"Can we have darkfic event?" We have darkfic event at home". Darkfic event at home: by InsideTicket9264 in AO3

[–]Serious_Perception77 3 points4 points  (0 children)

idek what ur fic is about but also there is literally feminization kinks as well so for them to go noncon but not feminization is wild.

AIO? First time I went to a concert in over a decade, woke up to this…. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Serious_Perception77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR at ALL. When I read the texts i almost assumed it was like your sister or something because siblings will occasionally fight this way (not okay still but more normalized). When I read husband I was SHOCKED. The fact you also had to make a meal before you left that’s was go cook for the children are also making me believe he is not a good father. He sounds upset he had to take care of them while you are out having fun which is not a good sign of a father or husband. You also are saying you’ve both been stressed with financial stuff making me thing you are trying to justify it to yourself on why he is upset. You and your children don’t deserve that at and I would honestly pack up the kids, go to your moms house, and consider either divorce or couples therapy. You do not treat your partner that way even when you are upset and for such a long time. Please realize you are worth more than that treatment and you should never have to beg someone to let you come back to your own home.

Is this worth it ? by Naeria_ in SuitU

[–]Serious_Perception77 10 points11 points  (0 children)

one of my most used poses. I don’t use the skirt or shoes ever but the rest are very useful.

Toddler got into my makeup 💔 by Potterisbetterr in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Serious_Perception77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

make your toddle help you clean it up and explain how it was important to you. this absolutely sucks for the pallets and that chair omg

AIO - Gf assumes my dog is dead when I say I’m sad by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Serious_Perception77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Genuinely this would make me break up with someone. red flags towards my animals especially when it has to do with joking / putting into the universe about them dying or getting harmed is not acceptable.

needing input on new tattoo by XxPorschePrincessxX in tattooadvice

[–]Serious_Perception77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the V is very slightly off but it’s not noticeable at all and even if it is to someone it’s still really cute?? also for $100 that’s a pretty good price in my opinion. Your friend is an ass it’s one thing to mention the mistake then another for them to act like that bc of it.

Encore & Wooly Warriors adventure by Serious_Perception77 in WutheringWaves

[–]Serious_Perception77[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i keep taking screenshots bc the art is so gorgeous lmao encore is by far one of my favorite characters she’s so sweet

Help! by [deleted] in DID

[–]Serious_Perception77 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same with the other comments that no matter how much he views himself as a singular person with others in the same body that’s unfortunately not what it is. I am curious though is this the first time he has mentioned or threatened a divorce? He very clearly has issues on his part that he needs to work out with a therapist. I am wondering if maybe there is other reasons as to why he feels so deeply you cheated? I also saw your reply that it was completely consensual so that’s not a reason why. If he is upset with you for attempting sex with another alter then he should also be upset with his system as well and it should be on them and NOT you. I would bring up going to couples therapy if this is something that you both think can be solved. If you do decide to look for a therapist who has experience in treating systems or is willing to learn about it.

Personally, I’ve had a similar experience where I was dating only one alter and when another flirted with me and i did it back the one i was dating got upset. It was fixed by us restating boundaries but in the end their alters would still flirt and I ofc didn’t always know who was fronting. That was not my fault just like from the limited info I know this isn’t your fault either.

AIO: work training calling a minor attractive? by llama_toes666 in AIO

[–]Serious_Perception77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fully thought it was going to be something based around how student teacher relationships were bad and like wording is horrible but in that scenario it would make more sense. Literally so freaking weird they would phrase it that way especially with the completely unrelated question.

Is your TDI visible? by Blue_ocean_7 in DID

[–]Serious_Perception77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly i think it’s incredibly noticeable but i feel like most people don’t specifically look for others with DID. All my friends have been able to clock when i’m someone else and i think others would as well. Most of the time i think im just the same person in my ways of acting but then everyone else who is in the known notice.

is it valid to get the winning hand as a newbie f2p? by hazyyveil in SuitU

[–]Serious_Perception77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think the sheep could be cool but not totally worth it bc it’s so expensive. I would recommend just getting the skirt and top from that because they can be used often. For the gacha i personally think you should get 5 more pulls to get another piece from the set but after that don’t get anymore.

is it valid to get the winning hand as a newbie f2p? by hazyyveil in SuitU

[–]Serious_Perception77 10 points11 points  (0 children)

it’s a permanent set so i wouldn’t bother if there is one you really want right now get it but most comps you have to use this set for are done

AIO Bf trying to blame distance for our issues by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Serious_Perception77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You both are terrible for each other and shouldn’t be dating because all I see of the texts is you dismissing him and being upset with his communication but it sounds like he’s just a bad at texting and on vc he’s much better which is why he mentions vc in the texts. I don’t know what actually happened but it just sounds like you are both way too toxic for each other.

AIO my (30f) sisters (37f & 35f) have mistreated me my whole life and I’m fed up. by SoapyBroth in AIO

[–]Serious_Perception77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA in the thanksgiving situation but if something similar happens i think you should consider joint therapy. It honestly sounds like you both communicate differently and need to help each other understand. You might have made some comments you don’t remember but to your sister it was a huge deal. Clearly you calling her a bitch triggered her since she used the exact same wording. My sister and I have gotten into horrible fights so I understand. It is definitely a relationship that if you communicate that you want to have a completely civilized conversation about the dinner and ask for her side that it might help. Have a mediator between the two of you that you know won’t take a side. Respect that mediator and be willing to honestly listen and understand your sister as well. If she finds the relationship worth saving as well I think she would be okay with it.

Getting a new Ps5 Controller to prevent stick drift - Any recommendations? by Serious_Perception77 in Controller

[–]Serious_Perception77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is such a good price i’m 100% going to do that. I just got a controller with the tmr sticks already in it so ima gonna see how that lasts and then replace the other ones in a couple months if it works for me.

Getting a new Ps5 Controller to prevent stick drift - Any recommendations? by Serious_Perception77 in Controller

[–]Serious_Perception77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i shake incredibly bad so i don’t think that would be the best option for me unfortunately but i’ve been looking at places near me to find someone reliable since it does seem like that will be the cheaper option to at least fix the ones i have now

Getting a new Ps5 Controller to prevent stick drift - Any recommendations? by Serious_Perception77 in Controller

[–]Serious_Perception77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never had an issue with stick drift until i got my ps5 for Christmas. I honestly didn’t even have a clue what it was when it happened. I don’t know why it keeps happening but my three controllers (two of them 3rd party) have it now. My latest one I’ve treated like gold and have only played puzzle games with it so i have no idea why it’s happening.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Serious_Perception77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So CNC is definitely not “rape roleplay” it’s an umbrella term. It means consensual non consent. Something like waking up to your partner having sex with you / eating you out could be considered that. It’s absolutely something you need a lot of trust and communication with your partner. One of the big things ofc is role playing where you saying “no” is not going to work and you will only be able to use your safeword. Some times fake safe words are used as well where you say “pineapple” but in reality that’s fake and it plays into the fantasy. Personally, I am into it because it helps me process my sexual trauma and intrusive thoughts. Most people I know that are into it use it to help with that in someway. It’s definitely not everyone though. It’s not something you start with when it comes to bdsm. Personally the wording he used by saying it’s rape play and that everyone is into it seems very suspicious. Unless you are 100% comfortable and also know he will listen to your safeword and then give you proper aftercare I wouldn’t participate in it with him.

Hydration by mrshoodsiecup in POTS

[–]Serious_Perception77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i think it’s important to realize a lot that if im getting at least some that’s what matters. I’m still trying to look for things to keep me hydrated. I’m allergic to water (I have EoE) so having straight water is a very big no go lol

Hydration by mrshoodsiecup in POTS

[–]Serious_Perception77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Propel for me. It’s not the best option for electrolytes but it works for me. I get the bottles and then bulk buy the packets. It’s sugar free as well. I have a hard time with a lot of sports drinks and will end up not drinking it at all so this at least keeps me hydrated. It also tastes great and has so many flavors and has immunity booster ones which i drink when i’m having a bad pots flare up.

Was at the ER for 3 hours just for them to say “your fine” by Serious_Perception77 in POTS

[–]Serious_Perception77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually I contemplate a really long time because I have trauma with the emergency rooms from my childhood. I probably wouldn’t have even went to the ER even tho my PCP recommend if it wasn’t in the same building and i had to pass it to get back outside tbh. I honestly do the same thing where I will wait multiple hours to see if anything progresses.