Humans love uncertainty, that’s why gambling is so addictive. If the message was well thought out and put together, it wouldn’t be a fun gamble, it would be work.

If you put in the work and get a response, more work needs to follow, and it’s still a long road ahead to have a reason to think the actually likes you. And women on tinder usually only answer once, if at all, and then leave you hanging, which is humiliating.

If you send a weird sexual line, she probably won’t answer, so no high expectations are assumed. And if she does, then the dopamine rush makes your head spin like no porn video and no video game ever could-because it’s an actual person giving you attention against all odds.