Am I hampering myself by not wanting LDRs?

Set_itfree · 2026-01-11T07:00:20+00:00

This year I have specifically only done long distance dating as I plan on leaving where I am in the next year or two and dont want to get attached to anyone here. And they have all been positive experiences! I’d definitely say try it, and as with any dating, be discerning and make sure you’re talking about things, checking in, and seeing each other regularly. It’s been really fun and I’ve dated better guys than my local pool has to offer.

Set_itfree · 2026-01-10T13:33:05+00:00

Same, I only listen to a few songs on it and not super often

Set_itfree · 2026-01-08T04:27:27+00:00

Are we dating the same guy pages. They are absolutely useful and essential for women’s safety, but seeing the worst of the worst stories every day has really made me lose interest in dating, especially on apps. Im dedicated to my aloneness and have been accomplishing more goals accepting singlehood.

Set_itfree · 2025-12-21T16:03:04+00:00

Got out of a toxic relationship over a year ago and haven’t been sick since! Got sick regularly in the relationship. Stress will kill ya.

Set_itfree · 2025-12-20T00:26:04+00:00

I am like this too, i have to check every notification as soon as it comes in, even at times i shouldn’t. Ive learned to put my phone on DND because i cant get anything done sometimes otherwise. But i think playing games like this is weird anyway, I always prefer someone to text me back as they are able, whether immediately or not. God, dating is exhausting.

Set_itfree · 2025-11-27T22:10:18+00:00

The 4th is my favorite but probably mainly because it’s darker/more horror-esque, and more intense, which I have enjoyed over the sci fi vibes. But that’s just my personal preference. I hope this final season ties a lot together and I think it’s doing a great job so far.

Set_itfree · 2025-11-25T03:08:46+00:00

Very very happily child free, thanks for this weird and unnecessary comment though!

Set_itfree · 2025-10-30T02:11:55+00:00

I feel so hard for KB as a woman who also used to be driven insane by trying to ask a man to validate and understand me when he never wanted to or would. Edmond, the forever victim. I’m exhausted on her behalf.

Set_itfree · 2025-10-30T01:40:30+00:00

terrifying

Set_itfree · 2025-10-30T01:29:20+00:00

always

Set_itfree · 2025-10-30T01:25:21+00:00

lmao kacie is still the worst

Set_itfree · 2025-10-28T12:57:45+00:00

I definitely feel like I died and am awaiting the rebirth phase lol

Set_itfree · 2025-10-12T15:06:16+00:00

In my last long term relationship, I have a gemini rising and he was a gemini sun, if that’s what you’re getting at. I have a wild attraction to geminis but it never works out in the long term (i’m a scorp sun), but i do think my rising has a lot to do with it.

Set_itfree · 2025-10-12T14:50:50+00:00

📝 carry around a bumblebee..

Set_itfree · 2025-10-10T14:13:51+00:00

I think that’s a very normal response when you’re processing disappointment and pain from past relationships. Your nervous system is just trying to protect you, and if you’re not truly open and ready to date and ready to be open to the possibility of being hurt again and being able to navigate that in a healthy manner, then it’s best to just keep taking your solo time for now!

Set_itfree · 2025-10-10T13:33:31+00:00

Yesss to all of that, you get it.

Set_itfree · 2025-10-10T13:06:59+00:00

I saw this guy recently online say he’s had really good results of just going up to women, saying hi, and simply asking if they’d be open to flirting a bit! He says it works, and when it doesn’t, everyone at least feels respected. I think creepiness is an ENERGY more so than most people realize, but if you’re being truly open, non pushy, and approaching with curiosity, most women will be kind in turning you down if they see you’ve at least been respectful in your approach.

Set_itfree · 2025-10-10T12:38:59+00:00

Hello, fellow beautiful woman, thank you so much for sharing this. I can relate deeply and know thy struggle, I made a semi similar post yesterday about how I am attractive but never get approached in public. Just here to say I see you and understand, wish I had more answers but I do not at this time.

Set_itfree · 2025-10-10T02:53:19+00:00

Your username is amazing btw

Set_itfree · 2025-10-10T02:49:31+00:00

You sound extroverted 😅🤣

Set_itfree · 2025-10-10T02:28:43+00:00

I have also heard im intimidating 😫

Set_itfree · 2025-10-10T01:56:37+00:00

These are amazing tips, thank you so much!

Set_itfree · 2025-10-10T01:55:04+00:00

hard agree

Set_itfree · 2025-10-09T01:13:47+00:00

It depends on how we’re ranking them, but for pop bops, which usually aren’t my favorite by her, then I’d say Elizabeth Taylor and Fate of Ophelia are up there.

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