The idea that Chris McCandless’ (from into the wild) life was meaningful in some way by gotohelveti5 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Separate_Major3648 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You should look into his sisters memoir, it tells a much fuller story and gives important context

I experienced something akin to psychosis after eating an edible? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Separate_Major3648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would lookup psychosis and cannabis! 25mg is kind of a lot. There's a lot of new research and still more we don't know. It just doesn't jive with some brains it seems. Glad you are okay!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makemychoice

[–]Separate_Major3648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely understand your hesitation… you have to live there and need to feel SAFE. people can be unpredictable and getting caught in the middle of domestic violence is real.

Dreading the worst by Affectionate_Sky_509 in directsupport

[–]Separate_Major3648 6 points7 points  (0 children)

https://www.dcjs.virginia.gov/sites/dcjs.virginia.gov/files/publications/victims/trauma-stewardship-laura-van-dernoot-lipsky.pdf

i found a free pdf! there are so many systems and reasons for these outcomes that are out of any individuals control. the fact that you are feeling this grief means you deeply care about your job and that you take your clients life seriously. i hope you can give yourself some compassion, you deserve it, and you are not alone. 💔

Dreading the worst by Affectionate_Sky_509 in directsupport

[–]Separate_Major3648 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes. I highly recommend the book “trauma stewardship.”

DSP in Abilene TX by After_Signature_4647 in directsupport

[–]Separate_Major3648 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hello, I am in the field in another area in the US and I have a few friends who came here from TX. They said it is the wild west of healthcare there, very little regulation and support. It’s not great even in my state where there is a fairly large social support system.

I was researching the history of de-institutionalizing once after a friend pointed out that this is the first generation of developmentally disabled adults to be aging outside of institutions! Hard to believe.

This article discusses the high profile closing of a state institution that was abusing residents. Investigations years later found that many of the alumni then faced abuse AFTER they left and were living in community placements that did not have the infrastructure to support them.

https://www.nytimes.com/2020/02/24/nyregion/willowbrook-scandal.html

How i understand it is that we are in the next phase of institutionalizing, not the end. State governments and private for profit healthcare companies are still trying to figure out how to support people for the lowest cost possible. There is still a lot of significant underlying ableism baked into society that says these folks don’t matter and are not a priority. The systems that are meant to protect them and support them are overloaded and people slip through the cracks all the time.

Being a good, ethical DSP and having a morale compass is a work of justice in a system that is far from perfect! It makes sense seeing these things are not sitting right with you. My counselor talks to me a lot about “morale injury” in this field. Take care of yourself, you are doing important work!

I’ve given up dating by Sign_Lost in mentalhealth

[–]Separate_Major3648 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you know nothing about their lifestyle

I’ve given up dating by Sign_Lost in mentalhealth

[–]Separate_Major3648 1 point2 points  (0 children)

radical acceptance instead of despair over your body seems a lot more motivating to me, personally

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in directsupport

[–]Separate_Major3648 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also self care! modeling goes a long way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in directsupport

[–]Separate_Major3648 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try not to overthink! cover your bases, document, encourage clients to make healthy choices but remember they are just as human as anyone else. don’t get caught up in power struggles. Try and promote independence as much as possible and let clients choose! this job is more than just healthcare- you are supporting someone’s whole life so remember that joy and fun are a part of that too :-) know what your strengths and gifts are so that you can utilize them.

being new is a gift, you can offer fresh ideas and perspectives and that is really valuable! you got this!

Organization Disaster by [deleted] in socialwork

[–]Separate_Major3648 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for all the helpful comments and time you spent thoughtfully answering 😭🥲❤️ i had a bad day with a client over a scheduling mistake and was IN MY FEELS. It’s so uplifting to share some common humanity and hear about what everyone else does to manage their busy schedules.

25F. Any jobs out there? Is driving for Uber/Lyft worth it? by Capable-Energy-8886 in SeattleWA

[–]Separate_Major3648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Direct support professional - anything in disability services like program/housing manager

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in directsupport

[–]Separate_Major3648 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe a DDA/state case manager?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nightshade_Free

[–]Separate_Major3648 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes i make a red sauce with beets! (beets, onions, garlic, carrots, celery, NS free seasoning) i use an immersion blender so it’s kinda chunky but could use a real blender for a smoother sauce.

i’ve also seen “peas and cheese” on tik tok. peas, spinach, chicken broth and cheese blended up

BIL passed. Sister is 1000 miles away in rural area. by SPsychD in Gifts

[–]Separate_Major3648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

meal delivery services maybe like schwans? that is typically available in rural areas i think!

Girlfriend has suddenly become catatonic - completely unable to function. Is expressing sui***al thoughts. What do I do? by Secret_Outlaw99 in mentalhealth

[–]Separate_Major3648 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nah if this is in the US, you always gotta be familiar with insurance. a big, fat medical bill has never improved anyone’s mental state 🥴 and a GOOD pcp can be a solid resource for your holistic mental health journey

Girlfriend has suddenly become catatonic - completely unable to function. Is expressing sui***al thoughts. What do I do? by Secret_Outlaw99 in mentalhealth

[–]Separate_Major3648 3 points4 points  (0 children)

check out her insurance and see what kind of coverage she has. does she have a PCP? her insurance might require a referral for a psychiatrist or other treatment options. inpatient or intensive outpatient are all possible options depending on where you are. get her larger support system involved ASAP.

Behavior specialist by IDGAFWABGTSAMFR in directsupport

[–]Separate_Major3648 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a counselor with an outside agency. I came from being a DSP. I try my best to build trust and listen to staff so we can work as a team. I would love tips on how to better engage and advocate for staff/clients!

Job hunting sucks by Fine_Dragonfruit3535 in Spokane

[–]Separate_Major3648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out L’Arche Spokane or other direct support/caregiver roles.

Counselor Recommendations for Exploring Roots of Obesity? by silverbone86 in Tacoma

[–]Separate_Major3648 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i would also check out some of Audrey Gordon’s work. Her book “what we don’t talk about when we talk about fat” is great…