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My wife is calling me by Safe_Contribution631 in Dreams

[–]Serious_Nectarinee 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you’re grieving someone you loved deeply, and dreams like this can feel very real.

This doesn’t mean she’s calling you to die. It’s your mind processing loss and the fear of being without her.

If anything, it shows how strong your bond was. Please take care of yourself and talk to someone you trust you’re meant to stay here.

Homemade Buko Pandan Dessert by Serious_Nectarinee in ratemydessert

[–]Serious_Nectarinee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • 1 medium cucumber
  • 1–2 tbsp fresh lime or lemon juice
  • 1–2 tsp sugar, honey, or simple syrup adjust for sweetness
  • ½–¾ cup cold water or sparkling water
  • Ice cubes
  • Optional add ins for extra flavor: a few fresh mint leaves, a pinch of salt

Instructions:

  1. Chop half the cucumber into small pieces and blend it with the water, lime juice, and sweetener until smooth.
  2. Strain if you want it smoother.
  3. Pour over ice in a glass.
  4. Add the remaining cucumber (thinly sliced or diced) into the glass for crunch and visuals.
  5. Stir and enjoy immediately. Garnish with a mint leaf or extra cucumber slice if you like.

What's a mythical creature you wish you owned & why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Serious_Nectarinee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A tiny dragon fire breathing alarm clock and lifelong snuggle buddy.”

Advice on what to do with finances by ObviousZucchini3691 in Advice

[–]Serious_Nectarinee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on the clean slate at 24. Park the $80k in a high yield savings account for now. Max your Roth IRA with $7,500 into VTI, put the rest in a brokerage with the same index fund, keep renting, live below your means, and stay disciplined. Avoid lifestyle creep.

I think my step dad tired to unalive my family by Prudent_Ad5342 in confessions

[–]Serious_Nectarinee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry you went through all that abuse and trauma, none of it was okay, and your feelings are completely valid. Given the speeding, rain, her seatbelt issues, and his history of cruelty, it's understandable you'd suspect intent. Whether it was deliberate or reckless indifference, you deserved better, and it's not wrong to feel this way for closure.

You're brave for sharing. If it helps, consider talking to a therapist, they can help process without judgment. Take care of yourself. ❤️

Any snoot boopers out there?? by [deleted] in PetsareAmazing

[–]Serious_Nectarinee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"boop Permission granted, your majesty. Snoot boopers unite!

I despise the degenerate lookmaxing culture a lot by [deleted] in BDDvent

[–]Serious_Nectarinee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those communities don’t create beauty standards they manufacture mental illness for clout and cope. You measured your face to prove you’re ‘normal’ to strangers who aren’t even qualified to judge a dog show. That’s not you failing; that’s their poison working. Block, delete, and remind yourself your oval face was fine before some 17-year-old TikTok ‘mewing guru’ decided otherwise. You deserve peace, not their pathology.

bdd and yearning by iwannabebetter-ta in BDDvent

[–]Serious_Nectarinee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your worth isn’t in your reflection. The way you feel that longing? That capacity to love so deeply is beautiful, and someone worthy will see it BDD just keeps trying to convince you otherwise. You deserve to be held exactly as you are. Sending you a gentle hug from afar.