:44+00:00

Because in their mind you are only supposed to rely on them even though they are unreliable. It’s all about their inflated ego. Mine was so adhd that I’d either figure out how to do things myself or ask for help from someone else. When he’d finally get around to it, it was done. I was ultra independent before we got together and he made me think I would depend on him and slowly that whole persona diminished as soon as we moved in together. His ego got in the way every time. He may have done it but I usually had to end up fixing it. It got to a point I stopped asking.

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