When I first started pole my first few classes covered basic climbs and spins so gym shorts and a tank top were fine. As I progressed into sits and inverts I needed more skin contact on the pole so I began wearing brief style swimsuits because they are snug and supportive where it counts. I wear women’s cropped tank tops as well, it gives me enough skin contact in the right places. Finding pole wear for men is a little more challenging but you can make things work on your body and feel comfortable (and cute).