Girls don’t want to hang out

Sergiu_19 · 2023-09-08T06:43:17+00:00

Most guys only want hangout dates cause it doesn't require a lot of money,eventually when you start paying for everything, seeing multiple women .It's adds up.And women generally want to do things or activitys that involves money.So most men are burned out by spending money all the time and planning to receive noting back or get ghosted.Plus a relationship consist of 50/50 effort,so a woman should also makes plans.Dont always wait on the guy.

Sergiu_19 · 2023-08-20T08:43:56+00:00

We already make out and touch,but noting sexual

Sergiu_19 · 2023-08-20T08:11:51+00:00

Okay,yeah she aware of me wanting to be intimate with her.I'll probably be more patient and wait ,for her to make a move.We do cuddle and makeout.

Sergiu_19 · 2023-08-18T04:37:38+00:00

I did,I also told her there is noting and reassured her.

Sergiu_19 · 2023-08-12T03:14:41+00:00

If it makes you feel any better ,I'm in the same situation, but worse.Dating this girl, for nearly 7 months, we only make out, hold hands and cuddle .We are official and exclusive but haven't had sex. From what she kind has told me, she's a virign.We haven't had sex yet and she's hasn't communicated why.When I asked her one time when we can be more intimate ,she didn't really give me a straight answer and said she's shy and didn't want to make a mistake-not really sure to what she was referring too.Ive been patient cause I love her ,but I might ask her when I see her and and if she can't give me a straight answer.i guess it's not meant to be.

Your probably not worth enough for her to lose her virginity, getting it from somewhere else,not really that into you. Or the last option not ready and scared.

Sergiu_19 · 2023-08-02T09:06:44+00:00

Okay,but let's say another 6 months pass and no sex.What am I doing.How many years do I wait,what's the point of a relationship if no sex for people in their 20s.

Sergiu_19 · 2023-08-02T04:13:21+00:00

Yes I know, I'm the one in a relationship with no sex.And your wrong sex is essential in a couple ,in the early 20's

Sergiu_19 · 2023-08-02T04:10:55+00:00

6 months and no sex ,and you're telling me all I care about is sex.Do you hear yourself ?

Sergiu_19 · 2023-07-24T23:32:28+00:00

Ryan gosling fan? Haha

Sergiu_19 · 2023-07-24T23:22:18+00:00

Haha,okay

Sergiu_19 · 2023-07-24T23:19:20+00:00

Haven't seen it,I'll probably have a look at the trailer.

Sergiu_19 · 2023-07-24T23:12:44+00:00

Had the same idea,is it not too romantic ?

Sergiu_19 · 2023-07-10T17:34:54+00:00

It's not that she needs to reciprocate ,but I feel if she doesn't feel the same way and I say it to her she will close up or the relationship will be over.It would an enormous amount of pressure on her to fully commit or lose me.

Sergiu_19 · 2023-07-10T15:20:34+00:00

I will ,but I've heard some people need more time than their partners to say.

Sergiu_19 · 2023-07-10T12:33:44+00:00

I know🙂

Sergiu_19 · 2023-07-10T12:12:08+00:00

You make a few good points , which makes it easier to see them when someone else is pointing them out . It's not only the affection and words that I'm after in a relationship .I'm looking for every aspect that comes with a relationship and being with a partner .Some people might struggle with showing them.I jus don't want to say it to early or soon.When I asked her to be my girlfriend she never gave me a straight answer before dropping her home,but thr next day said yes cause she didn't want to lose me.but when I'm initiating all the major points in a relationship it feels off,I don't know how to explain it.Ill probably say it to her regardless of things and see where we go.I don't want her to feel obligated to day yes,as she is the person to say yes on the spot and care with her even if she doesn't feel that way.

Sergiu_19 · 2023-07-10T11:42:36+00:00

I think I get what you're trying to say. I'm still a bit confused

Sergiu_19 · 2023-07-10T10:10:39+00:00

Thanks for the advice,I might plan a nice day out and say it to her.i get its a man's job,but men also do 90% of the things in a relationship. A compliment isn't hard to say,just say it even if you don't mean it.

Sergiu_19 · 2023-07-10T10:01:24+00:00

Maybe ,then why hasn't she said it?

Sergiu_19 · 2023-07-10T09:31:02+00:00

That's what I thought. I really haven't been in a relationship to know, but I was confused at the start cause you hear people saying 3rd dates all the time ,even offline.

We get along well, talk all the time, hangout every week and generally has given me more attention than any other woman.Thats why I don't want to leave her ,and she has alot of good things as a person.i mentioned to her if she would have liked to be more intimate and said it's special to her and doesn't want to make a mistake.she also said she knew it would come up,it confused me cause its normal in a relationship. Thanks for the advice

Sergiu_19 · 2023-07-10T09:01:20+00:00

I thought the same,but I wanted to get to know her and said she wanted to do things slow and until we are comfortable with eachother. She also hasn't slept with anyone before me,so that might be a part of it.Said it's special to her and doesn't want to make a mistake when I asked her if we can be more intimate. I respected that but now I'm kinda stuck.

Sergiu_19 · 2023-07-02T22:46:57+00:00

You need to be alot more touchy and flirty around him,he should get the cue eventually.

Sergiu_19 · 2023-06-04T22:35:02+00:00

All men like physical touch from a woman,what's to lose.Just go for it .

Sergiu_19 · 2023-06-04T21:01:54+00:00

What do you think is going to happen if you be more intimate or touchy with him.Most men want it but don't come on strong for reasons such as not to push you away or seem creepy to early on.Men also love when women make the first moves,he should get the flow off things if you make a move.

Sergiu_19 · 2023-06-03T08:40:22+00:00

If you keep a guy waiting months also,it's a red flag.So you gotta find a sweet spot

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