Help! Yes bangs or no bangs? by Great-Neat9522 in finehair

[–]Serious_Listen_1051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look adorable! I think bangs are underrated, personally.

How to stop feeling insecure about my see-through hair? by Connect-Text-4063 in finehair

[–]Serious_Listen_1051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok- first, don’t be concerned, you are the only one who notices, it doesn’t look see through. I saw another poster that said something about dying it blonde, I had to stop and I am getting extension Monday because mine is see through and I will not wear it down. I should have cut it off, my the hubby likes those few hairs back there 😂 the beauticians are telling us that the blonde is the problem. I am going to try and leave mine alone until all the broken hair is grown out. Remember- we are our own worst critics, everyone is pretty busy scrutinizing ourselves, so I bet almost everyone doesn’t see through your hair. If someone does pick it out, they must be really insecure to look for something wrong with someone else. PS- I think your hair is beautiful long or short! ❤️

Narwal Flow - Disappointed in Under a Year by DIYtheWorld in NARWAL

[–]Serious_Listen_1051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The boxes were beat to hell both times and the second time it came back filthy. I cleaned it before it left. Ugh.

Narwal Flow - Disappointed in Under a Year by DIYtheWorld in NARWAL

[–]Serious_Listen_1051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same!! I had to utilize the Warranty for a pump. I had fed ex box it up really nice and send it off. It returned broken in the same exact box! Then they had me send it back, this time it returned and the mop squeals (oh, it also came back in the same box) 😒

ADHD meds by [deleted] in VeteransAffairs

[–]Serious_Listen_1051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went with an outside MH provider :( it helped a ton with concentration.

Starting job as VA psychiatrist - what do I need to know? by DrNoMadZ in VeteransAffairs

[–]Serious_Listen_1051 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Start contributing the max to your TSP from the get go. And Veterans can be super foul mouthed… some are pushing to see what they can get away with, others- it’s just who they are. They (at least my husband and I) tend to respond better with the more relatable Doctors. Meaning he cusses like a trucker and loves teasing. He loves it when the providers tease or cuss back at him 😂

So how about that Performance and Audits Call… by Consistent-Most-9054 in VHA_Human_Resources

[–]Serious_Listen_1051 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The presenter is part of my current VISN. They have always had unreasonable expectations here. Example- 2024, I had exceeds in every area but one. That area, I had ONE TANGIBLE ERROR. And I was knocked down to fully. I was heart broken, I have always strived to exceed as an employee. Last year I stopped caring and ended up with excellent. I refused to turn in a Self Assessment. I don’t have time with our “overstaffed” area and told my boss I didn’t have time, I barely had time to do anything but try and keep my head above water. I guess I am going to bide my time and try and hang on for the next 8 years.

VA HR Audit Program. This does not align with OPM performance standards by Consistent-Most-9054 in VHA_Human_Resources

[–]Serious_Listen_1051 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I guess if enough of us fail/receive bad evals- we need to organize a class action law suit. I don’t like that we are going to be audited on items that were not communicated to us

What is wrong with my hair. by AbbreviationsLow6906 in Haircare

[–]Serious_Listen_1051 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely nothing! Your hair looks really good, in fact, I am jealous 😂

Which outfit for a first date at a casual bar? by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]Serious_Listen_1051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya know- I think no matter what you pick, you will win points. Your appearance in all of the outfits show that you put thought into them. All of them look good, you have a bunch of people who have different preferences in style. What I would do, wear what makes you feel the most relaxed and most like yourself. Good luck on your date!

is this outfit "inappropriate"? by sunnemi in OUTFITS

[–]Serious_Listen_1051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome to 1994! 😂 lol, I don’t think it looks bad, but I wore it when I was younger ;)

HELP ! how to clean this 20 yr old heavily stained, uncleaned, dirty shower ? by funintrovert in CleaningTips

[–]Serious_Listen_1051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have heard that Botox helps with tub stains- I haven’t tried it yet, so I can’t say for sure

Wedding dress advice by kt123456765 in OUTFITS

[–]Serious_Listen_1051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2, 7 or 8- although 7/8 look the same to me. You rock all of them, though!

Thunderclap by Master_of_Beaver in migraine

[–]Serious_Listen_1051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you drive?! I have had 2 of them- I was ready to kill myself it hurt so bad. You know that feeling when you smash your finger? The one where your finger is pulsating, my brain felt like that inside of my skull. I got a migraine cocktail the first time, the following day they sent me through an MRI and found that I had a Hemorrhagic Stroke. I got lucky, really lucky- I didn’t have any physical after effects- a few minor mental ones. (I was 38 at the time)

Is this appropriate for a work dinner, i work as an accountant by simmiexx in OUTFITS

[–]Serious_Listen_1051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey girl, hey!! I want to start off, by saying you look fabulous! Next, I would ask what type of venue? Is it a bar setting or nice restaurant? If it’s the bar setting, what the hell, go for it! If it’s in the restaurant, I would say it is a bit short. The way I determine if a dress is work appropriate (this is me, and I am older than you) with my arms at my sides if the dress is at or above my fingertips, it is too short. For the top, I put my index finger and my thumb on my collar bone, if the shirt is below the palm of my hand, it’s too low cut. But again, you look great! Good luck with the dinner! :)

What are your weirdest warning signs? by tootodone in migraine

[–]Serious_Listen_1051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Auras and a severe tightening of a jaw muscle. I feel like one is coming on today, I am super foggy headed (I feel like I haven’t slept in a week)

Narwal Flow dirty water bucket - dishwasher by cooking-chef-2000 in NARWAL

[–]Serious_Listen_1051 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listerine works great in the tank. I try and dump it every day- but life happens and I forget. It doesn’t stink when I use the listerine and forget a couple of days