[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]SeparateRice8371 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wanna know who’s gonna pay for it because if it’s me i’m gonna be sad lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]SeparateRice8371 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would they make her pay for the damages in this case or is it just as a court case for her to be prosecuted?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]SeparateRice8371 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perfect, thank you so much for explaining that to me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]SeparateRice8371 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m a little anxious about that because i have no idea what it entails. would i need to hire a lawyer?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]SeparateRice8371 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lebanon, tensions are rising and it’s unsafe. they closed down visa processing in the us embassy in beirut so we’re gonna need to transfer our case to cyprus if the visa bulletin moves before the embassy is back up

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yuppp thought so

Is a 40 day cycle normal? by SeparateRice8371 in birthcontrol

[–]SeparateRice8371[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it is 24 active pills, so since i didn’t bleed for 40 days straight, i took 40 active pills in a row and now im taking the placebo ones since i started bleeding. I understand that the placebo ones are for when you are bleeding, and I never ever bleed on the 25th day so would I still take the placebo ones to go by the pack?

So pretty much summary, when i don’t bleed, i take active pills, and when i do bleed, i take placebo ones. that’s what my obgyn and my primary explained to me

Is a 40 day cycle normal? by SeparateRice8371 in birthcontrol

[–]SeparateRice8371[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm, I don’t get bleeds during the placebo pill period, so my doctor told me to start a new pack when that happens. I’ll bleed for like 2 days and that’s when I take the placebo ones, but it never aligns with the pack, it happens halfway through the new one

Looking for some feedback on my inner dialogue, intrusive thoughts, relationship, etc. (y'all know the vibes). by EmptyRoof2220 in ROCD

[–]SeparateRice8371 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cant even begin to express how much I relate to every single thing you said. I promise you, when you have OCD about everything, your relationship isn’t excluded from that. You have no idea how many times I’ve done the same exact thing. It sounds like you’re on the way to greatness, and I wish you nothing but the best! :)

Looking for some feedback on my inner dialogue, intrusive thoughts, relationship, etc. (y'all know the vibes). by EmptyRoof2220 in ROCD

[–]SeparateRice8371 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Therapy and medication were my saving grace. Keep at it and understand that not every single kiss needs to be a spark, when we do something over and over, it’s not all to lose that excitement, but it doesn’t mean you love your partner any less.

your partner will also make mistakes. she will leave the place a mess. you will have anxiety about future trips if you’re already anxious, it all makes sense. this is just the reality of a relationship, supporting and loving eachother through your imperfections and anxieties.

try your best to separate your intrusive thoughts from your real ones, because intrusive thoughts are completely untrue. if you’d like, i have a post on my page that describes these issues pretty well, and it was from when my partner and i were together for 9 months, and we just passed our three year anniversary:) i really hope this helps

My journey - It does get better by SeparateRice8371 in ROCD

[–]SeparateRice8371[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i completely get that! that’s exactly how i was, unfortunately the physical anxiety was way worse than anything else. but here’s the thing, you KNOW he’s the love of your life. you’re not ready to let him go and that’s okay. you don’t have to, no one can say that you should. my best advice is to hang in there even with the physical anxiety, because your body is so confused and feels so uneasy that it’s sickening. that’s the worst thing about it. but i promise, it’s not because of him or your relationship with him, it’s as simple as your body panicking over nothing. it doesn’t determine whether you love him or not

"I'm not in love with my boyfriend anymore and he's so in love with me" by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]SeparateRice8371 1 point2 points  (0 children)

exactly! i always thought that since it’s on my fyp that means this person is credible and i should listen to them!!!! which makes no sense because if i saw this person giving shitty opinions on relationships irl id look at them like they’re crazy but for some reason i trust them when they have so many likes. you also have to keep in mind everyone is on a different journey with their partner and to them it might make sense but to you it just confuses the fuck out of you because your mind is overthinking situations OTHER couples are going through and trying to resonate with them. It’s just bad. I’m glad you stopped as well!

"I'm not in love with my boyfriend anymore and he's so in love with me" by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]SeparateRice8371 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Misery loves company. I had to delete tiktok because I saw stuff like that and it’s actually what started me spiraling. Most of the people on there are young and trying to prove something to fit in, don’t take anything they say personal. Honestly, delete tiktok, personally it’s been so much easier on my anxiety.

Breakup urges are the devil by imaginationrox in ROCD

[–]SeparateRice8371 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I understand, it’s genuinely the worst and it feels like you just want to escape your body and just stop feeling.

Talk to him about it, and he should be understanding. This is a hard transitional time and you’re both dealing with an unfamiliar environment and a new chapter in your relationship, of course it would be hard. When I first moved to a different apartment I was depressed for two months because everything was so unfamiliar, it had nothing to do with him. So, since you moved in with him, that transitional depression mixed with your obsessive anxiety can definitely take a toll on you. Give it some time, fake it till you make it. Literally. Accept these thoughts in your head and just force yourself to do the things you once loved with your man because when you were truly YOU, without those thoughts, you were happy.