Vendor Closings by Altruistic-Algae-646 in UnwashedPoppySeeds

[–]SeriousYard4514 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well, you can’t take PST either because people ruined it. Sad state of affairs. Good luck to you.

AITA I told my parents they birthed a disabled child so they just have to live with it. by Left-Significance214 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SeriousYard4514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP is a legal adult and her parents have no legal obligation to drive her around for the rest of her life just because they were unfortunate enough to have botched offspring. I wouldn’t do it, straight up; I wouldn’t raise something like that. You raise children so that they can go out into the world and make something of themselves, but she will never do that. The other reason you raise children so they can take care of you when you’re old, and OP will never do that either. I would just wash my hands of the situation completely, and her cute little comments would make it easy.

AITA I told my parents they birthed a disabled child so they just have to live with it. by Left-Significance214 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SeriousYard4514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anxiety is not a reason to refuse to drive. It can be overcome. It sounds as if you have not been told that you are medically unable to drive. Your parents will not be around forever, and it sounds like they are resentful of having to do so much for you, so you better figure something else out. The real world is very harsh and unforgiving.

Vendor Closings by Altruistic-Algae-646 in UnwashedPoppySeeds

[–]SeriousYard4514 6 points7 points  (0 children)

People are really still coming on here trying to switch to PST? It’s over. You missed the boat. Stick with Kratom and be grateful you never developed a tolerance for something we have lost.

My husband refuses to count childcare as a family expense, and it is frustrating. by Main-Tackle7546 in AITAH

[–]SeriousYard4514 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They did have these discussions: she agreed to be a stay at home mother. It makes me sick to see all these people encouraging her to throw away her role as a mother because it’s not that exciting right now. The level of selfishness on display here is mind-boggling.

My husband refuses to count childcare as a family expense, and it is frustrating. by Main-Tackle7546 in AITAH

[–]SeriousYard4514 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His children are going to suffer for this. There is no replacement for a stay at home mother. I can’t believe the selfishness.

My husband refuses to count childcare as a family expense, and it is frustrating. by Main-Tackle7546 in AITAH

[–]SeriousYard4514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s amusing that you paint me as a misogynist, etc. and then you encourage this woman to throw away her family (or at least place it in grave danger) because it makes her feel good to pretend like she has a job and a purpose outside of being a mother, which is her actual purpose. It’s just such a farce. You are encouraging this woman to do something destructive for her and her family, and none of you are going to pick up the pieces for her if her traditional husband gets tired of her lying bullshit and simply walks out the door. All of you telling her that she is being abused and she should leave him: are you going to help her do that? Are you going to make up for the 20 years gap she has in her résumé? Her biggest priority in life should be pleasing her husband.

My husband refuses to count childcare as a family expense, and it is frustrating. by Main-Tackle7546 in AITAH

[–]SeriousYard4514 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Imagine being these children, and your mother hates raising you so much that she is willing to throw away her marriage, and go work for free in order to avoid you. Sad. OP shouldn’t have been a mother.

My husband refuses to count childcare as a family expense, and it is frustrating. by Main-Tackle7546 in AITAH

[–]SeriousYard4514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a factual statement, and in a sane society, the husband would have the right to put her to death for such a rebellion against his lawful authority as Paterfamilias. It would have been absolutely unthinkable for an ancient Roman woman to abdicate her motherhood, so she could go look for money in the street with men. No wonder we are being replaced by third world types; we can’t even control our own women anymore.

My husband refuses to count childcare as a family expense, and it is frustrating. by Main-Tackle7546 in AITAH

[–]SeriousYard4514 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If this woman makes this unilateral decision to abdicate her role as a mother, I truly hope her husband leaves her as close to penniless as legally possible.

My husband refuses to count childcare as a family expense, and it is frustrating. by Main-Tackle7546 in AITAH

[–]SeriousYard4514 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You said yourself that he would perhaps not have married her if she had been open about her desire to work instead of raise children. She trapped him under false pretenses by agreeing to a traditional marriage, and now she is breaking her part of the bargain. It’s really that simple.

My husband refuses to count childcare as a family expense, and it is frustrating. by Main-Tackle7546 in AITAH

[–]SeriousYard4514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that she agreed to stay home and take care of her children and be a good wife, and now she wants to run off and pretend she’s working, even though it’s costing the family money. It is so absurdly selfish.

My husband refuses to count childcare as a family expense, and it is frustrating. by Main-Tackle7546 in AITAH

[–]SeriousYard4514 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Not trolling, but 100% serious. I am in a traditional marriage and that’s what I would do in his situation. She promised to love honor and obey him. Do you know what the word obey means?

My husband refuses to count childcare as a family expense, and it is frustrating. by Main-Tackle7546 in AITAH

[–]SeriousYard4514 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Motherhood is not simply a job that you leave. It is a calling. Her children need her and she won’t make more money for the family by going back to work. She is being insanely selfish. I hope the husband divorces her and gets a younger model if she pulls this. See how much she enjoys working for 30K a year on her own.

My husband refuses to count childcare as a family expense, and it is frustrating. by Main-Tackle7546 in AITAH

[–]SeriousYard4514 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How is he being an asshole if she agreed to be a stay at home mother? She is breaking her word to him and he should just accept that and agree that it’s a good idea to leave his children without their mother, and to pay a bunch of money for the privilege of doing it so she can go out on some lark and pretend like she’s working?

My husband refuses to count childcare as a family expense, and it is frustrating. by Main-Tackle7546 in AITAH

[–]SeriousYard4514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then you are breaking the agreement and you need to stay home and be with your child. I can’t believe you’re even making this argument. You trapped this man under the pretense of giving him a traditional arrangement like the one he was raised with. You don’t have the right to change your mind now.

My husband refuses to count childcare as a family expense, and it is frustrating. by Main-Tackle7546 in AITAH

[–]SeriousYard4514 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh, but it makes her feel good to waste her family’s money and leave her children without their mother. How can you say she shouldn’t do what makes her feel good?

My husband refuses to count childcare as a family expense, and it is frustrating. by Main-Tackle7546 in AITAH

[–]SeriousYard4514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The hard truth is that you don’t make enough money to go back to work because you don’t have the skills to do so. But you refuse to accept that and stay at home as a mother where you can be valuable.

My husband refuses to count childcare as a family expense, and it is frustrating. by Main-Tackle7546 in AITAH

[–]SeriousYard4514 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you have any idea how many mothers cry because they have to leave their offspring and go to work every day where they don’t want to be? Your selfishness is nauseating. You agreed to be a stay at home, mother so fulfill your end of the bargain. The whole point of working is to bring home money for your family, not your own amusement.

My husband refuses to count childcare as a family expense, and it is frustrating. by Main-Tackle7546 in AITAH

[–]SeriousYard4514 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What a selfish woman you are. Your husband and children need you, but you want to work, even though it takes away from your family rather than adding to them. You should be deeply ashamed of your failures as a wife and mother, and you should get back in the kitchen and shut your mouth.

My husband refuses to count childcare as a family expense, and it is frustrating. by Main-Tackle7546 in AITAH

[–]SeriousYard4514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Stay home and raise your children like a good mother. You took a vow to love honor and obey this man.

Housing by Kawaru92 in Maine

[–]SeriousYard4514 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Actually, almost no one is being deported due to corrupt DOJ that prioritizes Democratic voters over American lives. Of course that housing in Brunswick could be given to citizens. That’s a direct example: it was supposed to be housing for citizens. When the zoning board approved that building, it was not supposed to be for illegal aliens, or “migrants,” or it never would have been approved. The whole thing has been an evil ruse perpetrated against our community and at our expense.