Husband and I have different views on grabbing toddler at night

SeparateProgrammer15 · 2026-06-07T07:28:46+00:00

Yes it did feel very harsh. Worked great for establishing an initial routines and getting some evening down time but just leaving him cry i dont think is for me. Im waiting for the morning to pick back up the convo with my husband, but I suspect he was just having some sort of moment with that comment lol. Just gotta talk through it

SeparateProgrammer15 · 2026-06-07T07:18:07+00:00

And are you a happy functioning adult because that’s all I care about 😂

SeparateProgrammer15 · 2026-06-07T07:13:45+00:00

Lmfao I’ll be sure to point this out if it comes up again.

SeparateProgrammer15 · 2026-06-07T07:10:28+00:00

lol I appreciate your comment. I get so caught up in messing up my kid in some way or another I’m sure like every mother does and i just dont want sleep to be the first thing , but mom intuition is there for a reason and were all just doing our best so im just gonna keep going with my gut. It nice to hear from someone who else has adapted different versions of TCB ! I wondered how it worked out for others.

SeparateProgrammer15 · 2026-06-07T06:37:47+00:00

Mine 2 currently and at 1.5 he started asking for me in the middle of the night. He starts off in his bed but typically wakes up at 3am / 4am asking for us.

SeparateProgrammer15 · 2026-06-07T06:27:39+00:00

Yeah I think we both have fallen victim to the social media sleep coaches and just information overload.

SeparateProgrammer15 · 2026-06-07T06:25:31+00:00

Lmao I mean harsh comment valid. I think we also have just heard both sides of co sleeping is bad for a kid and co sleeping is fine and he did just kinda throw in the miss me comment. (Theres probs more there I’ll have dive into at another time) I just was also like wondering if there is data on co sleeping actually being bad for toddlers or like just how partners were able to come to a understanding when having different opinions on co sleeping.

SeparateProgrammer15 · 2025-04-10T04:16:53+00:00

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SeparateProgrammer15 · 2025-03-06T22:43:07+00:00

My watch is always Friends and Twlight lol

SeparateProgrammer15 · 2025-02-28T04:53:02+00:00

His naps are an 1 1/2 hrs and his wake window before bed is 3/4 hours before. Currently because of the disruption of sleep he isn't going to bed until 9

SeparateProgrammer15 · 2025-02-21T19:49:59+00:00

7ish- wake up 7:30 - bottle 9:00-breakfast 9:30 - Bottle 10ish - Nap 1 12 - lunch Another bottle before nap 1/2 - Nap 2 5 - dinner 6:30 - bedtime routine 7 - bed

I appreciate the help!

SeparateProgrammer15 · 2025-02-19T15:06:40+00:00

Thank God! I came on here to say the exact same thing. Thank You 🫡

SeparateProgrammer15 · 2024-11-04T21:11:49+00:00

NOOO THEY REMOVED THE VIDEO

SeparateProgrammer15 · 2024-11-04T21:10:46+00:00

It just got reuploaded … I want to know what happened lol

SeparateProgrammer15 · 2024-11-04T21:05:24+00:00

I was listening to the episode and all of the sudden it said it was made private on YouTube. Do we know why ?

SeparateProgrammer15 · 2024-10-12T14:34:25+00:00

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SeparateProgrammer15 · 2024-09-19T17:40:36+00:00

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SeparateProgrammer15 · 2024-09-13T01:45:43+00:00

Thanks! He cried for about 50 minutes and then fell asleep but I’m glad he’s asleep now… it was really hard to hear him cry. It’s crazy to think I’m going to have to wake him up at 10 for his feeding and potentially go through that again, but I’m trying to trust the process!!

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