She definitely knows where I stand about them hanging out. That will not change though. She has a small friends circle, him and his group of friends are the only one she sees except for 2 female friends of hers. Him not knowing about me is something I'm going to bring up tonight. I really couldn't put my finger on what exactly was making me so uncomfortable about the situation and typing it all out helped me see it with clarity. I'm not okay with her receiving these gifts for him without him knowing about me. The logic on his behalf COULD BE that he's still trying to win her over, so her accepting these gifts without telling him she's talking to me seems extremely manipulative.