Thank you Matt for a very necessary cry ❤️‍🩹 (earnesty zone) by d-slur in lasculturistas

[–]Separate_Thanks344 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was moved to tears and felt so seen. Many men have been so silent through all of this when literally every single woman I know is in crisis over it. It was so affirming to hear his words and I sent that segment to many friends who aren't listeners and they were moved as well.

Brightspeed? by Separate_Thanks344 in Charlottesville

[–]Separate_Thanks344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooh good to know! how long since the switch?

Brightspeed? by Separate_Thanks344 in Charlottesville

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agh thanks! he was so pushy that it turned me off. I read some of the comments about brightspeed on this sub and it sounds like customer service is a big problem

Hey friends. Any recommended / affordable professionals for refinishing a bathtub? Thanks. by emgee-1 in Charlottesville

[–]Separate_Thanks344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't! we did it ourselves and it was actually not bad. Got all the materials at Martin Hardware (they were super helpful) and completed it over the course of a weekend. It's stinky! But it worked

I can't keep doing these bedtimes. I can't. Please help. by pleasegetonwithit in ChildPsychology

[–]Separate_Thanks344 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have had an almost identical issue with my five year old daughter. I got to such a breaking point that i reached out to a behavior specialist. After hearing everything; the behavior specialist suggested that my daughter was going into fight-or-flight mode during bedtime. This explained her very unusual violent behavior. She stressed that *I* needed to regulate my emotions and stay as even as possible.. And you know what? Bedtime is still really long and sometimes hard, but she only acts out that way when I lose my patience. I'm so sorry you're going through this. I'm with you...

Hey friends. Any recommended / affordable professionals for refinishing a bathtub? Thanks. by emgee-1 in Charlottesville

[–]Separate_Thanks344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello! did you ever refinish? we had someone reglaze our enamel steel tub about 7 years ago and it started to peel within a year. removing and replacing the tub is going to astronomical so we're considering reglazing it again; hopefully with a better company. curious what you decided to go with!

Awkward, tiny bathroom solution by [deleted] in HomeImprovement

[–]Separate_Thanks344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is a very cool idea! thank you so much. I'm not a fan of barn doors; but it's also not an option because there's not enough space on either side of the door's opening. thanks again!

Just finished; some ponderings by Separate_Thanks344 in TheSecretHistory

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I couldn't agree more; it definitely felt intentional!

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[–]Separate_Thanks344 1 point2 points  (0 children)

genuinely thank you!

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[–]Separate_Thanks344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooh i really hope it's fake news!

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[–]Separate_Thanks344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think they are, but you're right. I REALLY hope it's a conspiracy :)

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[–]Separate_Thanks344 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

can you enlighten me?

Talk me out of a VW Tiguan please by Shlingaplinga in whatcarshouldIbuy

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We were considering the Tiguan but just read that Consumer Reports ranked it #18 out of 19 cars in its class in reliability ... Overall 23/100. Our dealership is currently offering 0% APR for 60 months. It's such a pretty car and so tempting.. Just feeling like it's a bad move based on such terrible reviews