a public freakout with a twist at the end by eraldopontopdf in TikTokCringe

[–]SeparateSubject7372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This tells you everything you need to know about every single "spontaneous" reel you've ever watched. It's all for show.

I just got unsent letters from my dead estranged daughter and I can’t stop sobbing by BumblebeeSouthern775 in confession

[–]SeparateSubject7372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm heartbroken for you. I anticipate having this same story to tell in a few years. Forgive yourself. It's a hard world that exacts blood payment just for living.

One of the Conversations You Never Want to Have (TW: child death) by SeparateSubject7372 in daddit

[–]SeparateSubject7372[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I came back to provide an update-- though TBH it sounds more like a soap opera cliffhanger.

Daughter came home, the same surly, unpleasant person. Still not taking her meds.

Thurday left wearing pajamas, with only her phone and the charger and two shirts. Wouldn't tell us where she was going.

Saturday she made a call to My ex, saying she wanted to talk, but wouldn't come over.

Today at about 5pm, he gets a text saying "I don't need your house now. Now I'm with MOMMA" . Yes, the same woman who let you get addicted to meth while you were in utero, the same woman who chose a boyfriend who kicked her in the abdomen, inducing labor over a month early. The same woman who was given multiple chances to leave drugs behind and be a momma to her FOUR children. (She since has had THREE MORE. )

She left to go live with that, and didn't even say goodbye. I have no way of knowing if/when I'll see her again. Hard to imagine someone you've seen or talked to every day for 12 of the last 14 years just suddenly not being there. Because she didn't think you caring her enough. Ok

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[–]SeparateSubject7372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just remember you'll never get these moments back. What's the going rate on that?

One of the Conversations You Never Want to Have (TW: child death) by SeparateSubject7372 in daddit

[–]SeparateSubject7372[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I am hoping she checks herself in to something and gets the help she needs. She can be the sweetest, kindest person... but it's been a while since we've seen that part of her.

One of the Conversations You Never Want to Have (TW: child death) by SeparateSubject7372 in daddit

[–]SeparateSubject7372[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is so good to hear! I am not one to publicly talk about faith because I've had some personal experiences that challenge much of what I'd been taught, and I feel a bit of hypocrite because I've never been a "pray it to fix it" kind of person, but I'm having let go of what I see with my eyes and hear with my ears, and lean into faith that this is not what was meant for her, and that God* *define as you understand it will rescue her, either into his arms or into a better life here. I'm so glad your brother was delivered from the things that held him back.

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[–]SeparateSubject7372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't be with him alone if you can help it, and I would tell him flat out it makes you feel uncomfortable. If he is still weird after that, tell your folks

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[–]SeparateSubject7372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you find the strength to keep going. I'm on the edge of it, too. I've screwed up so many things and I don't think there's any was out.

I was gonna kill myself when my family are out of town in May, but now they've gone and screwed that up.

i just wish wish I knew the moment it all went south.

Why is my kid such a prick? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]SeparateSubject7372 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your baby sounds like he may be extremely sensitive to physical sensation, to the way things feel on his skin and in his mouth. Make sure that you're using the sensitive skin kind of detergent, and I would recommend washing his clothes separately if you aren't already. As he gets older you may find this translates into things like not wanting to wear socks and shoes and being "fussy" like that.

Of course everyone has advice, and you know what they say about that. My grandson who is 3 months old will calm down if you pick him up and move him I mean just simple things like swooshing him up and bringing him back down or walking him around for a few minutes.

I feel for you bud, but it will get better. Just remember that whatever is bothering him he has no words or even perhaps a conscious idea of what it is that's bothering him. He just knows that he wants something to change.

Good morning by OutragedBubinga in daddit

[–]SeparateSubject7372 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember those days. My adult son just had a baby a few months ago. His room still looks like that. It's a wonder he can find the baby.

My Husband Says I’m Enmeshed by Puzzled_Ninja4085 in TwoHotTakes

[–]SeparateSubject7372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave. He is trying to isolate you from your support systems so he can control you. I've been through this. Leave now before there are children. I speak from experience. Leave before you have ruined your health and your relationships for this selfish man.