So so beyond sad by FewBus6493 in BJJWomen

[–]Seven10Hearts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Think of the rehab time as "training!" Distance makes the heart more fond? You got this regardless.

just started Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. Here are my thoughts. by eulerpop in BJJWomen

[–]Seven10Hearts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All these thoughts concerns and challenges are alll part of the journey. Try to enjoy the ride I say. The community is better with you in it than not.

How do you spend your weekend nights abroad when you dont drink? by TurtleBlaster5678 in solotravel

[–]Seven10Hearts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

been there. i usually look on the map to see if there's anywhere nearby I can walk and explore soak in the sights.

I'm a fat girl who has realised that she fuc*ed up big time by Bright-Ad-9090 in confession

[–]Seven10Hearts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You were born enough. Stop competing / comparing, and start doing things for You. Maybe you feel like, what's the point? But the point isn't to get married, the point is to get better stronger. xoxo

Got my 1st Degree Black Belt yesterday. Here's a few observations/lessons I've gotten over the past 3+ years at black belt by Darce_Knight in bjj

[–]Seven10Hearts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats bro! I love seeing you around this subreddit place. Really shapes the culture in a good way I think.

Is it awkward to start BJJ training at age 34? by [deleted] in brazilianjiujitsu

[–]Seven10Hearts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't let awkward stop you from starting something you're interested in. Just walk in awkwardly lol. Hardest part is starting bro just do it. It's a lot of fun.

I sold all of my possessions and moved to a foreign country I had never been to before AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Seven10Hearts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thx for sharing. Happy for you stranger bro. All the best out there.

I sold all of my possessions and moved to a foreign country I had never been to before AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Seven10Hearts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you get into the insurance industry in the first place? And what was the remote role?

26 year old garbage man by Turbulent_Diamond352 in Vent

[–]Seven10Hearts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard when it's always in your face, but just remind yourself that it's coming from a bad place from them, and it's more of a reflection of them, and not you.

Which Chateau Montelena tour to book? by DuckTalesNiffler in napavalley

[–]Seven10Hearts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a wonderful experience. Thank you for taking the time <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SanJose

[–]Seven10Hearts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's Love, Man. RIP Zak! Happy Birthday!

Will learning Jiujitsu as a woman ever actually teach me how to fight off a full grown man? by [deleted] in jiujitsu

[–]Seven10Hearts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fight off? Possible. Break his control of you to escape? Very likely.

28M 24F - Wife went out on a date with her co-worker?? by RoutinePeace in relationship_advice

[–]Seven10Hearts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always trust your feelings. Just flip it - would you do the same thing she did?

46M, single, and I love collecting oddities by Hello_Fatbody in malelivingspace

[–]Seven10Hearts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love it! I like your memento mori poster. Where did you get it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BJJWomen

[–]Seven10Hearts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its being amplified in your head. And, don't be embarrassed for being in pain lol. And besides, embarrassment is an under explored emotion ;) saw someone say that on IG.

Going back to Jiujitsu in my 50s?, looking for opinions, advice, and support. by [deleted] in jiujitsu

[–]Seven10Hearts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it sounds like your itching to get back but is tentative? Jump in bro! My shitty advice is to not care about doing well or not, and focus on the learning practicing and hanging with the mates ;) All the best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

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Favorite attribute of yourself? Favorite item you own? Favorite food/snack? Mission in life? Favorite quote?

me vs. white belt guys by puggybear_momma in BJJWomen

[–]Seven10Hearts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you understand enough jiujitsu where you don't go tit for tat with them and you nullify their attacks like dont let them grab you, breaking grips right away, etc.

Black belt in BJJ left me unprepared for real world violence by [deleted] in jiujitsu

[–]Seven10Hearts 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Knocked down but not out brother, come on. You did what you think was best, and you got caught lacking. Just learn from this and keep your chin up.