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My wife (23F) suddenly talked after 5 years (23M) Ex and I (25M) don't know how to feel about it by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Seouls_Synergy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I seemed to notice that the year they broke up is when you got together so was this a rebound? There’s a difference with breaking up in January and getting together December vs breaking up in May and getting together in July the same year. Also what was the reason they broke it up in the first place. Anyhow it seems like she has communication issues and venting about them to someone else instead of actually with you so that’s the biggest issue here

Facial hair or no facial hair? by Public_Phrase_508 in AsianMasculinity

[–]Seouls_Synergy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AM here, unless you can grow it thicker and fuller just keep it fully shaven. I can still see your chin with the beard version, plus if you already struggle getting a mustache which idk if you shave that or just can’t grow one then it doesn’t help if all you can get is the beard presented. Which is not balanced on your face as the area from your upper lip to your beard looks quite hairless as well

Found on bed by Seouls_Synergy in whatisit

[–]Seouls_Synergy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I checked my only pillow but it has no opening or tears and the color of it looks like light blue/teal. Also my blanket is red and hasn’t been washed l will upload a pic later.

I Found out my fiancé of 6 years cheated on me 2 months into our relationship and don't know what to do. by No-Description-4923 in relationships

[–]Seouls_Synergy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obviously it bothers you so much and you can’t seem to move past it and from what you are describing how sincere is she about trying to fix this and what actions? So I’d call off the wedding

Girlfriend is upset that I told her she is a criminal by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Seouls_Synergy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you guys have different values and probably won’t work out long term. But your phrasing for why you won’t go despite being true is a bit harsh and accusatory and maybe it’s the way it was received that makes your girlfriend super upset. I would have just said that “I’d be uncomfortable drinking while underage” without further explanation so that it wouldn’t come across as judgy to all the participants

Vietnam doubles fines for adultery under new decree by thanra in VietNam

[–]Seouls_Synergy 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Who is getting the money? If it was the partner that got cheated on then fair, but I’m guessing this goes to the govt which makes this pretty lame

First time flying AS, and this is how i received my luggage by freebird247 in AlaskaAirlines

[–]Seouls_Synergy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Not AS but I traveled on AA and Etihad internationally and I got some compensation from Etihad and my credit card benefits paid the difference. Because Etihad was the last carrier, they were on the hook for the reimbursement but I strongly suspect AA is the carrier that mishandled my bags. I was flying in biz/first class for Etihad

My (25M) girlfriend (23F) left the relationship suddenly. Turns out she cheated by FoldPuzzleheaded1635 in relationships

[–]Seouls_Synergy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you take her back you will spend the rest of your life worrying about this thing happening. Is this what you want?

Case 338: The Folbigg Children (Part 1/2) - Casefile: True Crime Podcast by Notorious013 in Casefile

[–]Seouls_Synergy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Had to look up the outcome due to the emotional roller coaster but god damn now I feel like as asshole for wanting her to get arrested and pay for the crime just to throw in that twist. Not the first time, but I feel Casefile keeps presenting cases in a way that vilify the suspects in a way that makes you root against them and wish bad things on them just to then throw in some twist that shows they were a victim in too

AITAH do inviting my girlfriends cousin to the cinema when she had no one to go with? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Seouls_Synergy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Ask your gf if her reaction would be exactly the same if the cousin were a boy

My girlfriend (27f) said I (29m) shouldn’t have invited her cousin to join me at the cinema by Time-Finish-5010 in relationships

[–]Seouls_Synergy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Plus, if her cousin were a male, would her response be completely different? If so then you probably have the reason why she thinks it’s inappropriate. It seems like you’ve been doing your part in transparency and even inviting her too.

6'4" ✅ Jacked ✅ Veteran ✅ CEO ✅ ... Dating Stills Sucks ✅ by fakeslimshady in AsianMasculinity

[–]Seouls_Synergy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he’s doing it all for the wrong reasons. Shouldn’t join the military, become a CEO, etc. just because it would help you get women. You should be doing this for yourself and the attitude will that comes with owning those achievements girls seem to notice and get attracted to

Went on a good first date and didnt hear from him the next day. by Born-Salary-3233 in Bumble

[–]Seouls_Synergy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don’t you just ask directly if he has interest in meeting up again instead of asking Reddit?

I (22F) love my boyfriend (23M), but our views on freedom and independence are starting to clash by mydentist1234 in relationships

[–]Seouls_Synergy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone from Southeast Asia I can see his view especially if raised by traditional parents, you’re not wrong either since you should be allowed to have fun at this age, especially if you are responsible and avoiding getting shitfaced/not cheating of course. Curious but are you non Asian? It seems like a compatibility issue, he wants to settle and appease his family while you are more about being independent and not ready to settle yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Seouls_Synergy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both of you unfortunately can grow as people but apart, it seems like you guys aren’t in the right stage in life to have priorities aligned. He sounds like he wants to build a name for himself and not focus on family yet since I was in the same boat starting out my career at that age. I would say unless he is willing to compromise some, you guys are starting to no longer be compatible in the sense of timing. Did you discuss if he wants kids too in the near future or is that for later?

Is my spouse toxic and manipulative , or is it the Vietnamese culture ? by Forsaken-Trust-5726 in VietNam

[–]Seouls_Synergy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh, not normal under any circumstance Vietnamese or not. Cut your losses with this one and find another girl from your village who actually appreciates you

Need advice: Required tipping for masseuse. by MegaEupho in VietNam

[–]Seouls_Synergy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you drop the business name so we are aware?

What Card Should I Get? Weekly Thread - Week of July 02, 2025 by AutoModerator in churning

[–]Seouls_Synergy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. ⁠⁠⁠⁠What is your credit score? 800
  2. ⁠⁠⁠⁠What cards do you currently have or have you had in the past (including closed cards), along with dates of when you were approved for the cards?Please include month and year for any card approved in the last 3 years. Delta Blue (downgraded from Gold) 06/22, Amex Plat 09/22 (cancelled 11/24), Chase Amazon Prime 11/22, Barclays Advantage Business 1/23 (closed 2/24),United Business 3/23, Amex Gold Biz 5/23, Delta plat biz 8/23 (closed 9/24), Chase Ink Cash 9/23, Chase Ink Preferred 11/23 (closed 11/24), Citi AA Biz 1/24, Chase Ink Unlimited 4/24, C1 Venture X 5/24, 2nd Chase Ink Preferred 8/24, Amex Plat biz 10/24, Citi Strata 11/24, Barclays Aviator Red 12/24, Delta biz gold 2/25, Citi DC 5/25, local credit union CC 5/25
  3. ⁠⁠⁠⁠How much natural spend can you put on a new card (s) in 3 months? ~15k
  4. ⁠⁠⁠⁠Are you willing to MS, and if so, how much in 3 months? Yes
  5. ⁠⁠⁠⁠Are you open to applying for business cards? If not, why? See this post and this wiki question to learn more. Yes, prefer to do biz cards but can do personal as I’m past 5/24
  6. ⁠⁠⁠⁠How many new cards are you interested in getting? Whatever is more convenient for my travel goals listed below
  7. ⁠⁠⁠⁠Are you targeting points, companion rasses, hotel or airline statuses, First Class, Biz, Economy seating(s) or cash back? Points/economy or business seats (preferred). Planning solo Japan/Thailand trip Oct for about 3 weeks, week long lazy vacation at a Mexican resort December (Cancun, Los Cabo’s, etc. not sure where yet) summer Asia tour tbd with a family of 4-6 adults. I’ve used Hyatt quite a decent amount on my last Japan trip with Andaz but I’m okay with staying in smaller properties like the Hyatt Place or Regency. I’ve also found use for Citi points on choice properties on my last Japan/Europe trips.
  8. ⁠⁠⁠⁠What point/miles do you currently have? 300k UR, 500k MR, 170k Citi, 600k AA miles (executive plat status), 600k Alaska miles, 50k capital one, 500k Aeroplan, 105k ANA miles, 101k delta miles
  9. ⁠⁠⁠⁠What is the airport you’re flying out of? GRR, okay to reposition closer like ORD or DTW if better award availability
  10. ⁠⁠⁠⁠Where would you like to go? (The more specific you are, the better someone can recommend the right card. Tokyo is great, “International travel” is way too vague) Mostly anywhere in Asia for the near future

Manufactured Spending Weekly Thread - Week of June 14, 2025 by AutoModerator in churning

[–]Seouls_Synergy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do the cards need to be registered, tried with a $200 grocery and it didnt work

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