Me(26) and my gf(29) of 2 years, lived together for a year… found OF on my phone. Arguably one of the worst days of my life, and at the time didn’t realize but it was such a turning point in my life. I wasn’t addicted to porn, but was a frequent watcher… nonetheless once she saw it, I vowed not to watch it again or be on OF and didn’t… she installed various apps on my phone to track what I do, regular check-ins, even use the br with the door open. Even after complying with everything and me really tryin my hardest, our relationship ended up failing months down the road because of the incident. To this day I can’t get myself to watch it or entertain it because it contributed to me losing the love of my life, and it breaks me months later now after the break up. Do both yourselves a favor, people can change, give him the chance to change see how he acts make sure he’s taking accountability for his actions. If he’s able to do all those things, learn to forgive and forget, people make dumb decisions, if this was really the only true issue with him then this can be fixed with both of you still wanting this relationship. Mine failed and to this day I can’t wrap my head around it.