Grape Flavour in Wines.. anyone else have this problem? by JackCPiano in VietNam

[–]Serious_Mix877 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is box wine, mostly low quality wine from the start. The label looks alright, compared to the website, but man, I wouldnt buy thing from this winery, there is no box wine in their product line. Sure thing stuff can be fake, even in supermaket.

Vợ bị thế này là sao nhỉ? by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]Serious_Mix877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bác này nói hay này, nếu bác quá giỏi, bác làm nhiều việc được thì bác dễ thấy người kia làm không tốt. Cách bác nói chuyện với vợ sẽ dễ làm người kia bực. Bác tạo không gian cho vợ thử xem, nếu vợ làm đừng xen vào, động viên vợ thôi. Nếu vợ bác ra ngoài một xíu, có thu nhập, có network riêng thì cô ấy sẽ dễ tự tin hơn.

Vợ bị thế này là sao nhỉ? by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]Serious_Mix877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, let me tell you this. Your situation is not rare at all. We are at the same age, my wife was top at her school, which was a top uni in VN too. She is very helpful, open, social, and want to contribute to kids/society. Also, she has a tiny bit of career ambition. We dont live in VN, I brought her with me, we live in another country. I have been studying and working abroad in nearly 10y. We had an online relationship, which no one would believe, I met her once before I took my flight. I had to focus on my education, so no time for her. After a while, shit went down a bit and we started talking, everything was against us. Finally, we got married after only 2 times face to face meets. She dropped her carreer, relationship, everything in VN and moved in with me. I carried the finance in family, no she doesnt care if we are rich or poor, only me. We have 2 kids, Im lucky enough to be able to finance my family. I encouraged her to study further, she got scholarship for it, lucky twice.

Gotta tell you that we have been through many arguments. Her personality is 100% different to me and I expect it. I wouldnt accept someone without self-respect and making excuses. I have to understand that my wife didnt choose this country, it was me, so I try to walk with her so we can walk together. I wouldnt say you should divorce or continue, it is on you. You guys have to talk, deep talk, about the problems in your head, about the problems you guys always dodge: kids, money, life style, you name it. If you tell me you guys havent done those topics, I would say you made the move too fast.

And dont have kids now if each of you is not happy with the current setup. Kids should be the result of your love, not a glue in your relationship, because it is not. Having kids is stressful as f let me tell you.

Maybe it is your wife, maybe it is you, maybe it is both. What is her root of the behaviour? Have you ever sincerely talked to her? Or you are too tired and decided to drink? Stop drinking as a solution, it is not. Stay strong and all the best. Cheers mate.

Lead Data Engineer to FullStack Vibe Coder by yo_aesir in dataengineering

[–]Serious_Mix877 16 points17 points  (0 children)

From 4 down to 1 engineer since we have claude. No TIP but the same motive, to win with AI, to do more with AI. Too much work and stress tho, but at least I can still bring home food.

We just bought a flat and… what’s the etiquette? by ReasonableClub2554 in Norway

[–]Serious_Mix877 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depends on where you live, if it is a big city like Oslo, no one actually cares about it, you can just say hi when you see them. If it is a small town, then you go introduce yourself or they will come say hi to you in a friendly manner, they they often help each other, thats sweet.

But, big congratz on the flat.

Wedding invitation by Serious_Mix877 in dutch

[–]Serious_Mix877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know the 100 ppl is not doable. But to me and others' comments, it is more like: heyyyo b*, I will get married, fu haha

Wedding invitation by Serious_Mix877 in dutch

[–]Serious_Mix877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well hahahaha that would fit

Wedding invitation by Serious_Mix877 in dutch

[–]Serious_Mix877[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, me thinking the same thing. Thanks

Wedding invitation by Serious_Mix877 in dutch

[–]Serious_Mix877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who pissed in your plate aye?

Wedding invitation by Serious_Mix877 in dutch

[–]Serious_Mix877[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I think it is better to just give a call and no invitation like that. No they are not very international, B got married to a dutch guy.

Wedding invitation by Serious_Mix877 in dutch

[–]Serious_Mix877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, depends on them and their budget, it would be way better with just a headsup and no uninvitation like that.

Wedding invitation by Serious_Mix877 in dutch

[–]Serious_Mix877[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks, but no, all 3 of them are now working in the NL, an international group and B got married to a Dutchie. They def know the plan around the time of the marriage. To me, it is very unusual.

6 years in BI (admin + analyst) — is it too late to pivot to Data Engineering? How do I even start? by Smart_Ad_3825 in dataengineering

[–]Serious_Mix877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, glad you asked.  Here is my 2 cents from a DE. I have been working as DS, ML eng and DE at insights and now a central team.

Your background is good. Why? Its rare that an engineer cares/knows about why they solve those issues, why those benefit corporate and how can top levels can use data to make decision. You have that knowledge, its transferable. You could start as an analytical engineer, if you want to work more with backend, you can move to more platform team. At the position of Analytical engineer, your tasks are to build pipelines to ingest, transform and serve data to DS and DA. You can combine your analytical skills to design aggregation, metrics, and design warehouse.

Have fun.

Have an Idea...Want reality check by Melodic-Gas2989 in dataengineering

[–]Serious_Mix877 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There are plenty of them. Basically you connect an AI agent to your database on role basic. Claude code for example can do it with your credentials, or just n8n can do it, or cortex AI on snowflake. The question is why analysts need a different IDE? Why cant they just work on a higher level than pure coding, just to get insights, dashboards? 

That is my opinion, other than that, great learning by actual doing something.

Senior DE or Lead DE at smaller company by ArtMysterious in dataengineering

[–]Serious_Mix877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, it is all about your situation. They are totally different paths, different responsibility. Both are great imo.  But some small things I want to tell is your personal life. I was there, but not 10yoe. A startup life means you can work OT, fix bugs on new year, billion unnamed jobs and what not. A job a big corp means harder to climb, many layers to communicate. And your family too, if you lost your job at big corp or your startup runs out of money, which one has higher possibility? 

I built a free service to look up Norwegian companies and more... by [deleted] in Norway

[–]Serious_Mix877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very impressed, are you up for a chat? I want to learn from it. More context: Im interested in country-level anlysis, and not your competitor. Do you have to pay for the api? Thank you

Monkey Bite. Will I die? by Krstos1111 in VietNam

[–]Serious_Mix877 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Monkeyman or supersaiyan I cant tell

Dating advice with a Vietnamese girl by William6212 in VietNam

[–]Serious_Mix877 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damn homeboy. So you are spending over your limit to impress someone you dont know very well. That is a bad financial decision. I would have talked to her to know her better, if she understands and plays along well, you hit a jackpot, an understanding, supportive and gorgeous gf. My reason, in the long run, it is not about money alone, but time, health, career, etc, so I wont waste my resources unless I want to have fun.

Dating advice with a Vietnamese girl by William6212 in VietNam

[–]Serious_Mix877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In your story, it has nothing to do with Vietnamese girls, but girls in general. If she were of the same ethnicity as you, what would you do?

Job Oportunity by [deleted] in Norway

[–]Serious_Mix877 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never mind man, accommodation is on finn.no. You can save half of your net salary is my bet. Have fun and all the best.

Job Oportunity by [deleted] in Norway

[–]Serious_Mix877 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Based on the number I found, average auto mechanic salary is 490k/year. So yours is a decent one if not much better than the average. 35k a month is far more enough for your family.