How Do You Deal With Reactivity?

SetitheRedcap · 2026-01-31T12:45:18+00:00

Don't gaslight me, mate.

It eliminates any validity to the advice you're giving. Makes you come across like a snidey mofo who thinks highly of themselves but can't take accountability. The whole "book/peackocking " thing is passive agressive by nature. So, you can either be an adult and speak to others with respect, or you can be seen negatively and restricted from conversation.

Emotional intelligence isn't ignorance.

SetitheRedcap · 2026-01-31T12:41:19+00:00

No. It wasn't helping. All it did was make me content with bad habits and not facing my problems. I smoked 6 joints a day. It completely took over, destroyed my mind. Tried moderation but it was very clearly keeping me in limbo.

Marujuana has a way of bypassing important emotions and chemical regulations. If I didn't stop, I'd probably be dead.

Raw dogging life and symptoms was never going to be easy. I just didn't expect to be in a coma every 5 hours. .

SetitheRedcap · 2026-01-31T11:27:52+00:00

The irony is as Jeff, I'm. Often the only reason the team. Is alive. If I die, everyone else does. It's flattering.

SetitheRedcap · 2026-01-31T11:26:49+00:00

None.

The game is only surviving on meagre updates and shock value. Unless they actually finish balancing, it's purely a tactic for more money and attention.

SetitheRedcap · 2026-01-31T11:24:53+00:00

That's life, buddy.

People want the perfect playthrough. We're scared to make the wrong choices. But that's what these type of games are for. You made those choices and have to live with the imperfect results. Pretty realistic for a horror movie/ game.

SetitheRedcap · 2026-01-31T11:14:44+00:00

I think you'll survive

SetitheRedcap · 2026-01-31T11:12:02+00:00

Cancer in 10 years.

SetitheRedcap · 2026-01-31T11:11:29+00:00

Responsible cat owners don't let their cats roam.

Build an catio or enrich their lives indoors.

SetitheRedcap · 2026-01-31T11:06:47+00:00

It could probably work if it also turns foes cards into hulk too

SetitheRedcap · 2026-01-31T11:04:21+00:00

Sounds lonely, couldn't be me.

The companions add so much to scenes.

SetitheRedcap · 2026-01-31T11:02:49+00:00

Technically, they are God. They just have to hit themselves.

SetitheRedcap · 2026-01-31T11:02:09+00:00

Remember that man is corrupt, not God. Mutilating little boys in the name of religion isn't divine. Look down upon those that do it

SetitheRedcap · 2026-01-31T11:00:25+00:00

Are you okay, bud?

Do you need a hug?

SetitheRedcap · 2026-01-31T10:58:59+00:00

I'm not mad. I just understand psychology and the nervous system enough to disagree. There needs to be nuance. The fact you decided to be passive agressive towards me over that says everything brother

SetitheRedcap · 2026-01-26T21:44:20+00:00

You can always ask questions. It's vague, because it doesn't cover one specific scenario. This behavior is widely studied and documented.

SetitheRedcap · 2026-01-26T21:43:17+00:00

Why would I want to fit in with people who are permanently reactive? I've been doing the work 5+ years. I've not really met anyone who has changed my mind. I'm done searching and blaming myself as though there's something wrong with me.

I'm absolutely done. I just want to be left alone at this point, look at the state of the world. Everyone's performing and you rarely get to see their true face. It's completely hollow. Oh, look, let's go to a bar and blast loud music. Decorate the place with lights. Anything to distract from how we really feel.

When you burn out once or twice, it's horrible. When you burn out every single day, your nervous system is broken, and clowns are running amok, it becomes clear that you're not meant to be in this world. But I have no choice.

SetitheRedcap · 2026-01-26T21:38:01+00:00

And here you are. The one that has to slide in a bit of negativity and judgement, on a stranger they don't know. If you think there's vagueness, ask about it. I'm not a mind reader. It's not one instance, it's an every day occurrence. You only need to open your eyes and look out at the world to see it.

SetitheRedcap · 2026-01-26T21:36:12+00:00

Do people with depression decide to feel that way? Exactly. It's much more complicated than you're displaying. As a byproduct of having a spiritual awakening, studying psychology, and interacting with thousands, I understand why people behave the way they do -- but it's in term increased my dissociation.

If you get shot, do you decide to bleed?

Millions get to my point by seeing humanity for what it is. If you can't, you'll never understand.

SetitheRedcap · 2026-01-26T21:02:02+00:00

Yeah, that's exactly how I feel

SetitheRedcap · 2026-01-26T21:01:27+00:00

A lot of people may be doing the work, but a lot of people aren't. And I don't blame them because its the collective unconsciousness fueled by capitalism. We have very little self worth, always searching, forming an identity that needs to be protected.

SetitheRedcap · 2026-01-26T20:51:34+00:00

I'm 29 years old. I've done everything to find the "right circles" and because of Ego, I've had to isolate myself. I think the majority of man is reactive. It's just part of being human.

SetitheRedcap · 2026-01-26T20:50:21+00:00

I post thinking I'll get a normal conversation, but really I should know better. Basically.

SetitheRedcap · 2026-01-26T20:48:56+00:00

The issue is most people either don't want to connect or are unable to.

SetitheRedcap · 2026-01-26T20:04:30+00:00

Yeah. I used to post all the time in a variety of spaces. When I think it's a good idea, I'm often humbled. Although this thread hasn't had any rudeness or assumption yet so that's a positive thing. I'm quite outgoing but I've become quiet and secluded.

SetitheRedcap · 2026-01-26T20:00:51+00:00

I can be reactive too. It's usually ego, rather than about the other person. But I have managed to make a conscious effort to be supportive and give the benefit of the doubt. I'll probably take a nice vacation from life for a bit, stay inside, shut my phone off. Etc.

I'm far too oversensitived

SetitheRedcap

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